I am a 38yo male. I have always had a healthy
sexBuccal smear
Causes of sexual dysfunction
Child abuse - sexual
Delayed ejaculation
Erection problems
Female sexual dysfunction
Inhibited sexual desire
Orgasmic dysfunction
Puberty and adolescence
Rape
Safe sex drive, stamina, etc. Up until this problem, I've been about 20lbs overweight, but exercised 2-3x per week. My last long term relationship (2 yrs ago) was filled with
sexBuccal smear
Causes of sexual dysfunction
Child abuse - sexual
Delayed ejaculation
Erection problems
Female sexual dysfunction
Inhibited sexual desire
Orgasmic dysfunction
Puberty and adolescence
Rape
Safe sex sometimes multiple times/night,with sometimes
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Little tummys rest between erections. When we broke up 1yr ago, I started drinking a lot and was depressed for about 8 mos. My
sexBuccal smear
Causes of sexual dysfunction
Child abuse - sexual
Delayed ejaculation
Erection problems
Female sexual dysfunction
Inhibited sexual desire
Orgasmic dysfunction
Puberty and adolescence
Rape
Safe sex drive was very low. I found at that point I had high blood
pressurePressure ulcer (~150/90 at times), which I had not had earlier.
I slowly started dating again, but continued to drink. I had 2 other partners in the last 8 mos, and erections were still not that slow. Last Nov I think I got a ut infection through anal
sexBuccal smear
Causes of sexual dysfunction
Child abuse - sexual
Delayed ejaculation
Erection problems
Female sexual dysfunction
Inhibited sexual desire
Orgasmic dysfunction
Puberty and adolescence
Rape
Safe sex . I was prescribed Doxycycline, and it seemed to go away. It came back, but maybe because of more anal sex. I got fully scanned (HIV,gon,Chlm,syph, herps,Hep, etc) and only Herp showed up as expected (type1 and exposed to 2, assymtomatic). my symptoms seemed like track inf, feeling like I had to go all the time, and slightly sore at head. Another Dr said I had PPP.
In March I started dating someone seriously, started exercising a lot (losing weight cycling, running, and training for competitive waterskiing), and my drinking is almost nill now (1/night), but I noticed a slight ED issue. I can't get erect without manual stim, and went limp during sex once. I went to a Urologist this time. He confirmed PPP, and prescribed same med as above, but 2x21 day instead. Pain still comes and goes, and I'm scheduling another appt, but to get to my question...
What are the chances that my ED issue is physical and not mental? It does not help that my new girlfriend is disappointed when she doesn't see me with an erection. To her, that is the indicator that I'm ready, so she becomes ready. Her disappointment does not help. She is just now reading that things change when men approach 40's. So part of it could be psychological. I feel like I'm ready, and that I should be erect, so I don't think that an aging thing should come so abruptly. I've always been a little slow to get there, but maybe I've had a problem all along and haven't known it. Question 2: Is there any data that exists showing the psychological impact of watching porn or masterbating
(masturbating) frequency compared to arousal when not doing either of those (ie can one become calous to normal sex)? One would think with the intense workout schedule I have now (1-2 exercises per day, at 45-90 min each), that I would be healthier, but I still need sustained manual stim to keep going. I'm wondering if I have some kind of a blood flow problem, and am worried about someone wanting to put me on blood pres med, which is suppose to make it worse.
Suggestions/Ideas?
Thanks, Kevin