PLS HELP ME!!!!

[ashley124]

im a 16 y/o girl, i had sex with my bf while having my soon to end period. a day or 2 days before we had sex, i am experiencing small bleeding and now after we had sex i still experience this small bleeding, at first my bf didn't use the condom but i asked him to use it.we didn't finished it because i am so scared to be pregnant, we just did it for only 15 mins. does the bleeding means that i still have a chance of getting pregnant?? please help me.please help me. before we had sex, on the 16th, my bleeding is darker in color and it's many, on the 17th, after we had sex, that night, my bleeding becomes lighter and now its less blood, on the 18th, it's also light and less blood.and now on the 19th, there's no blood. my next period is next month on the 11th, what happened to me?? i'm so scared to be pregnant, do i have the risk that i can be pregnant?? please reply asap.i need your advices.pls.thank you.

[DellaKemp]

I agree with sweetpea03. sex should not cause this much stress at all. The chances of you being pregnant are low, but there is always still a chance if you are ahving unprotected sex. If you are going to engage in sex. get on BC or make sure that your BF is using a condom, if he doesn't want to, then don't take that risk.

[sweetpea03]

I'm not saying sex is wrong, only that you may not be ready. I don't get the feeling that you know a whole lot about it or are ready to take on the consequences if an accident were to happen. Having sex should not cause you extreme stress like it is now. The chance of pregnancy for you is small, so try to relax. Stress can make you late.

[ashley124]

yah, now i know that what we are doing is wrong and i will wait for the right time to do it. now, the best thing i can do is to pray and hope that i am not pregnant. thank you so much!:)

[sweetpea03]

Yes, it's possible.

Sex should not be causing this much stress and I would ask you to think about whether or not you are ready to be engaging in this kind of activity. Sex comes with consequences and you have to be ready for that. If you are not ready, I would suggest you do not have sex and wait until you are ready. There is nothing wrong with waiting.

[ashley124]

so that fluid can cause pregnancy? i hope that i'm not pregnant.

[sweetpea03]

Going on the error of safety, I'd say yes...

[ashley124]

okay thanks a lot..  does the seminal fluid really contains sperm?

[sweetpea03]

I said you CAN'T go off of symptoms, because they are not reliable. If your period is late, take a pregnancy test. That is the only way you will ever know if you are pregnant or not.

[ashley124]

when can the symptoms of pregnancy occur after having sex??  weeks after? days after??

[sweetpea03]

There is no concrete info./evidence on whether pre-ejaculation has sperm in it or not, though most medical schools will say that yes, it does contain sperm. So there is a chance you can get pregnant. It is not a good idea to have unprotected sex at any length of time if you don't want to get pregnant. Wait until your period is supposed to come and if it is late, take a home pregnancy test. You can't go off of symptoms because they can mean many different things and can be misleading. The only way to know if you are pregnant or not is by a pregnancy test.  

[ashley124]

thanks a lot.:))  our main problem right now is whether there was a seminal fluid that went out of his.because i saw articles about this, it says there that you will not get pregnant because there is no sperm in that fluid, but in the other article, it says there that there is likely some sperm in that fluid so it has possibilities to get pregnant. what do you think?

[onceuponatime97]

i think your chances of getting pregnant are minimal. the bleeding in my opinion is just your nomal period. plus i he dint *** in you then i guess chances are even slimmer although not absolute. just dont worry too much for now! worry when you dont get your period on the 11th!

[ashley124]

i felt this way before, i had some spots but it only took some time.. now, i dont have that bleeding. do you think it's okay now?? :))  i'm sorry for my questions, i am just so nervous and i want this things to end up nicely.:D

[onceuponatime97]

i hope that im not pregnant too! D: not too sure about the bleeding, tried googling it, sometimes you may get slight bleeding around the 2nd week (14th day) of the cycle due to ovulation (if you get ovulation i guess you're not pregnant). but you cant be 100% sure until your period starts. im getting funny bleeding too!

[ashley124]

okay,thanks a lot. why? what happen to u? i hope that im not pregnant. btw, does the bleeding normal or what??

[onceuponatime97]

hey, think you should wait till you miss your next period and then take a pregnancy test. umm, try not to worry so much it'll cause you to feel uneasy which you may mix the uneasiness for some pregnancy symtoms. know its hard, and im worried sick about myself too D: hope it'll all end up well for you! and me!

[ashley124]

is it 70% that i am not pregnant?? what should i do?

[manieo811]

yes you can get pregnant just of the pre *** to be sure though if u miss next month take a test to know for sure. but good chance your not if u were on your period but  just test for your insurance alone.