Scared Sick

[Abrigail]

Okay so im almost fifteen and have been with my boyfriend for a decently long time, for obvious reasons there was no way i was going to risk having sex. Instead i decided to well 'stimulate' him and he did end up ejaculating onto my hand. We then kissed for awhile (aprox ten minutes?) and over the course of that time i ran my fingers through his hair and down his shirt, he then asked if he could please me in any form, and i used the hand that had previousley ejaculated on to guide his hand to my clitoris. *please note he never fingered me and that my hand was completley dry, but i didn't wash it so im afraid some sperm couldve gotten onto his hand?   I realized this the night of and i should be having my period soon but im notorious for being late so i dont have a great way of telling. Is there any way i could be pregnant??? Help!

[UhOhDontKnow]

No worries :) and that's good to hear :) good luck with everything :)

[Abrigail]

Sigh. Best of luck, and thank you soo much! It makes me feel alot better knowing my chances are very small. I honestly dont think ill be doing anything like this again for awhile.. Like you said its wayyy too stressful

[UhOhDontKnow]

If you don't feel ready don't do it.. There's a big risk associated with it.. Like I might be pregnant ATM and I'm only 17

[Abrigail]

Yeah im thinking about either telling my boyfriend that we cant do stuff like this, or only one of us will be stimulated at a time and im going to start carrying around hand sanitizer. Sigh i just cant get pregnant right now.. I have so many classes and im doing a huge production.. Besides im just not ready for that. And theres no way id get an abortion or just dump all the responsibilities on my parents.

[UhOhDontKnow]

If you don't get your period then do a test but I'd say you aren't.. I'm 17 and I've been sexually active for around a year.. The worry of pregnancy and everything isn't worth it.. My advice is wait.. Because you constantly worry and it's stressful.. I know yOu didn't even have intercourse but your still worrying right? It's just not worth it.. If I could go back I wouldve waited because it's actually stressful..

[UhOhDontKnow]

If you don't get your period then do a test but I'd say you aren't.. I'm 17 and I've been sexually active for around a year.. The worry of pregnancy and everything isn't worth it.. My advice is wait.. Because you constantly worry and it's stressful.. I know yOu didn't even have intercourse but your still worrying right? It's just not worth it.. If I could go back I wouldve waited because it's actually stressful..

[Abrigail]

Thanks, im just a bit of a hypochondriac and ive heard that sperm can live in open air for up to four hours.. I would hate to lose my parents trust and have a baby when i didnt even have intercourse..

[UhOhDontKnow]

If he didn't enter you then there's no possibility of pregnancy really..