suddenly can't have an orgasm

Posted By John on August 12, 1998 at 12:05:57:







Lately I have been unable to achieve orgasm unless I really agressively masturbate.  I was doing keggel exercises for a while that I read in a mens fitness magazine, but only for a short time, now it feels like that muscle is so strong, my semen can not break through.  In fact I have noticed that my erection becomes somewhat flacid and soft before I am going to ***, prior to that it is rock solid.  My wife and I have a very active sex life and at times we are rather agressive and my penis has bent back where it feels like it pops at the base.  Should I see a doctor, all of a sudden it is so difficult to ***, sometimes it takes a hour.  Even though I only did the kegels for a short period of time, 20 a day for about a month, could I have done damage?  Hope you can help guide me.  Gratefully, John