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How to go 6 weeks without orgasm?

Hello,

This question may seem unusual but I ask that you please take it seriously.  Through unskillful sexuality I have developed a compulsive addiction to sex.  When I 1st decided to abstain from sex for a while and make many lifestyle changes, I started to abstain from sex, exercise, eat right, and many other things.  After a few weeks I started leaking semen when I urinated, as my body was adjusting to celibacy period.  After about 6 weeks a feeling of radiant well being returned to me and stayed with me until I fell back into pornography and addiction about 6 months later.  When my well being had been lost again and compulsive sexual addiction was reactivated, I tried to begin to abstain again but this time, wet dreams come along after about a week of abstinence and refuel and replenish the addiction.  If I am lucky enough to get past 1 week, again my penis starts leaking semen after I urinate just like teh 1st time, only again usually wet dreams come and I have to start again from scratch.  I know that if I can go without orgasm of any kind for about 6 to 8 weeks, my well being will be restored, however wet dreams keep coming.  Are there any practical steps I can take to hold off wet dreams for 6 to 8 weeks?  What about means of emptying prostate without orgasm, can these be explained please?  I know the medical community does not as yet believe in sexual addiction but I am an intelligent man and let me assure you it is a fact.  So I kindly ask that instead of questioning my motives if you could please answer the question of practical means to achieve my goal of 6 to 8 weeks no orgasm of any kind.  I have been abstaining from all sex for over a year now and still the raging compulsion is with me 24/7 and will not subside until I can give my brain a rest from orgasm.  Thank you for taking the time to answer my question and again please answer it as if assuming everything I am saying is in fact correct.  Thanks.
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438205 tn?1240959349
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No way to avoid the nocturnal emissions. Thy are quite normal.
Addiction is treatable but it takes committment and effort.
S.A.Liroff, M.D.
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They cannot help me if the addiction is physiological.  Can you please just answer my question.  Are there any ways in which nocturnal emissions can be bypassed?
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438205 tn?1240959349
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You are already along the road to help when you identify that there is a problem. Now to deal with it adequately.  Most individuals need help in dealing with addiction or perceived addiction of any kind and a sexual addiction is not any different in this regard. You should seek the care of a psychologist/psychiatric social worker/psychiatrist. There is help for you.
S.A.Liroff, M.D.
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