This is not the typical scenario for post surgical RAI treatment. The 20mCi she received may have been enough to ablate the remnant depending on her case and the extent of the initial surgery.
I would look carefully at the surgical pathology report -- note the size of the tumor and if was one site or multifocal. Also was there extension outside the thyroid? Was it classic PTC (papillary thyroid cancer) or a more aggressive subtype? Were there lymph nodes involved (or even looked at?)?
These issues help us decide if RAI is needed and may help in deciding the dose.
Before another dose is considered, I would also do a neck ultrasound as well as blood tests for thyroglobulin -- while the TSH is high would be a great time to check this level -- this reflects the amount of thyroid tissue (benign OR cancer) that remains. Its use sometimes is limited by the presence of thyroglobulin antibodies -- so these must be measured each time the Tg is measured.
TSH needs to be ideally above 30 for treatment. Another option that the FDA is likely to soon approve is the use of thyrogen injections to prepare for treatment (ie, no need to come of synthroid) -- many centers....already do it this way....
Would consider checking thyroidologists.com or thyroid.org to find a thyroid specialist to help review the situation.
I would stop seing that doctor and find an Endocrinologist and a surgeon that only deals with thyroids surgury, like in a cancer center or cancer hospital in your area.
go to google search engine to find top doctors in your area..
Sorry, I forgot to mention that my wife is only 28. I thought that might be relevant.