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Can she be pregnate?

Okay so I've been losing sleep over this, my gf and I had sex on December 3 with a condom and I didn't ejaculate there was just precum inside and there was no breakage or tears that I could see. And then I took it off washed my penis and my hands and then started touching her. About 3 hours later she bled red because of the rough hard sex I was thinking. And then a week later she started bleeding brown then it was red then light brown and it was lighter than her period and heavier than a spot she thinks. It lasted 6 days. She hasn't had tender breasts or dark nipples just that bleeding she dosent know if it was her period. Her period was off the first time we had sex by about 5 days give or take. And she was supposed to get her period on the 25 of dec and still hasn't Goten it. But the last 2 nights she hasn't been able to sleep well when I looked it up it won't tell me when pregnancy insomnia starts. I'm hoping some1 knows what's going on wether your a doctor or just a person that knows. Please help. I need to ease my mind.
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1194973 tn?1385503904
I've been pregnant twice and have never had any form of sensitivity while urinating (I assume by sensitivity you refer to pain). Pregnancy doesn't affect the urethra in that way, as the two are not connected. You might go more often, but it won't hurt. Regardless of how in the moment you are, it's vital that you protect yourself. Sex isn't a game, and it should never be taken lightly. With the amount of disease in teenagers and young adults (estimated that 1 in 4 have an STD), it's not worth it. Your health is far more important than any of that. Is it worth having an unplanned child, or an STD that will never go away? Herpes, HIV/AIDS, HPV and Hepatitis B don't have a quick cure like some of the others do. All of these can affect your fertility and some are fatal. Think about your actions before you do them, or you will end up in a place you do not want to be.
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my bestfriend thats pregnant went to the doctor and i told her to tell her doctor about the sensitivity and she did  but the doctor told her to dont worried about that it just her body making changes cause she pregnant.so that got me really confuse also.im guessing her doctore dont knw what she talking about
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thanks that helps alot No im not tryna to get pregnant im to young for kids i just tend to get in the moment without thinking of the possibility of getting pregnant...i figued it was an infection but the only reason i was concern because two of my friends are pregnant and they had the sensitivity but thanks you very much thats a load off my shoulder...
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I honestly won't be able to tell you anything that hasn't already been said. Anytime you have sex protected or not you risk pregnancy. Yes condoms and such can reduce the odds, but nothing outside of abstinence is a 100% guarantee. If you decide to engage in sex, those are risks that you have to accept and deal with - the purpose of sex is reproduction, hence why it happens. She needs to take a pregnancy test and go from there. Her symptoms mean absolutely nothing, because insomnia is not by any means only related to pregnancy. There isn't even a guarantee that she will have these symptoms, because there's no rule that says a pregnant female has to have symptoms.
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Can you help me?
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1194973 tn?1385503904
Anytime you have sex pregnancy is possible. Sensitivity while urinating however is NOT a symptom of pregnancy. It's due to an infection. Get yourself to a doctor and get looked at. Unless you're also trying to get pregnant (any posts asking how to conceive will be removed from this forum per the mods) you should be using condoms and birth control.
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Hay can you help me hi I'm 19yr & me & my boyfriend had unprotected sex on sat and sunday back to back even before sat & sunday we had unprotected sex he cam in me, these pass days I been having sensitivity during urination & wen I finish I wiped myself & there was very light bleeding & lately I can't really sleep on my stomach cuz I feel a strong pressure when lay on my stomach it hurts ,my bestfriend & her sister are both pregnant & they both have the sensitivity during urinating but they didn't have any bleeding I'm so confuse can you pleases help me...am I pregnant?  
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No problem. Yeah, most likely the stress of the fighting, and being scared she's pregnant is probably the cause of it all. :) Good luck!
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Okay thank you very much. She has been under stress lately from her family fighting and all that .
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Okay, if the condom didn't break, you're about 99% positive that the condom protected a possible pregnancy. If you washed your hands, and your penis..your probably okay there too. And, she most likely bled from either losing her virginity if she was a virgin before, or from rough sex. Most likely the reason for her losing sleep is that she's nervous and scared that she may be pregnant.. Most likely that was her period also. She's probably just freaking out over the fact of THINKING she's pregnant.. that can mess up everything! just being worked up over the situation she can lose sleep, her period can come late, she can 'feel' pregnant just because it's nervewracking. You guys should be in the clear, but if you really want some accurate answers, try taking an at home pregnancy test in a week or so. Make sure it's the first pee in the morning, and no liquids an hour before sleep or any during the night until after you've taken the test. That'll be as accurate as it'll get. Or if anything, go to a doctor. That's gunna give you EXACT answers.. Be careful guys, i need to be careful myself..don't worry :S
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We have one but it's in her locker at school
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583196 tn?1429221155
get her a home pregnancy test to ease your mind.
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Help please!
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