From a thyroid standpoint, if the TSH, Free T4, Free T3 are all ok and the antibodies are negative, this is unlikely to be a thyroid problem -- you did not mention thyroid labs or if you have a thyroid diagnosis for which you are being treated.
Other considerations would be adrenal insufficieny, if am cortisol is >11, then adrenals are okay, if not consider ACTH stim test.
Would also recommend a GI eval with endoscopy given the nausea and stomach aches.
Check vitamin D levels and calcium given the bone pain/weakness -- one thing that could tie all this together is celiac sprue with vitamin D deficiency.
Good luck. there should be someone out there who can help - sorry you are having problems finding the right doc. This may not be an endocrine problem, but I imagine you have talked this through with a general internal medicine doc....
children have friends and activities, games, adward banquets, performances, want to have sleep-overs, pool parties, ... you name it... we also have farm animals, 2 dogs, 3 cats, 1 hamster, 1 parakeet, and presently a fish bowl full of tadpoles, I did draw the line at the lizard and snakes my two older boys wanted!!
Anyhow, I agree with you on how hard and frustrating it is to find an endo who cares and sees you as the valuable person that you are. They do not see how important you are to others and how important you ability to function in your roles in your life, family, work, activities... you are trivialized into a case number, just another filler for their appointment slot.
I know the feeling of not participating... very frustrating.
Now that the Holiday is over, I think I'll check with the Baylor University Medical Center in Houston-- hopefully residents/interns/students and their professor docs will have an interest in taking it one step closer to getting me well. I'm so sick of being told they think it's depression!! All my symptoms are not caused by depression... I used to work in the Mental Health field and I know the difference between being depressed regardless of your circumstances vs. being depressed BECOZ of your circumstances. I also worked with Disabled children, so you are truly an angel! What disabilities do your children have?
I know it must be really hard to stay on top of your own health with so much going on in your family... but if you aren't well, you can't do well. Good luck in your search!
So tomorrow I go back to GP and will ask for Lyme Disease blood work. I seem to have many of the symptoms and it all did start w/flu-like/mono type symptoms. Was told in Oct I had had mono in the past, but I've never been diagnosised w/it. Was in the NC mountains in July 06- don't recall tick bite or the typical bull's eye rash, but who knows.
I know there is a strong possibility that there is not 1 thing that will be the explanation for all the symptoms... docs always say it could be lots of things causing these symptoms and tomorrow I'm gonna say "well, name 5 of them and start running some tests!". I will also ask about the adrenal insufficiency as you suggested. With so many different type symptoms, I don't exactly know what kind of doc to go to for answers. Any suggestions? I plan to call Baylor Univ. Medical Center since I live close; they have a great reputation for cross-speciality collaboration. I just don't know whether to see Endocrinologist, Rheumatologist, Immunologist, Infections Disease.... any suggestions? Psychiatry is certainly on the list, considering how long this has been going on w/out an answer, but I am very in tune w/my body and it is just not right.
So, I go in to doc again making my own suggestions for tx and again will wait for results.... and so it goes.
Thanks for your help.
The fatigue is SOOOOOOOOOOOOOO much better- I haven't felt this good in years. There are still a few symptoms (can't find words, forgetfulness- short term memory, jittery, nausea), but it is so much better. I'm hoping all my symptoms are just from this-- No telling how long this has been brewing. I was released from the hosp on 11 medications, I'm sure the meds are probably doing as much to add side effects are they are doing good. But luckily the colitis was not infected and so 3 antibiotics have been eliminated.
I'll continue getting the tests done. Getting 35 pages of records (doc notes and labs for the last year) from Dr. Norman's clinic in Tampa was a godsend to be able to show at the ER and all the other docs, rather than waiting for each facility to get my records.
Good Health and Good Luck to all!
Could still have some thyroid problems, but those tests are not back yet.