A 2nd lap band and problems

[Sing0808]

Hi all,

I have had 2 lap band operations the first working for 3 years until the band slipped, the 2nd obviously came to fix the slippage. I was really happy with the first loosing 26kg (about 58lbs), but with the second one although it is the right position I am not loosing wieght infact I'm gaining - ah!!

It seems my oesophagus is accomodating and enlarging at the end near my stomach, I'm getting really depressed about this, you make the decision to have surgery, which is no mean feat and then you get slapped down with the problems. My surgeon is a nice guy and says I frustrate him - he should live in my shoes!! I have 4 kids and am 44, I want to see my kids grow up and their kids grow up.  

People keep saying diet, but fat people have surgery because they have definite problems with diet and all it encompasses, I feel like giving up and doing the fat person thing of stuffing my face and pretending it's not happening. I'm usually a strong person but this is really getting me down. any suggestions, I'm starting to feel like a struggling Aussie.

PS no more surgery for me, my stomach looks like a battle field as it is.

Sue from Australia

[diggers]

Hi



my girlfriend had a surgery and was quite successful at it.  I don't know your situation but what are you doing for your diet and exercise regiment.  She had gastric bypass but I also knew a lady that had the bands and she lost a lot of weight but it was not a long term help for her.  She gained it all back.  I guess nothing is a miracle help.



My best suggestion is to find a new doctor.  You may like this one but no doctor should say that "you" frustrate him.  Find a proper dietition for your case.  sometimes our doctors don't have our best in mind or perhaps diet and maintenance isn't a strong point.  



have you found a forum for those who have had your surgery.

[Sing0808]

Hi digger,

thanks for your words, I have not found a forum for lap band i'm new to this forum/chat stuff. I have followed a diet and excercise program walking is my exercise as my knees don't like much else(too much sport as a young person).  I go again to my doc tomorrow and I think that will be the last time depending on what he says, I think as you get down about things following anything diet/exercise wise is really hard but you have to persevere. I'm just really frustrated about the fact that I have made a big decisison twice (2 lap bands) and the result has not vindicated the decision.  Oh well enough of the moaning, to all those of you out there who are fat just keep on going, we do have people around us who love us, we do know that being fat is not a good thing, and that we all have an ideal weight (and not the stick insect weights that doctors read off graphs for us).  We are the largest minority (in number) in the world and still get scorned, no matter; we know we have worth and that 'normal people' (there is no such thing by the way)who don't understand our struggles will never understand unless they too become fat, so don't expect them to just keep on educating them.

[Sing0808]

Hi karibritt01

my oesophagus started to enlarge becuase of the second band and placement, thanks for your thoughts and I'll keep you guys informed.

[Lap Grandma]

I was wondering how you knew the band had slipped? I had the banding done in Feb and now I can feel the band through my skin and it is a little red on the skin area where I feel the band. No pain or other symptoms.I am sorry you had complications and have empathy for you! Please do not give up. I also had complications and got mrsa staph infection and had to have the port removed for now.I have lost 52 lbs and no longer diabetic. Take care and you will be in my prayers.

[Maha M]

I am considering the lap band operation,,,, but I am afraid ... a number of people told me that the problem is that you feel hungry but can not eat ... is this true and what do you advice me???

[maggy1942]

I vomitted the other day and now I feel as if my port moved and I have low level pain near the port
my pand may have slipped
how did you find out that your band slipped

[Tam4107]

I am also in the same boat Sue. This is my second one and averything went great the first 2 1/2 years. This April I had to replace the slipped band and we're in the process of trying to figure out why I weigh more than ever and why my stomach is always sore. No fills have helped and I am also depressed. My friends have suggested that I not only find a new doctor this time, but also hire an attorney. Something is definetely wrong this time around.


Tam in Louisiana