Ever since I was young I have had delayed
orgasmsOrgasmic dysfunction during all types of
sexualCauses of sexual dysfunction
Erection problems
Female sexual dysfunction
Sexual problems overview activity.
I have been with the same
womanWomen's way for over 25 years and both of us have noticed that the time it takes for me to
orgasmOrgasmic dysfunction has greatly increased. When I was 18, we could have "
sexBuccal smear
Causes of sexual dysfunction
Child abuse - sexual
Delayed ejaculation
Erection problems
Female sexual dysfunction
Inhibited sexual desire
Orgasmic dysfunction
Puberty and adolescence
Rape
Safe sex " for about 30 - 45 minutes before I orgasmed. Now at 45, we have intense, oral, manual and
intercourseCauses of painful intercourse
Sexual intercourse - painful for well over 1 - 1/2 hours with only the occasional orgasm on my side.
It seems in the last year that I do not recieve pleasure from my penis... rather the orgasm and some pleasure is the culmination of the sexual activity. During intercourse, I do not feel any pleasure... if there is an orgasm, it is do to the overall physical movement of the act... not any pleasure during the intercourse.
I usually do not have any problem attaining a erection although I have used Viagra in the past (1/3 100 mg) to ensure that I can keep erect enough time to attempt to achieve orgasm.
During masturbation... agian it seems that I do not have the pleasure... until the physical movements bring me to the point of orgasm... I do not feel pleasure from my penis up to that point.
The Question is... What do I do? I have not had an orgasm with my wife for over a month (extended (1hour) masturbation still works) and it is starting to effect our sexual relationship.
I am not on any prescriptions. The only thing that I think of is a doctor prescribed "Fluocinonide ointment usp, 0.05%" for poison ivy. I have been using it for about a month. About 2 months ago another doctor prescribed it for a rash on the shaft of my penis. I used that for about a month.
I have also been a cyclist for a number of years. I have read that the "butt in the seat" problems envolve the damage to the nerves that effect erections, not pleasure.
SO... here I am... I am a healty 45 year old male that seems to hardly ever receive any sexual pleasure any more.
ANY SUGGESTIONS??