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PLEASE HELP! i need advice.

my boyfriend and i had unprotected sex saturday jan. 3rd 2009. we were dumb and didnt use a condom. this has never happened before but we were having intercourse and than all of a sudden he pulls out and instantly cums. im not sure he got pre pre c*** in me... but what about actual ***? he came like 3 seconds after he pulled out. what are the chances. im pretty sure we had sex around the day i was ovulating... its 6 days after and my boobs really hurt and i have headaches. any advice? am i just thinking about it too much?
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yeah the same thing we've been telling you....TAKE AN HPT!!! that is the ONLY way you're going to know if you're pregnant...unless you go to your ob and have him/her do a blood test. nobody here is psychic. at least i don't think so. so we can't say yes you're pregnant, no you're not pregnant, yes you're ovulating or no you're not ovulating.

take a test.
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any suggestions??
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k i'm not exactly sure when i ovulated now. but if i did ovulate and a couple days later i had unprotected sex and he pulled out and came than stuck it back in. could i possibly be preg. even though i wasnt ovulating for sure?
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even if he ejaculates and you have sex again there will still be sperm. and no you can't get pregnant at anytime. only the days you are ovulating. sperm can survive inside a woman for up to 5 days. all you can do right now is take an hpt. the dollar store has them for a $1. i would say get a digital one though....they say "pregnant" and not "pregnant". you can get 2 for $13 at wal mart.
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hey i have a question that i would love to know. can you get pregnant at anytime? or do you need to be ovulating? and if my cycle is 30 days and my last period was jan, 19 2009 when would i have ovulated? and can you get pregnant with pre *** right after he cums if your not ovulating? i'm just not sure if this is a myth or not, gettin pregnant at anytime?
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wow hoping4_2 thats mean but i hope they are gone i really hate it when people do that it annoys me but good luck with everything!!

and by the way why would it be the same person? people are just trying to get attetion they want haha but she could have hurt someone by doing tat and telling people what to do or what they should do wow she has no mind at all  but i hope things go good for you
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did you test yet?
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Ladies-

Just wanted to warn you all that Sarah_Love and XxpandaxX43 is the same girl. I usualy don't like to get envolved in drama, but I have been reading so many posts from this girl and she is envolving freinds of mine and I feel the need to call her out. She has been reported. She says she was depressed this morning then was happy when she foudn out she was PG. Well, the yboth say that on different posts, and the yare only an hour apart. They both keep saying the same things. plus Sarah_Love says she had unprotected sex 2 weeks ago and her BF said she looked PG so he took her to buy a test and it was BFP???? XxpandaxX43 told hannah1505 she lost her baby last night. Yet today she is still saying she is PG. read the notes between them. You will see where she says one thing one minute and something else the next. I don't like doing this, but I don't like seeing my freinds getting played either.
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wow sarah that was a bad thing to say  u to are both wrong x
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if your period dosent come then you should think about taking a test 2 days after your missed period i waited 3-4 days and i found out i was i have known for 2 days now and i have been depressed since this morning i was happy yesturday after i found out but back you your situation if its light then not a problem i would think you can have light bleeding while you pregnant ...well so i heard but not sure check on it if i were you but if you missed your period i would concider a test 2 days after your missed period

i hope this helps you
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any ideas?
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okay well now starting this afternoon i went to the bathroom and i wiped and had super light pink coloring on the toilet paper.. if was very very light. no red tint to it. than i went again later and saw the same thing only there was a very faint brownish tint mixed in with the pink. once again it was very very light.. i had mild cramps. and still kinda have them off and on.. implantaion bleeding you think? my period is due tomorrow if im not pregnant.
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messageme and ill tell you everything and read my profile and it will tell you a little bit about her and me too
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i like her. i dont see what shes doing wrong.
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i dont hate her i just dislike her ways
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sarah_ love thats rude of you to say you hate her.

you dont need symptoms to be pregnant. somewomen just dont have symptmoms. sore breasts are a first sign some women feel before they even miss their period.....that leads me to a missed period (one of they key signs of pregnancy) feeling sick, throwing up.

being dizzy can be a sign of pregnancy so its not really the main sign of pregnancy. dizziness can be a sign of a number of things.
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haha which girl? yea they are helpful. im just so confused, ya know? at times i feel like i might be getting my period than at others i dont.. do you have any signs of pregnancy yet?
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nope i dont get dizzy. just headaches in the temples... im suppose to get my period tomorrow. so i guess we will see what happens. im not really sure what to think at the moment.
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well if you get dizzy instead of headaches then i would find out if your are pregnant or not you know
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well if you dont have your period when its due wait 3 days to take a test because serm can only live in your body for 5 days so do it before the 5 days is up
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k thank you! should i be having any signs yet? 11 days after sex? all i get are headaches.. i dont feel like im goin to get my period anytime soon. even though its suppose to come this friday
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that is still concidered sex. sex is sex.

you dont need to have implantion bleeding to be pregnant. i never got any when i was pregnant with my son
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okay thank you. and yes XxpandaxX43, i was ovulating the day of sex. it just wasnt full out sex. like 20 minutes ya know? it was only about five... so i dont know what to think. if i get my period it should come on friday but im waiting for a little sign, like implantation bleeding. i havent gotten anything yet though..
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well really precum is sper but not as much as regular sperm though
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