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Tiny amount of pink/then red blood 2 days after sex

friday november 14 at night around me and my boyfriend had protected sex for about 3min because it hurter the first time we tried it wouldn't go in so then he left my house and came back later that night and tried again it took it a long time to go in it hurter so then it finally went in and we did it for about 3-5min he didn't *** , neither did i. but  a small amount of pre-*** was in the condom when he took it off.that sunday i went to the bathroom and when i peed and wiped i saw a light pink on the tissue then by the time id made it hope it was red tiny drops of blood when id wipe its not flowing it only appeared when id pee and wipe. I'm not having any cramps , no appetite changes, no sore breast, I'm perfectly fine it just i have little specs of blood the size of a needle point so its very little amount. whats wrong with me please help :( and if its from sex why did it come saturday.
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4851940 tn?1515694593
The uncomfortable feelings could be Premenstrual symptoms as your period is near due and hasn't started yet.

According to the dates you have given, if everything is fine, you should start a period within the next few days.  Wait a few more days, but keep a written record of your symptoms and when your period starts.

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That's was my first time and he uses a condom and also my last period was October on the 27 and ended November 1
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4851940 tn?1515694593
I cannot find whether you wrote when your period is actually due.

If you did have unprotected sex at any time before 14 November, I would suggest that you by a home pregnancy testing kit and follow the instructions on the packet.  If the test is done too soon, it will not give you the correct reading.  Or you can make an appointment to see your doctor and speak with him.  He will arrange for you to have a blood test done if he feels this is necessary and that will also show any hormonal changes and show whether you are pregnant or not.  There are other medical reasons for not getting regular periods and the doctor may tell you to keep a record over the next few months or do the blood tests straight away to find out whether you are pregnant.

Sometimes a spotting of blood can occur when someone is pregnant and it can be difficult to know, especially if a woman has irregular periods.

It may be that you are experiencing a condition called Premenstrual Tension (PMT) also known as Premenstrual Syndrome (PMS).  It is not uncommon for the boobs to swell up and become tender before period is due.  

Make the appointment to see your doctor with regard to find out whether you are pregnant.
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My period still hasn't come this week and I'm having Sharp pains in my left boob and they look bigger and darker to me. I'm not sure if they are but its been 14 days since all. this we haven't had sex since what's wrong with me
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4851940 tn?1515694593
Sorry, but as I am from the UK, I cannot remember when you have your Thanksgiving, but do now it is soon.

I presume that you do keep a diary and record when your periods come, how they are and your mood swings and pains if you do get any due to your menstrual cycle.  

If there are any changes in your periods, it is useful to keep a diary so that you can see what is happening as well as helping you to work out the times in your menstrual cycle when you are most fertile.  

If you are unfortunate to get period pains and mood swings, I found Evening Primrose to be very helpful as well as sticking to a healthy and well balanced diet and cutting out on junk foods which included cakes etc. as well as making sure not to get dehydrated.

Have a great Thanksgiving when it comes.

Best wishes.

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Ok thank you and I've been keeping track and everything is normal im just waiting for my period to come thanksgivings week
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4851940 tn?1515694593
As things have cleared up and you have no other symptoms, you should be fine.

Write it down in your diary and keep an eye on things and see a doctor should it happen again.
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I'm have no discomfort when i pee its just i saw those tiny specs of blood when i wiped and pink liquid but the pink dint last long and today everything is normal nothing is on the tissue when i wipe anymore it was just for sunday
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4851940 tn?1515694593
If it hurt and your boyfriend couldn't enter you, it is highly likely that you were not ready for him.

You need to have foreplay - that is kissing and touching each other, or him touching you to arouse your body.  When your body is well aroused for sex and ready for penetration (him entering you), your vagina will be well lubricated and it will be easier for him to enter you.  If your vagina is dry and not ready, it will hurt to have sex.  Sometimes women do not produce enough natural lubrication and if this happens, you can use lubricants for this purpose.  KY Jelly is a good lubricant to use, and there are other ones available in your supermarket and at the pharmacy.  He can also apply a lubricant onto his penis or on the condom when he is using one.

If you were still a virgin, it is highly likely the hymen may have been broken and this has caused the small bleed.  It is NOT normal to have bleeds after having sex.  And any bleeding should always be investigated by a doctor.

Sometimes bacteria can enter the urethra (the pee tube) and can cause an infection in your bladder.  As you are noticing the blood when you pee and wipe, it is highly likely that the blood is in the pee.  If this is the case, then you have a bladder infection called Cystitis.  Sometimes this is referred to as the "Honeymoon Syndrome" and is because of having rampant sex that causes bacteria to get up the pee tube.  

To help avoid getting bacteria up your pee tube, always go for a pee after you have sex if you are not able to wash.  Make sure that you always wipe your bottom from front to back after emptying your bowels and always wash your hands after using the toilet.  Ensure too that your boyfriend always washing his hands after he has used the toilet and before he touches you.  

Make an urgent appointment to see your doctor so that you have your urine examined.  If you do have Cystitis, which is highly probable, your doctor will prescribe you with an antibiotic for this.  Make sure that you take all the medication as prescribed and finish the course, even if you do start to feel better.

In the meantime, drink plenty of water to flush out the bacteria.  Drink 2 litres of water a day, no more than 3 litres unless your doctor advises you otherwise.

To help ease any discomfort that may have when you pee, you can put 1 teaspoonful of Bicarbonate of Soda (you can purchase this from the supermarket or from the pharmacy) into a glassful of water and drink it.  You can do this every hour for 3 times maximum.  The Bicarbonate of Soda drink neutralises the acidic urine that can cause pain and discomfort when you pee.

Lemon juice in water will also help to neutralise the urine.

Make an urgent appointment to see your doctor and get checked out.

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Was that your first time?  Regardless bleeding a little is normal there's lots of reasons for it, he could have ripped or tore something etc...sometimes I bleed a lot to where the guy thinks I started my period but I didn't. I wouldn't worry if it goes away in a few days but if not you might wanna go to the OBGYN just to get checked out. When you said it wouldn't go in sounds weird like you still have a hymen...I know that's what it was like my first time having sex when your hymen breaks you can bleed from that. Sometimes your hymen can also grow back if you abstain from having sex for a long long time  
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Btw my period is due thanksgiving week and my last period was october 27
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