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Leaking Blood Before Period=Pregnancy?
on the 29th of august i got raped. i was expected my period at the end of the month/very begining of this one. On friday night i noticed a little bit of blood; thinking i was started my period i started using a tampon.... i didnt bleed anymore after that and I'm not on my period. it's the 8th now. I've never "spotted" between periods, and i didnt even think it was possible. it seems like a one shot deal to me (once it starts, it doesnt stop). Infact, one time when i was on the pill (im not anymore) i missed a few and ended up having my period for 2.5 weeks. Please I would appreciate any feedback from anyone who knows something about this. maybe someone whos exerienced leakage on their period and everything is fine. If Im pregnent it will ruin my life..
I'm sorry what happened.
Men can be such A$$HOLES!!!
I've been molested by my biological father when I was younger according to my mother, thankfully I don't remember any of it cuz I probably would be scarred for life.
And there's been times where my fiance n I would get into it sexually, and he'd take it a little too far, if you know what I mean... and I was hurt after those couple episodes both physically and mentally... but the difference between you n I are that he didn't know I wasn't into what he was doing and thought it was an act, and when he saw I seriously wasn't enjoying it, he stopped and appologized and comforted me... and I assume you didn't get that. So I can't imagine how you feel.
I would suggest taking a hpt within a week, or you can go to your doctor and see what he/she can do for you.
The stress from the incident can have caused your period to come late/early, and it could even have caused you to spot like you described.
That spotting also could have been from a vaginal wound from the incident.
Give it some time sweetie.
If you ever need someone to talk to, you have lots of people willing to listen and give advice like myself, or the other girl above.
I hope all goes well for you, and PLEASE-
take care of yourself and stay away from possible sticky situatioins like that.
Men can be such A$$HOLES!!!
I've been molested by my biological father when I was younger according to my mother, thankfully I don't remember any of it cuz I probably would be scarred for life.
And there's been times where my fiance n I would get into it sexually, and he'd take it a little too far, if you know what I mean... and I was hurt after those couple episodes both physically and mentally... but the difference between you n I are that he didn't know I wasn't into what he was doing and thought it was an act, and when he saw I seriously wasn't enjoying it, he stopped and appologized and comforted me... and I assume you didn't get that. So I can't imagine how you feel.
I would suggest taking a hpt within a week, or you can go to your doctor and see what he/she can do for you.
The stress from the incident can have caused your period to come late/early, and it could even have caused you to spot like you described.
That spotting also could have been from a vaginal wound from the incident.
Give it some time sweetie.
If you ever need someone to talk to, you have lots of people willing to listen and give advice like myself, or the other girl above.
I hope all goes well for you, and PLEASE-
take care of yourself and stay away from possible sticky situatioins like that.
firstly, omg, i am sooo sorry.....i have been molested, but not ever actually raped, and i can barely imagine what you are going through.....
when you say friday, do you mean last friday as in sept 5th? or the night it happened? if it was the same night, it's possible you experienced "physical damage"-the result of rough, and involuntary intercourse.....kind of the same bleeding after 1st time intercourse(but it doesnt happen to every girl the 1st time), only it can be heavier.....and a little more painful....
if it happened more like the 5th, last friday, i imagine there's a good possiblity that you could have just missed your period due to stress......i did an online ovulation predictor, and i had to guess your last period....i put in august 3rd(as on a 28 day cycle, it'd make your sept period around the 1st or so, and you'd have ovulated around august 17th, making your "fertile" days the 14th to the 19th of august.....i believe(and i'm not a dr, as you could have ovulated earlier or later, or not at all), that you may have "missed" your ovulation during your attack, making conception a little out of the question(not completely, but i dont think the dates would match up).....
i'm unsure if you've told anyone else, but i def recommend getting a pregnancy test in about 5 days(this weekend), if your "full" period doesnt come.....and i also recommend talking with someone, friend or family even a rape-crisis hotline(where they don't know your name or antyhing), or even prosecuting/filing charges against your assailant.....are you "voluntarily" sexually active, aside from your attack? if so, there is the possiblity your normal partner could have gotten you pregnant....and if you are sexually active otherwise, you need to tell your partner what happened, and make sure you BOTH get tested(even if you're not with anyone, it's imparitive you be tested).....even if an attacker uses a condom, there could still have been a tear, rip etc.....if you want to talk, please pm me....again, i've never been raped, but i have been molested, and several times unfortunately.....
when you say friday, do you mean last friday as in sept 5th? or the night it happened? if it was the same night, it's possible you experienced "physical damage"-the result of rough, and involuntary intercourse.....kind of the same bleeding after 1st time intercourse(but it doesnt happen to every girl the 1st time), only it can be heavier.....and a little more painful....
if it happened more like the 5th, last friday, i imagine there's a good possiblity that you could have just missed your period due to stress......i did an online ovulation predictor, and i had to guess your last period....i put in august 3rd(as on a 28 day cycle, it'd make your sept period around the 1st or so, and you'd have ovulated around august 17th, making your "fertile" days the 14th to the 19th of august.....i believe(and i'm not a dr, as you could have ovulated earlier or later, or not at all), that you may have "missed" your ovulation during your attack, making conception a little out of the question(not completely, but i dont think the dates would match up).....
i'm unsure if you've told anyone else, but i def recommend getting a pregnancy test in about 5 days(this weekend), if your "full" period doesnt come.....and i also recommend talking with someone, friend or family even a rape-crisis hotline(where they don't know your name or antyhing), or even prosecuting/filing charges against your assailant.....are you "voluntarily" sexually active, aside from your attack? if so, there is the possiblity your normal partner could have gotten you pregnant....and if you are sexually active otherwise, you need to tell your partner what happened, and make sure you BOTH get tested(even if you're not with anyone, it's imparitive you be tested).....even if an attacker uses a condom, there could still have been a tear, rip etc.....if you want to talk, please pm me....again, i've never been raped, but i have been molested, and several times unfortunately.....
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