still get a spanking,Am I too old for a spanking?

[geborgenheid]

i am a boy from  16.Two days ago i received an over the knee spanking from my mom.I stilll get occasionly a spanking.
i deserved a punishment.My behaviour is bad the last time.It id maybe stupid but I accept the spankings.
I feel much better after it.Les quilty.The spanking itself was awful.But again.I am a now 16.I feel a bit a shamed that i still get it.i feel like i am the only one of this age who get a spanking.So i want to know if theer other boys of my age who still get it.is it okay do you think,that I feel less quilty after the punishmment.Amd I feel a better.My behavoiour nedede tot be corrected.But I don;t knoe any othert boy who also get that punishmnent.My folks are very strict.i love them.My mom gave me an over the spanking on my briefs.
peter(16)

[hangman1951]

I did not say that you should continue to get spankings. - I said that, if given, spankings should stop at age 10.  As you get older, the end result of a spanking is humiliation and resentment.  Besides, taking away privileges and "grounding" of pre-teens and teenagers is ultimately more effective in the long run than spanking.  
More recent studies show that children spanked into their teens are likely to be more capable of domestic violence than those who were never spanked or had their spankings stopped at a relatively young age.

[hangman1951]

At 16, you are much too old to be getting spankings.  There are other methods of punishment that would give you the idea that your actions are unacceptable to your parents.  Grounding or a suspension of whatever privileges you enjoy would be more to the point for whatever offenses you are committing to receive punishment.  Having suffered spankings at age 18 myself, humiliation and resentment are more often the result of spankings received after a child turns 10 years of age.

[dnoyes123]

When I was growing up, my mom always gave me a good spanking whennever I wa naughty.  Mom spanked me in my teenage years and the two spankings that I wil never forget were when I was 16, which I  thought at the time would be my last spanking.  I was wrong!  Three years later, just two days after   my 19th birthday, I went over mom's knee and had my bottom spanked again.  I was always obedient when mom told me I was getting a spanking, ansd never gave her any resistance whenI was turned over her knee,  A spanking over mom's knee felt both bad and good.  Bad because when mom spanked it made it feel like I had a fire in my pants but I knew it was a spanking, and spankings are supposed to hurt.  Good, because I was being spanked by the lady who bored me, and loved and cared about me.  When I was over mom's knee, I had a safe and secure feeling, that I believe helped establish a stong bond between my mother and me.  It was never anything sexual, just a good spanking I deserved right across mom's  lap.

[geborgenheid]

thanks for your /feedback

Did I misunderstood you?you wrote to me that my spankingdays are brhind me because i am 16??
I think i understood it well.that mom and dad can continue punish me with a span king??I was a couple a days ago littlle upset,because of my age.And that none of my friends(??)or claasmates of my age get it.
So It i understood you well,Mom and dad may continue with giving me a spamking,because I feel better after a soanking?and less quilty .You are right,i ""agree"" with it because I know that my benaviour needed to be corrected.(after sverl warnings.)
I received the spanking over mom's knee(embarrassed).She gave it with the hand.I think about 15 spanks.I get a lecture before the spanking.She lowered my jeans,and i got the spanking on my briefs it took 20 minutes.so before i was put over her knee.i ws told why i was getiing a  punishment and also"":ÿou are getting a spanking for........"".I am always  a bit scared,before the spanking stars,.it ended almost in teers.No marks or so Just a sore bottom.i can live with that.thats a part of the punishment.No problem with that..
I agree/accept a spanking because as I said I feel better,less guilty opposite  my folks.,and i know what i have done(my nisbehaviour)
i cry during and after rthe spanking,but my folks never let marks on my backside.i am gettin the spankings on my room.(mom and i,or dad and I).
mom beat me hard.i received it because of my behaviour(lying,coming home much too late,drinking and smoking)I hope that I understood uou well.because i am going talk with mom ar dad
I am a boy from 16,but it sounds crazy.for me it (still)works,is that sick.i don:y knoe.mom and dad are loverly.But sometimes I neede a good lesson.
thanks,
peter
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