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[jennylynn0923]

I am 26 and have been sexually active since i was 17 i have never felt any thing except the occasional pain during sex.i am married and have a two year old and have basiclly stoped having sex cause i cant even get arroused any more.i do have pleasure in my clitoris. If there is a cure of some kind i dont care what it is ill try it im desperate.please someone help.

[gem421]

I think it would be best if you went and seen your GP as I had the same syptoms as you, it's best to go and get tested for chylamdia and get treatment for it :)

[Strawlate]

I have the same problem. I can't feel the climax. I do get arroused and as far as I know you do *** but you can't feel it. I have read that you have to types of women..... the one that has a vaginal climax and the other that has a clitoris climax..... I'm one of the lucky ones that has the clitoris climax..... my x husband couldn't understand why I don't feel the climax...... with my boyfriend now, he has mastered the situation...... he makes it possible for me to feel the climax...... So Jenny it is all in what your hubby do and not do and how you respond to it..... If at all you can't feel climax you have to get something to think about that can make you arroused..... or watch a video or use some toys..... change is always good in the sex life.... try different lubes and toys for men and women.... hope it helps

[Carly1306]

You would need to go see a doctor to check that there is not something physically wrong causing this to happen.