12WW instead of 2WW

[amy8702]

Hey all, so I've had 4 miscarriages in the last year.. I've gone for several tests and so far, so good.. The Dr pretty much is putting it off as bad long. So my fiance and I have decided we're going to try again and if this time doesn't work we're going to seek another opinion.. I was wondering though if anyone feels the same, I see ladies are in their 2WW wait, waiting for their BFP but, I feel my wait doesn't end there.. I feel my wait will end once I hit my second tri-mester.. and I was wondering if anyone else feels the same and if anyone is willing to be my buddy when the time comes (which might be soon)

[amy8702]

Just noticed now there was a reply on this...... if you're still checking this things have luckily gone well for me... I'm now 32 weeks pregnant with a baby girl and will be having her July 31st... if you happen to see this I hope all is going well for you

[peaches1991]

whoops, bit late on that comment, didnt see the date, hope everythings working out for you

[peaches1991]

i know exactly how you feel too, ive had two miscarriages since october first at 8 weeks the second in january at 10 weeks.. ttc again, 2 weeks late at the moment but still getting negative results on home pregnancy tests, usually doesnt show up untill im about four weeks, but if i am, i'm in the same boat as you, getting over 12 weeks seems like such a hurdle :( hopefully this time it'll work out for both of us, if you ever need to talk im here <3

[amy8702]

Its so hard not to worry, every little cramp, every little "wet" feeling and everytime symptoms get a little weaker. I'm getting a horrible run around with my current pregnancy and, I'm scared out of my mind. I don't know what to do anymore. I feel like I'm annoying the people I know with my constant worry. :(

[retta483]

I agree I only have had one m/c but at 12 weeks I had been to the ob just two weeks before baby had a awesome hb and I was told to come back in 4 weeks well that never happend I diddent even get cramps just felt like af was here sorta wet and then Bam bleeding . baby had already passed away he/she had no hb when we got to the er . I think If I get pg this time Ill be on edge until the end of my pregnancy .

[amy8702]

Hey there, sorry I didn't notice you replied til' just now. I never got an e mail or anything. I'm going crazy, its like I can't have a normal pregnancy anymore. If this is in fact my sticky bean, I'm not having anymore. As much as I wanted 3, I can't do it to my body or my family.

[louieforlaughs]

amy!!!
i am totally there with you. i saw this post title and i was just screaming YES YES YES!!!!!! that is exactly how i feel!!! and i was thinking, this is one smart woman, you wrote exactly what i feel!!! and it turns out its you! already my acquaintance, what a wonderful surprise!
i certainly do feel like getting a bfp isn't enough. just because i got a yes doesn't mean that in 9 months a baby will be here with me. : ( i am with you on that, but i am still waiting for the yes in the first place. to me its like i have two yeses to pass, two steps to take when most women only take one. still waiting for my first yes. trying this week and then waiting 2 weeks for the yes and if its yes then like you said, holding on for 12 weeks after that. (its more like 14 for me cause it usually occurred at 13 weeks, but this time i'll be monitored more closely so hopefully its 12 weeks)
anyway, you're almost there! you can do it!