Hello,
Okay well first of all, I've never had actual intercourse but I'm still concerned. When my boyfriend and I mess around the only thing I do is hand jobs. When he ejaculates, he ejaculates in his hand and then he'll wipe it off somewhere. He generally then won't touch my vagina unless it's outside the jeans. I've heard that sperm doesn't die when it hits air and that it can go through clothing so now I'm worried. I generally have an irregular period, I only seem to get one every 2 months, and I just started mine again. I have always had a heavy flow but this time it's very light. I know that when some women are pregnant they still get vaginal bleeding that seems like a period but isn't. Am I pregnant or is something else? Please help!