get to the point

[e181]

I can have sex get to the point of getting off and the feeling just goes away, and then it feels like it goes numb. female 35 what could my problem be.

[rosehip0]

no problem, we are not all the same.i'd suggest relaxation but not everyone has the same sexual feelings as long as you get pleasure from it-thats what counts.

[chicasmom]

You should probably have a complete hormone panel to check your hormone levels to be sure there is not something going on with your health. Hormones play a huge role in how our bodies respond to large variety of isssues.  If you can first eliminate any underlying health issues, then, you might have to address psychological reasons that you are having this difficulty.  I would consult with a very good and highly recommended integrative medical doctor. Be upfront with the doctor and tell him/her exactly what is happening.   He/she will check your hormones and any other nutritional and vitamin/enzyme deficiency problems you might have. I like my intregrative medical physician because of the thoroughness of his exams and because he treats ALL of my symptoms in a natural and agressive way. This has REALLY helped me maintain good health.  Your physiological health is directly related to your mental health and your overall feeling of well-being. Overall good health helps your body respond appropriately to a variety of functions, of course, sex, being one of them.  Good luck!

[Dr. Kokil Mathur]

Hi
Welcome to the MedHelp forum!
Inability to enjoy sex is called frigidity. However you may not be frigid. What you probably mean is that you never had an orgasm. This could be achieved by proper stimulation of clitoris, G-spot in vagina, increase the foreplay, talk with your partner and discuss how you get stimulated, watch movies that stimulate you, create an environment around you that stimulates you. Sometimes the foreplay is not adequate for the female to be aroused as the arousal time of the two partners is different.
Also do not go by what others say. The idea is to enjoy. Many women do not get the typical orgasm yet have a satisfying sexual life.
The other possibility is that you have vaginal dryness. There are many problems that cause vaginal dryness such as hypothyroidism, Sjogren’s syndrome, vaginitis or inflammation of vagina, dermatitis of skin around vagina, condom allergy, or allergy to soaps and lotions. I think you should discuss these possibilities with your gynecologist. It is difficult to comment beyond this without examining. A comprehensive investigation is required keeping all the points in mind.
Hope this helps. Take care!