Could I be pregnant? Please help!

[Ladii_Reggii]

Hey, How are you. Im a 17 yr old female who recently decided to lose my verginity July 30,2009! Me and the guy used a rubber and it had broken around the time he started to climax. We did it again July 31,2009 and the same thing happened. This was right after my period and I was told that that is the time when women are the least fertile! So abut a month has past and I still came on my cycle but I know that most women still come on their period during pregnancy! My mom bled the first 3 months of her pregnancy while pregnant with me, and bled the whle time while pregnant with my sister. The same as my aunts with atleast one of their chldren! SO my period has went off but I am havin several signs of pregnancy symptoms. E.G. Nausea(no vomit) But very sick at smells. I have very soar breast as if i'm going to come on my period earlier then usual! I have been sleeping alot for the past 3-4 days. And every since yesterday Sept. 12th i Have been going to the bathroom a lot of times! I have always ate a lot but it slowed down a lot in the past two weeks and started catching back up lately! ABOUT 2 weeks after my first time having sex mid august before my period I had a pinkish reddish discharge i looked it up and it was another sign of pregnancy called Implatation Bleeding! I have taken 2 prenancy test both negative but ike a ******* i took them 2 weeks after sexual intercourse!

Could I be pregnant?
If so, I have My first Pep Smear on the 21st Should I ask my doctor for a test!?
How do i ask her cause im very shy with sharing these personal things!?
And if positive How do I tell my mom?
If negative what could these symptoms be a sign of! It has been 6 in a half weeks since my first sexual incounter, so please help! To include i have been havin mild cramps! And a small constipation feeling!

[heatherlynn22]

you're welcome

[Ladii_Reggii]

i asked my mom she i miss stated what she said n she didnt beed the whole it was medical concern with her and thank you for your help miss heather

[heatherlynn22]

ovulation occurs once during a cycle. the only way you can calculate is to use an ovulation calculator on one of the websites out there. you would need to know the dates of your period for the last 3-6 months. the discharge from ovulation is usually thicker (almost like  mucus but not quiet) sticky and a milkish white color. that's a typical discharge. but not all discharge is the same. so i can't tell you if the discharge you are having is ovulation or just normal vaginal discharge (which most women always have some form of vaginal discharge).

oh and it is NOT typical to bleed during pregnancy. that only happens when the woman has one of a few certain medical conditions. so it is not normal and any woman who does bleed during pregnancy should see her doctor immediately. some women do have light spotting during the first trimester which is caused from an increased blood flow to the cervix. this typically stops by the 2nd trimester and is again NOT typical.

[Ladii_Reggii]

i read up on ovulation as well.. but i have another question? could avin alot more discharge then usual be a sign of ovulation becuz the discharge i have before my period which i kno sometime be alot and most women experience it happened after it as well?

[heatherlynn22]

what you heard about women not being fertile after menstration is not true. that is when a woman's body is preparing to ovulate (which if you have a typical 28-30 day cycle happens 2 weeks after menstration occurs.

so it depends on your cycle and when you were ovulating. no ovulation = no baby.

[barrysgirl92408]

honestly...i would just tell her that you had sex and the condom broke and you had redish brown stuff in your underwear and you think you might be pregnant. then the doctor will order a test without any problems.
it isn't as bad as you think it will be.
goodluck.!

[Ladii_Reggii]

PLEASE PLEASE HELP!