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Ok so about a month ago me and my boyfriend decided we wanted to have sex, he put on TWO condoms but before that i jacked him off, i told him i wasnt gonna touch him or myself after i gave him a hand job and a ******** and i didnt, so he put the condoms on by himself and well i dont know if he got sperm on his hand or not, no punctuation occured because we werent n a comfortable position so i juss told him id jack him off some more, so i did and he cummed and while i was jacking him off he was fingering me but i made him stop because i didnt know if he had sperm on his hands or not, well the day we done all this, later that day i started my period and he was freaking out and so was i, cause he kept thinking could u have gotten pregnant? well i told him i dont feel like it and i juss dont have any symptoms and i dont! but i normally have my period either on the 28th or th 1st of the next month, my period has always been irregular, never on the same freaking day but im still concered, a couple of days ago my brother kicked me in my vagina on accident and its been hurting, do u think thats causing me not to start my period or do u think im pregnant?
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You are very welcome. Best wishes to you.
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Oh my goodness thank you, this means alot to me and I just hope its true cause we didnt even have sex, we were going to but i told him to wait because i wasnt ready so we really didnt do anything. but thank you soo much this means alot
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Generally speaking, women ovulate (their ovaries release an egg) about 14 days before the onset of their period. The egg usually needs to be fertilized within 24 hours for a pregnancy to occur. Sperm can last up to 4 days (though it isn't certain if they are viable after the first 48 hours)...so you are MOST likely to get pregnant having intercourse 13 to 18 days prior to starting your period (it is possible to get pregnant outside that time frame but the probability is lower).

You are not likely to get pregnant from intercourse on the day your period starts (although it is possible).

If the only time you have had sexual contact in the past month or so is the incident you described, I agree with sweetpea03 you probably are not pregnant and something else is causing your delayed period (stress is one of the things that can do so).

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You said that you started your period later that day after being fingered, which means you are not pregnant. Also, having 2 condoms on at the same time is a very bad idea, in that they are much more likely to break that way. He only needs to wear one condom and you'll be fine. If you want to be safe, do some of your own research about sex ed and how pregnancy happens. Knowledge is power, as they say. Getting kicked in the crotch will not effect when your period occurs. If you had sex after this incident and your period is late, take a home pregnancy test. Otherwise, you have nothing to worry about and stress is making your period late.
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