Re: Impotence

Posted By Dan on June 20, 1998 at 10:20:27:

In Reply to: Impotence posted by JoeK on June 19, 1998 at 19:21:18:






I'm having a problem that I'm ashamed to discuss with anyone.
I'm 25 y.o. and have been impotent for about 6 months now.  I've never had this problem before and don't know if its physical or mental.
My last girlfriend really shamed me sexually because of my penis size and ever since I can't function.  I don't think its physical, I don't have any other symptoms and am on no meds.
I'm about 3 in. flacid and 5 1/4 in. erect and since my girlfriend laughed at me and told others about me, my problem started.
I don't know how to get past this.  
Any advice?

I'm about 5" 1/2 erect and never found it to be a problem.  As a matter of fact, I believe that many guys with large proportions seem to have more erection
problems.  Your problem is not your size, it's your choice in sexual partners.  You chose a poor sexual partner last time.  A good partner would not shame
his/her lover.  I suggest you first consider what it means to be a lover, and wait until you find someone whom you can respect, and who respects you.  Then get
married and then start having sex.

To summarize:
1.  It's not your penis size, it's your choice in partners.
2.  Good lovers are committed and caring.  Not shameful and critical.
3.  Think about how you wound up with such a jerky girl.