well, here's the story. first ill tell you that, i take birth control but i do forget the pills and sometimes take them the next day when i remember, i know its a very bad habit. on december 20th i had sex. we used a condom but he's/we're not that experienced and even an hour later i still felt kinda like he came inside me. i know he put the condom on but...im not so sure it worked. i think when he put it on he either didnt check the expiration date, didn't leave room at the end for his "stuff", or it just broke. he did seem kind of nervous after sex when he was taking the condom off and in a convo about parents and a bunch of stuff the day after when we were hanging out i said "my moms happy if im not pregnant" and he was like "well, you could be pregnant.." and at the time i ignored it. the next day i asked him about it but he said he was joking but i just have a weird feeling from how he said it when we were hanging out. anyways...the period i had before sex was about november 30th..i was due for my period december 26th-28th but i got it the 23rd and if i remember right it was only a couple days and it was different and lighter. probably a couple weeks later after we did it i started having a lot of fatigue..and its only getting worse, and im not really depressed. for the past week or two ive been having to pee more often even drinking the same amount of fluids as before. it was a couple times during school when before i almost never went pee during school..now im going 2-4 times a day...i go and by the next class(about 45-60 minutes after i pee) i have to pee again with a decently full bladder. my breasts have been really sore/tender for about a week, im getting headaches and very dizzy/lightheaded every single day for the same..about a week. my appetite has decreased a lot. all of a suddon some of my favorite meals make me want to vomit and nothing tastes quite right. i have a really gross taste in my mouth. my back hurts but that is really the only thing i ever have pain with from pms. im so moody and find myself in my room 90% of the time while im home now....and it wasn't like that a couple weeks ago. my abdomen feels so weird i don't know how to explain it just i know something is different. i'm having other symptoms but i can't think of everything off the top of my head...its easier if people ask if im having certain things. people keep telling me its probably just pms but my pms is never bad..ive never had a very painful period or many pms symptoms. i was having a weird small pain in my lower abdomen now its maybe 3 inches and to the right of my bellybutton.. around my pelvis but nothing ive EVER had before. this pain just started today. it's not really a bad pain but its noticeable and uncomfortable. i usually am fine wearing jeans during my period or right before when i get A LITTLE bloated but i can't now..to uncomfortable. im bloated..i usually only get a tiny bloated with my pd. anyways, i dont want to make this way long, im trying to get to the point but still give enough info. i was due for my period yesterday and i started spotting. it's pink and brown..not really red. and its a little..i only had to wear a pantyliner all night and until about 10am today. usually i start getting heavier and need a pad but not until this afternoon. today i am having light bleeding but still mostly pink and brown and very thin...i dont remember ever having a period quite like this. my boobs very rarely get sore with pms but they are very and they are changing a tiny bit and i think they are outgrowing this bra. ive been told not to worry if i got my period 2 days after we had sex but ive read and even been told by people that they had sex right before their period, got it, and were still pregnant..and kept getting their period or at least 1 or 2 light ones. im breaking out a lot more the past 2-3 weeks. i have a small break out every once in a while but lately it's more than usual. i read on a website that sometimes you can have weird ovulation pattern or ovulate at weird times almost randomly..that not everyone ovulates in the middle of their cycle. im only 16 and so is he, we aren't dating just good friends. i dont want to tell him unless i have to because i dont know how he will react at all and im afraid if im not we wont even be friends anymore..and his moms..an interesting person..so i dont think shed even allow us to be friends and if she did probably only if im pregnant, more than likely not if i found out im not and yeah. so as much as i need his support right now i cant tell him..and i dont want to tell my mom if i dont have to..i havent even admitted to having sex yet even though she has her suspicions. so any advice would really help. i know so many people will say im not pregnant but it was less than a week ago that i was laying down and for some reason everything rushed to the front of my mind and added itself together and i knew i didnt feel right already so even though i may be wrong or paranoid..i know my body feels different than ever before. people help me out. i dont know what to do, i need a pregnancy test i know and another one of my friends said he would buy me a pregnancy test but i dont want him to spend his money if people dont think its a good possibility. and i dont want to wait until i go to my obgyn for a birth control checkup and her somehow be able to tell and mention it to my me infront of my mom... what do you think about all of this?
to sum it up...heres a couple of my many questions above...incase some aren't obvious questions above.
1. is anyone else sure that can happen with your period even if your pregnant or right after sex?
2. do you think im pregnant?
3. is there any other signs i should watch for?
4. how possible do you think it is that i was ovulating/ovulate close to right before my period?