Am I pregnant?

[xxtiffiexx]

My guy friend and I are both 16 and exactly a month ago from today we had sex for the first time with eachother. we used a condom but i dont think hes as experienced as he acts so i think maybe he didn't leave any or enough room at the tip of the condom for his stuff. or maybe the condom was expired, or it just ripped. i dont know if maybe it was to small because i suppose hes bigger than average. anyways. he seemed nervous when he was taking off the condom and later on i noticed i still felt...wet...and not in a typical way. more like i had his stuff in me even though we used a condom. the next day we were talking and i was just saying how my mom gives me freedom shes happy if im not pregnant or on drugs. and he just said "well, you could be pregnant.." and i ignored it until the next day and he said he was kidding. i am on birth control and my period is due between this monday or wednesday coming up. for a couple weeks i've been extremely exhausted constantly. i am getting headaches every day, am more moody, my back hurts and my boobs hurt...it started off a little sore but its getting worse and it doesn't happen often. usually only a little and only from wearing a bra. my stomach is feeling weird today im getting a tiny pain. i'm a lot more thirsty and i'm peeing atleast every hour. ive noticed since 12/20/11("the day") that once or twice when i went pee i noticed a little spot of blood on the toilet paper. i'm having a little discharge but i dont know if its from my period suppost to be coming. i feel a lot more hot lately. i got my period a few days after we did it. im really bloated now...like very. and i think my boobs are swelling a little and the veins in them are showing more. i dont know what to do. another friend said hed help me get a pregnancy test but i dont even know if i can yet and get an accurate result...can i? i have no idea how to tell him. i only told 2 or 3 friends about this and they say i need to tell him even before i know for sure but i dont want to put him through what im going through if i dont have to. please help me

[xxtiffiexx]

thanks. and im sorry about you about you and your bf. yeah i know i have to tell my mom and i dont think she will freak but i havent even admitted to having lost my virginity yet...but she has her suspicions lol. for you, your tests may have been to soon? yeah ill take a test as soon as i can. thank you and best of luck to you to

[lucky13pebbles]

I know what your going through....my bf and i just broke up but we had unprotected sex not too long ago and now im starting to feel like im pregnant...i went and got 2 urine test and a blood test all in which came back negative so i thought right on im not preggers but then this morning i got sick in the morning and noticed a bit of blood when i wiped...so im thinking they might have been false negatives...so definately go get a pregnancy test ...and dont tell him until you know for sure otherwise he will be stressing out just as bad if not worse than you are and as far as your mom goes..tell her she just wants to know her baby girl is being truthful i told my mom i might be and she is helping me pay to get another pregnancy test here in a couple days...best of luck to you hun

[xxtiffiexx]

ok thank you. i dont know how im going to get one without my mom finding out but i just had a birthday so i have some money, i'm going to try. i just dont want to tell the guy or my mom until im sure.

[xxtiffiexx]

it seemed different but i didnt think anything of it at the time. but i knew i was really irritated because my friend called saying him and his dad(a different friend, we always hang out, hes like a brother to me) could pick me up to sleep over so i was packing and noticed i was bleeding and it seems like every time i sleep over there my period comes haha. it lasted longer but it started earlier. now that im learning more about pregnancy im wondering if its possible i had implantation spotting then my real period..if thats even possible.

[lilbit_17]

You should be able to take a test now and get an accurate result since its been over two weeks since sex.

[Carito275]

was it a normal period or did it seemed a little off?

[xxtiffiexx]

^actually online i saw your mostly likely to get pregnant from a certain time to a week before your next period...i wasn't due until that Wednesday but i got it friday, i had sex tuesday which is about a week before the expected period. i am wondering if maybe the early period was a sign? i dont know i see so much online i dont know how much is true but i dont want to exclude anything either...i need to find out asap

[xxtiffiexx]

im having a hard time figuring out if i was ovulating or if i maybe there was a random egg. im due for my period sometime between monday-wednesday (about 1/3/12). i am on birth control so im fairly regular. in december (12-20 we did it) i got my period a couple days early and i remember because i slept over my friends and was pissed i started early. so that would mean i started my period 12/23. could it be possible that i was ovulating? im trying to figure this all out :/

[xxtiffiexx]

im so scared :/ i know i have to do it though. do you really think it will turn out better if i tell him before im sure than it would if i told him when i was sure? i just dont want him to freak and be an *** and not talk to me especially if its a false alarm :/

[junebug19]

get a pregnancytest. honey,  tell him before he finds out by a friend or you putting the test in his hand. i know with what you mean..