pregnant or not? need your advice. :) asap

[wondering2807]

on feb 17 i posted a forum saying i got of my period two weeks before... and i was having brown discharge. it  is now march 27 and i havent had a period.  i am worried that maybe i am pregnant since i have had a lot of unprotected sex.  the thing is my boyfriend thinks i am overthinking it and i am worring too much.  he tells me i am not pregnant, and it really makes me feel dumb to even think i may be when he says that.  he has a pregnancy test at his house.  he has had it for over a year (because of a scare before).  he says when i go over there tomorrow i can take it but i feel really dumb. what if the test is expired?  my friend says she will go with me to the health clinic... is it free? i dont have any money and i dont want my mom to know...  i dont know what to do.. or what to think can you please help asap?

[freya25]

The only way to find out is to test. If you don't feel comfortable doing the test with your b/f then buy a new one & either do it on your own or with a friend.

You will feel better when you know one way or another.
You shouldn't be having unprotected sex on or off the pill-it only protects you from pregnancy! Tell your b/f you should be using condoms!

Good luck & be safe!

x Freya x

[penswriter]

if you don't trust the test your bf has go buy a new one. if you haven't had a period in 41-51 days you're either pregnant or there is something medically wrong that needs attention.

[wondering2807]

i havent had a period in 41 to 51 days... and im want to take the hpt my boyfriend has but he makes me feel dumb for wanting to.  he tells me i am not pregnant and im worrying too much.

[penswriter]

i'm not going to vote if it does or does not sound like your pregnant. anytime you have sex you risk getting pregnant. wait until your period is due and take an hpt or go get a blood test done.