I am writing on behalf of my husband. He is 33 yr old and has several urology related problems that are causing problems for him and in our marriage. Prior to getting married 6 yr ago, I found my husb to be urinating frequently, sometimes 2-3 times per hour. I am a nurse and after we were married insisted he get evalauted. He was tested and told he had a congenital thickening of the bladded
neckCervical spondylosis
Head and neck glands
Herpes zoster (shingles) on the neck and cheek
Irritated seborrheic kerotosis - neck
Lymph tissue in the head and neck.
Melanoma - neck
Neck lump
Neck pain
Neck pulse
Neck x-ray
Oral cancer which was causing increased
pressuresPressure ulcer in his bladder and difficulty in holding much
urineCalcium - urine
Calcium urine test
Chloride - urine
Cortisol - urine
Electrolytes - urine
Glucose test - urine
Hcg in urine
Ketones - urine
Kidney - blood and urine flow
Lh urine test (home test)
Ph urine test. Similiar to
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Bph - resources
Enlarged prostate, but for him he had frequent urination for 15 yr he could remember.
They tried him on many different medications, most were
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Enlarged prostate type meds, that either did not work or caused side effects he was not able to adapt to and continued working. He is also in healthcare. Since they rated his problem as significant and said it would most likely only worsen, they recommended surgery. He had this surgery done, they went in via the
penisCancer - penis
Curvature of the penis
Penis care (uncircumcised)
Penis pain and sliced several sections of the thick neck of the bladder to make the bladder fill easier and fix his problem.
Prior to the surgery we were advised a small number of men have a post-op complication of retrograde ejaculation and if that happened it often was reversible. They wanted to make us awake if he did have that occur it would make conceiving difficult. I was pregnant of the time of the surgery, and he thought it best to proceed.
Well the surgery was a sucess and cured his problem of frequent urination. But he did have retorgrade ejaculation. This was not a temporary complication and he still has this problem...it has been 6 years. I have not used birth control since that time and nto gotton pregnant. We went back to the doctor to discuss our options re this, but were told nothing could be done; basially that the sperm were taking the "path of least resistance" which were back toward the bladder rather than through the urethra. We were told if we wanted to conceive, we would need to get infertility counseling.
First of all is this accurate? Is there no treatment fot this condition? We did seek a 2nd opinion.
Secondly, my husb has a severe sharp ,almost debilitating pain in the tip of his penis during the time he orgasms each and every time since this surgery. We have been back to the doctor about this and were once nothing could be done and another time he had a prostate infection. He was put on antiobiotics for 4 mo and had no improvment. All blood tests were normal. He was told his prostate was hard and inflamed and that he possibly had prostatis.
Are all of these things related? He never had anyof these problems prior to the surgery. We would just like to have a healthy sex life, but he never wants to have sex due to the severe pain he feels every time. Could this "prostate problem" be indirectly caused from the retrograde ejaculation? If so what can be done to stop the pain he is having (the ejacuation problem is not the major concern)? We would just like to have a normal sex life.
Thank you