With all those symptoms and the limited test results, it is definitely a problem. Not in your head.
Can you get your husband's doctor to do the testing and prescribe thyroid med?
Please understand that TSH is a pituitary hormone that is affected by so many things that at best it is only an indicator, to be considered along with more important indicators such as symptoms, and also levels of the biologically active thyroid hormones, Free T4 and Free T3. In addition there are numerous other processes/variables that can affect the desired end result, which is having adequate tissue thyroid levels and effects. Deficiencies in these areas can cause hypothyroid symptoms.
You do have some symptoms that can be related to hypothyroidism; however, it is not an extensive list, and it does not include some that are frequently encountered with hypothyroidism. If you look at the following link that lists 26 symptoms that are typical of hypothyroidism, do you have any others that you may have not considered?
http://endocrine-system.emedtv.com/hypothyroidism/hypothyroidism-symptoms-and-signs.html
Next, looking at your test results, your Free T4 result is only at 28% of its range that is too broad to be functional across the entire range breadth. Your Free T3 is at 44% of its range. Compare those to these words from an excellent thyroid doctor. "The free T3 is not as helpful in untreated persons as the free T4 because in the light of a rather low FT4 the body will convert more T4 to T3 to maintain thyroid effect as well as is possible. So the person with a rather low FT4 and high-in-range FT3 may still be hypothyroid. However, if the FT4 is below 1.3 and the FT3 is also rather low, say below 3.4 (range 2 to 4.4 at LabCorp) then its likely that hypothyroidism is the cause of a person's symptoms." Using that as a guide indicates your FT4/FT3 test results tend toward hypothyroidism. Your TSH is at rock bottom of the range,which is somewhat unusual considering your FT4/FT3 level. This could signal a dysfunction in the hypothalamus/pituitary system resulting in TSH levels that do not adequately stimulate the thyroid gland.
If you want to confirm what I say, I highly recommend reading at least the first two pages of the following link, and read more, if you want to get into the discussion and scientific evidence for all that is recommended.
http://www.thyroiduk.org/tuk/TUK_PDFs/The%20Diagnosis%20and%20Treatment%20of%20Hypothyroidism%20%20August%202017%20%20Update.pdf
A good thyroid doctor will treat a hypothyroid patient clinically, by testing and adjusting Free T4 and Free T3 as needed to relieve symptoms, without being influenced by resultant TSH levels. Symptom relief should be all important, not just test results, and especially not TSH results. If you note suggestion 4 on page 2 of the link I think you will see some additional tests that should be done. Specifically I recommend Reverse T3 (and a Free T3 from the same blood draw), Vitamin D, B12 and ferritin. Also, a cortisol test and an ultrasound of the thyroid gland. The latter because of your sore throat and throat tightness. Do you think you can get those done? And more importantly do you think your doctor will be willing to diagnose and treat clinically, as described? If not, then we may need to help you find a good thyroid doctor that will do so.
lab results and associated ranges vary from lab to lab, so we need to know the ranges shown on the lab report for those tests.