I am with you on that. I have two kids and am over 300lbs. I recently re married and my husband wants a baby since he has no kids (except the two he gained with marriage) I know my body can't handle. My problem is eating late and water. I am focused on wanted intake and eating earlier. Good luck!
Cut out all whites.... Meaning flours, sugars and even corn. Replace with high-protein foods such as black beans, fish, tuna, chicken...you can also use brown rice in place of the starch ...stay active, drink a lot of water (half your body weight in ounces) try not to eat three hours before bedtime