With the positive LN, RAI is indicated. The risks of delaying treatment are uncertain, but not likely high. I have a physician patient in a similiar situation and she is getting I-131 next month. I usually recommend minimum of three days away from small children -- best to wait 5 days. Talk to your endo regarding the details of this. There is no risk of other cancers that has been proven for the dose you would receive for remnant ablation.
RAI would be a wise choice. This is the only way the cancer can be targeted. You need to go on a Low Iodine Diet too. Wish I could help you a bit more, I actually come to the site about my advanced cancer probs and found your comment.