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I worked very hard to lose 120 pounds, only to have to have a hysterectomyHysterectomy Hysterectomy - series and I have gained 60 with in a year! I am devastated, taking over the counter diet pills and prescribed diet pills from my MD. I am very depressed about this and was wondering, any women out there have this problem? I am not on hormones either.
I am 33 and have had a full HysterectomyHysterectomy Hysterectomy - series since I was 24. I have gained so much weight but this past year it has been bad. I was exercising and eating healthy and can't loose a thing. One pound would be nice you know. I was taking yoga 3 times a week, kick boxing and water aerobicsAerobic exercise 2 times a week. The doctor said I had to do cardio 7 days a week. Well speaking to real personal trainers they said every to her day. So, I kicked it up to biking 3 miles every other day.Still nothing! ! ! I have been trying since December and it is June now. All kinds of diets did not work either. So I went to an Endocrinologist. They tested my Thyroid levels and they are fine. They think it is all hormonal. I am on cenestin hormone replacement. It helps for the hot flashes but you still I am gaining weight. They said that people who have had Hysterectomy's are missing a key ingredient which I forgot what it was but it started with the letter "L" does not matter because so far there is no replacement for it. I guess they have seen tons of women with the same problem. Sad thing is there is no way to measure or test for it today. I was told we were a year out from being able to get answers for it. I was put on a list for trail medications. I am sorry to bring bad news but so far I have not found why I am gaining. Oh yeah a nutritionist saw my meal planner and said it was great so I know I am not eating junk food and that is why I am gaining weight. I feel the Cenestin ( Hormone replacements) help with mood swings, and hot flashes but we are still missing something that we need.
I had a partial hysterectomy (I got to keep one ovary) after my second baby, and I haven't been able to lose any weight either. I was also lactating over a year after I had quit nursing my baby and I was having horrible hair loss. My thyroid tests kept coming up in the normal range, but I still didn't feel well. I was wearing three shirts and sitting in front of a space heater in an 82 degree Farenheit house-- oh yeah, with a blanket to trap the heat around me-- and the doctors kept telling my my thyroid, the gland that regulates body temperature, metabolism, and other hormomes, was working fine. I went to an endocrinology professor/ physician who wanted me to take a radioactive thyroid function test. I've got enough potential cancer causing issues to deal with, so I refused the make-my-thyroid-glow test. Instead, the doctor prescribed a natural thyroid replacement with T2 and T3, and then I felt great, wasn't cold, stopped lactating, and my hair was growing back. I asked the endocrinologist if it could possibly be the placebo effect since I've been convinced that it was a thyroid problem the entire time. He told me that the placebo effect doesn't regrow patches of hair, stop hormomal lactation, or make me drop five pounds in two weeks. Moral of the story: Check with a specialist about the possiblity of supplementing your thyroid hormone with a low replacement dose for a couple months. It worked for me to a certain degree, and may be helpful for you just to see if you're one of the thousands who have "normal" labs but problematic thyroid symptoms. So now I still gain three pounds of water weight having an ovary still cycle monthly. But I also remember why my husband and I never used hormone based birth control-- it keeps the weight on, and a woman can expect to gain about five pounds for every year she takes the hormomes. I wish you luck with your current treatment regimen. I know how frustrating it can be when your body gains weight for no apparent reason and refuses to take it off. I've gone for the lipodissolve on my abdomen since my pregnancy, hysterectomy surgery, and scar left me with stubborn fat that diet and exercise won't cure. Hopefully, it will kill the fat cells and not just remove the triglycerides from them.
I had lost 100# and sucessfully kept if off for 1 1/2 years. then I too had a hysterectomy. they left 1 ovary. I had the surgery in early aug. and its now late january and I have put on nearly 60#!!
Most of it in the stomach, rib and butt. I look pathetic, and am so afraid of being fat agian. I cook good healthy meals, I live on a farm and am outside doing chores ect. I have found that I have an INSATIABLE sweeet tooth that I have NEVER had. so i dont keep sweets in the house.
I am so relieved to know that some of you have experienced the dame problems.. i was bcoming very depressed as well.
Tiffany
Well I be damn, I'm not the only hysterectomy-notwannabe out there. I'm 38 and I had a hysterectomy in Oct.07 , I still have both ovaries,but I have gained about 15 lbs since the surgery, there has to be something out there for us. I thought you would lose weight with the damn surgery,what is going on?
I had thyroid cancer in 1994 and gained 60 pounds almost immediately. I do not take thyroid pills nor do any tests come out abnormal after my surgery. Then in 1998 I had uterine cancer and they took all my female parts including both ovaries. I am fatter than I have ever been in my life and no matter what I do, the weight stays on. I exercize daily, eat healthy, no fast food or junk and still nothing. I went on Jenny Craig for 9 months, followed it to the key and lost 1 pound.....what can I do? I feel like at first I did the surgeries to save my life, now I feel as if I am going to lose my life from being obese and have no control regarding what happens....
I had a C-Section with Partial Hysterectomy in Sept.07 and I have not been able lose any weight since the procedure. Now of course I lost the weight of my son (6#11oz), the weight of the uterus, and the excessive 10# water weight I was carrying in my swelling body- That totaled about 20lbs. I weigh the same right now as I did at my 6wk postop. My son is almost 7mos old and I am so embaressed of my weight. I weigh 40lbs more than I did pre pregnancy and have NEVER weighed this much out of pregnancy in my life. I am exclusively nursing my son. Now I know nursing is supposed to help you take off the weight but I am afraid that's not happening. It maybe keeping me from gaining more Who knows? I have decided to go to my Dr and see if there is anything else I can to do to shed atleast a pound or two- I am eating well and trying to exercise every day.
At least after reading this I know that I am not alone with this isssue. Good Luck to All and God Bless.
Hello Ladies,
I had a complete hysterectomy in November 2007. Well let me tell you I can relate to all of you. I am 5'5" and now 185 pounds maybe more. I was always skinny. I was between 115 and 120. I will be 42 this year and I cannot believe how much I am still suffering in so many ways after this horrible surgery. I now know that mine was unnecessary and I had other options. Not only I have I gain an enormous amount of weight but I lose all of my desire for sex and cannot have an O. I am not sure if I am allowed to say the O word here or not? I continue to suffer with hot flashes, night sweats, insomnia, horrible headaches, my bones ache so much, I could go on and and on. I am so depressed and now reading that there is nothing I can do to lose weight I am even more depressed. I have doctors who seem to not know what they are talking about or just don't care. I really hope that researchers take this problems seriously and other problems we suffer after having a Hysterectomy!! I empathize with all of you. I just cannot stop crying. I feel like I am a completely different person in another persons body!
I had a hyster in 05. Same situation as all of you. I have gained 23lbs after working at Weight Watchers and losing 52lbs in 03.
I have started researching weight gain and hysterectomies just yesterday. I am a Christian, believer in JC. After all the mood swings, depression, anger, loss of sexua desire, no O's, arms that can wave goodbye and hello at the same time, kept journals (I started WW again for the 50th time and write everything that goes into my mouth, I read every label, no MSG, no aspertame, I also have the insatiable sweet tooth. I HAVE HAD IT.
I am putting all my faith in God for guidance. I WILL dig deep into all my research and I WILL find a way to stop this weight gain and I WILL unzip and walk out of this body I do not know and find myself again.
I will post all new findings as I search to try and help all of us.
Yes, I too attend a health club, eliptical and bike 30 mins, circuit training, my trainer says this, (no hitting please ladies-although I could have punched him)..."Weight gain is a mind issue. Weight gain occurs when you put food in your mouth eat it, it goes into your stomach and so and so, then you do not burn off more calories than you eat."
"A woman 40 and older should normally be eating 1,950 calories a day. To lose 2 lbs a week you need to subtract 500 calories a day-down to 1,450 calories a day. That is how it's calculated. You can live on 1,200 normally (any woman) eating healthy and lose or if you are at your desired weight you should use 1,200 to maintain.
OK, for me I have "suffered" long enough. Lost to many days, months and now years being miserable. Drs, truly don't know, nor do they truly care. When they prescribe a med, they make big $. I personally am on a compound bio-identical hormones. Triest 3.75, 0.5 Test. It is made by a compounder at Walgreens. There are only so many compounders around so do your homework. I to have "been back" to the drs with the,"I'm gaining weight issue." She just said, "You have to step up working out and pay close attention to your food intake."
I would like to recommend reading or going to Barnes/Knoble (a bookstore) a book called, "The Menopause Bible." No, it's not religious, it has some great advice on all subjects. I read alot of it yesterday and am going to Amazon.com to purchase a used one opposed to buying the $27.50 B/K price.
I WILL BE BACK, so watch for my research and results, I will share it all! We will never have to stand behind the camera lense again!
Blessings: Bonnie
I too have been gaining weight like crazy! I had my uterus and cervix removed in 2002 and then in April of 2007 had my ovaries and tubes removed. After the first sugery I was about 110lbs and have kept it off until the second surgery. I now weigh 147lbs and I am only 4'10". I work out every day intensely and only drink water. I eat very little, only salads and protein.....and my clothes are getting tighter. The dr. has me on HRT, which makes me tired, but I still get horrible night sweats. I'm only 47 and have always looked younger than my age.....now I think I look 10 years older! It's very depressing. I can relate to everyone else that's going through this.
I plan on buying "The Menopause Bible" for any advise I can get.
i am 22 yrs old and going the 11th of april for a histerectomy (cervix, uterus, and tubes {leaving overies}) i am now very worried since i have read a lot of what you all have written in here. i am trying to lose weight and do not want to gain weight and certainly do not want to lose my sexual desire or my o's. i was just wondering if any of you out there have had these problems and have had the exact type of histerectomy as i am because maybe then i shouldn't go and get it done. please write back asap. thanks
In november of 06 I had a parial hysterectomy. Unfortunatley I was diagnosed with HPV. I had two options, #1 was to have my cervix scraped and hopefully the disease wouldn't spread to my uterus. #2 was to have my cervix and uterus removed, removing any chance of the virus spreading. I chose the partial hysterectomy. I was only 27 at the time. Here I am almost 30 and steadily gaining weight regardless of the 3 miles I run daily.
If I could do it all over again I would have chosen any other method known to man, other than a hysterectomy. My advice to anybody facing the possibility of even recieving a partial hyst. is DON"T DO IT! If possible look for any alternate route available.
Boy, some of you are awfully young to be getting hyterectomies. I had one in 1996, (left the ovaries) I was bleeding to death, and the quack I was seeing... well, it's a long story. Anyway, after having my "big O uterus" (that's what the butcher called it) removed, I too, went from a voluptuous 155 to 220 lbs! I'm 5'8", and was always in great shape. Any how, Ashley.... why are you getting a hysto? I found out later that I could of gotten the fibroid tumors removed from my uterus. It is easier for Docs to just cut everything out. Please get another opinion, if you haven't done so. Get on these search engines and read everything you can. So much has been documented that these operations are UNNECESSARY! As far as the rest of you, I can only tell you what I have done for myself. For years I have taken "more than recommended" doses of calcium, vitamins C, D, E and super B. I also take this supplement called Venacura. When I do feel I'm "heating up" I drink a large glass of something cold, I sleep almost sitting up. I don't "diet" (it's another FOUR letter word) and I don't exercise. I don't have time... I work ten hours a day. However, I feel great! No blood pressure or cholesterol or sugar problems. I'm still alive at 55! Try to stick to natural foods... even real sugar. The artificial sweetners are making people fat! I know it's hard. (have you seen the price of oranges)! But, it's the way our parents ate. Nothing bagged, boxed or canned! Just take it easy on the bacon! Good luck to Ashley and God Bless you all! Cynthia, a fat, but healthy and happy gal
I had a complete hyterctomy in Dec 2007, I am 39 now, I was very concerned about weight gain as I have struggled my whole life with it. I to date have gained 10 pounds, truly I eat whatever I want and exercise very little, the weight gain seemes to be more from bloating from the hormones, some women don't gain any weight. If the surgery is for health reasons don't worry about the weight. It is nice not to be bothered every mouth, also I have not lost my sex drive. good luck
How is this possible yet we have men on the moon. There must be a solution to the weight gain I am reading about. I have a large fibroid growing on my uterus and my doctor is recommending a partial hysterectomy.It has been there for over 6 years and is now putting pressure on by bladder. Frankly it sucks! He said due to the size there are not really other options to decrease the ongoing discomfort. But know I am stuck and don't know if I should live with mild-severe discomfort or let it lie and maintain my shape. I am 41 years old and have already been diagnosed as infertile which in itself was very depressing. The last thing I want to think about is the possibility of more depression and mood swings that occur when your body, sex drive and energy are not in sync. We have a newly adopted son and I am not getting any younger. Any advice would be helpful. I am a happy, easy going person by nature and just want to enjoy this new gift of motherhood.
I had a hysterectomy two months ago for uterine cancer. I had fibroids which caused heavy bleeding and anemia but was going to opt for different surgery as there are a lot of things out there. The trick is finding a dr that knows how and is experienced. The deal seems to be as stated by CindyLooWho that hyst.. are the easiest for them. Women are still behind the power curve, however, when it comes to knowing about the hormonal effects caused by loss of ovaries, uterus, etc. I have read there are at least 13 hormones produced by our female parts yet they concentrate on replacing 3, estrogen, progesterone, and testorone. It would seem that we would have many problems when they take out our parts. And I have to believe that weight problems are caused by loss of these hormones. I have been eating healthy and small portions because I have not been hungry for more. I lost 11 pounds with surgery but no more. I am surprised and am not giving up. Hang in there women. And please, please , please young lady if you have not gotten more then one opinion about your need for a hyster. please do so. Study up on what is available. It could be the best thing that happened to you, but I am all for keeping all of our bits and pieces as long as possible. They were put there for a reason.
Don't do it! I was told the only way to be pain free, cervical cancer free, HPV free was to have that horrible surgery! I am 26. I had the HystoCRAP Oct. 18th, 2006. I am suffering more now than ever before. I have high blood pressure, I still have an incredible amount of pain, joint pain, extreme headaches, and I am so tired all the time. i was fortunate to have had my son before this, but I have to look around at all the beautiful babies and realize that I will never again have that feeling in my arms from my womb. I had endometriosis and fybroids and evrything else...whatever....had the surgery to still have pain. I have had my gallbladder and apendix removed because they thought that might be the pain...still in pain and now they are looking back and seeing that all of the pain could actually be going back to the fact that I have chronic kidney stones! Stupid freakin doctors! They are human just like us. I have no clue why we put so much faith in them! Plus....I have gained 27lbs and ..... If you are doing this because of anything endometriosis related issues do your research. No matter what the doctor tells you...it can still come back after a full hysterectomy. There have been tons of cases because there was a seed left behind and behold 3 years later some poor woman starts bleeding and thinks she is dying because she has nothing to bleed from until she goes to the doc and there it is....she has endo. back. Just don't do it. there are other options and it's not worth the risk of all the health risk that come after. i almost died after mine because of the bleeding and then 3 days after went back because of extreme infection. DON'T DO IT!
lord give us strength. I had a hysterectomy in 03 leaving one ovary. my sex drive has not changed but my body size has. 35 lbs. i'v tried over the counter drugs, exercise, now i'm go through a doctor for prescribed pills and fluid pills and nothing seems to work. it a shame that doctors do not listen to what we are trying to say. i'm glad to know that their is support out there. i'm eating right, low carbs, but nothing works. it hurts, and my husband just does not understand that i'm trying. I tell him all the time that something is wrong with my body. i also just had the thyroid test done AGAIN and as usual all is fine. i'm also noticing my hair keeps breaking off. Can anyone help me with a natural hormone.
I'm 43 years old, I had a complete hysterectomy (minus cervix) in Dec '07, due to Ovarian cancer, and had undergo 5 months of chemotherapy. You'd think, I would have loss weight during chemo, but no way, I gained. I completed chemo a little over a month ago, and I've been working out and eating healthy, only 1200 calories a day, plus 1 hour of intensive exercise. I lost 8 lbs in the first week, yet doing the exact same thing, gained it all back the next, plus a pound. Now it's up a pound, down a pound, up two pounds.
I'm so confused and frustrated..I could spit. I hope it gets better over time, especially sine its only been a month, but I'm not holding out any hope. I'm happy to be alive, but damn this *****!!! I had lost 50lbs before undergoing surgery and I'm depressed about this weight gain (I've gained back 45 of the 50 I lost).
I had a radical hysterectomy 12 years ago. After many tests and trials, I was told I had fibromyalgia. I use an estrogen patch that helps with hot flashes and take B-12 shots every week as well as vit E and C . I have found nothing to help with sex drive.
I have been looking into HGH therapy for all this. The hormones contained in HGH should/and have had results( all good) for weight gain problems and ache and pains associated with hysterectomies.
i had a hysterectomy in 2003 at the time I was 165 and could diet and lose weight after the surgery my weight kept going up I know weight 212 I am currently stable a couple months ago I took the diet pill phetermine cut out all sodas and only drank water I also stuck to a stict 1200 calorie diet after one week I lost 13 pounds.once I quit the diet my weightcame back on I dont like taking pills butI will try again with the 1200 calorie diet and only water and see if I can lose again.I am so miserable because I have always ate everything and couldnt gain.I am 5'8 and use to always be 110 pounds a real bean pole after having four kids and a tubal i went to 165 and was satisfied now after a full hysterectomy I look in the mirror and get sick at the site
I've been told to stop the heavy monthy bleeding and clots a hysterectomy is needed. I already fight weight gain at the age of 49 and after reading the postings I dont want this surgery. I am 5'2"and weigh 175 now. There must be another option anyone out there with any suggestions please post. I cant fight more weight gain.
I had a hysterectomy in October. I have gained 12 pounds since then, even though I am exercising at least an hour a day. I felt better reading through the comments, knowing I wasn't alone, but it is scary when I don't see much hope.
For the person with Fibromyalgia, there is a good book out.
Go to: thrivingwithfibromyalgia.com
I have spoken to many of the clinics who offer hcg and what I am getting is... this could be the answer for us.
Find a doc in your area who uses the hcg and see what happens.
I found a lot of the natural docs and chiros are getting into it, so what do you have to lose besides a few pounds and I will let you know what I found out.
I am 34 years old, I had Hysto in April 2006. I had everything removed except left ovary. I have 3 children and I have always been pretty skinny. I was 99 lbs when got preg. with first child, gained 60 lbs, lost weight and went back to 110. Got preg with 2nd child gained 50 lbs, lost weight fast went back to 110 lbs. 3 years got preg. with last baby, gained 30 lbs. during pregnancy, found out I had HPV which was scary since I have had only one partner. I accused him of cheating..... To come to find out my mom had same thing and had hysto a fews before me do to cancer from hpv. After I had jacob I waited a year, I wanted to nurse him since my 2 child was diagnosed with Colitis at age of 3. I wanted to make sure jacob would have a chance not to get colitis since no ones knows what causes it. I nursed him for a year then during one of my many pap tests, found out I had cancer. After surgery, I was still in pain, dr. injected me with lupron shots thinking I had endo. so I did that for 3 months. no relief. I fired the dr. and went to Oncology GYNO. and she found mass on my only ovary left with 9 inch hernia. So 7 months after hysto surgery, I was back into surgery for mass removal and hernia repair. Took 12 weeks to heal again and I felt good. I started to lose weight. I got cleared to do some light working out. I did that but about 6 months ago I was put on no exercise restriction due to my hernia repair to losen, since that I gained 30 lbs. I am eating healthy, but the weight is coming on fast. I believe it is water weight. I am 150 lbs, 5'4. I cant stand to see my face in the mirror. I feel so bloated, like a water balloon. I saw drs.. and they said I was depressed and tried to put me on different depression meds and made life worse. I saw my internist and was tested and he laughted and said you dont need depression drugs. Your levels are great. you are healthier then me and I am dr. So I have not taken anything but weight keeps coming as do the body aches, and not sleeping at night.
Help.
Thanks
Tanya
I had my hysterectomy in January 2007. I had many, many fybroids tumors and one was attached to the uterus. Even though I protested and tried to find as many alternatives to the surgery as possible, I was told that the hysterectomy was the only solution; because of the numberous tumors and the location of the larger one.
Prior to the procedure I asked both doctors (the OB-GYN and my General Doctor) if the surgery would cause weight gain. I asked because I was already considered, by my doctor, to be moderately obese and I had just lost 20lbs, and didn't want to ever see it again. Both doctors said that I would not gain weight because I had a "partial hysterectomy." I still have both ovaries. However, I too am disappointed to report that they were both wrong. I am now at my highest weight ever in my life time 200lbs.
I paid a forturne to joined LA Weight Loss, I had had past success {30lb lost} with LA Weight Loss prior to the hysterectomy. I followed it to the letter for 12 weeks (which included a liquid fast, that I did twice) and lost NOTHING AT ALL. I was aggrevated, frustrated, humilated and I decided to give up on weight lost. Then, the doctor gave me Phentermine, which causes numbness and tingling in my left arm, and the weight is still stubborn. Thyroid checked out okay. And to top it off, when I asked him if he thought that the weight was hormonal related from the hysterectomy; he said NO it was not hormonal and stared pushing the "TEN YEARS YOUNGER" book, because he has had successful weight lost using the book. So I guess it is all in my head right, I know that I can go on a liquid fast twice in a 12 week period and not lose anything at all, but it is all in my head.
I found this forum, while searching for proof (to give to my doctor) that hysterectomies can cause weight gain. I would like to show him that their are many women in the world and all over the world battling with this problem. It seems to me that some doctors don't want to do the research anymore. They do not seem to be interested in finding solutions to medical problems, but pacifying them. There seems to be a lack of concern for us, once they've butchered us up. It seems like when the medical problems get too tough to diagnose, they want to just throw us away.
This is an appeal to an upcoming Medical Intern, please, please, please conduct a study to find out why so many of us women are gaining weight like a vengence, after hysterectomies. And what can be done to stop this enemy and reverse its ugly damage on our bodies. Like so many of these other ladies, I am still full of hope and I will be praying, believing and waiting on a cure/solution.
Some of you are very young to have had hysterectomies. I had one at 43, last year, due to invasive fibroids. I still have both my ovaries. I have gained about 30 lbs however the jury is still out. Is it related to my surgery or my lifestyle changes? I used to be very thin as I walked everywhere, worked out faithfully and watched what I ate. When I found out about my fibroids I stopped exercising and ate everything in sight. I still refuse to believe that my weight gain is a direct result of my surgery. I did notice that most of my weight is around my stomach which is an area I never had a problem with. I am going to make an effort to get back into my old routine of exercising etc and will see where it takes me.
Just wanted everybody to know that you are not alone. I am taking diet pills prescribed by my doctor and am gaining weight. Never been big before. Never struggled with diets. Am so upset especially now that I read that it isn't just me. I thought it was me because I wasn't eating correctly or getting enough exercise or something. I refuse to starve myself to death to be thin, but yet I feel like I am dieing on the inside because I am not me. I have gained 30 lbs in 3 months. Mad at myself and mad because I only had a few cysts on my ovaries and the doctor removed everything not letting me know the side affects. So upset with myself for not researching this. At night I feel like I swell in my stomach. In the mornings it doesn't feel that way. Taking laxatives, diet pills and eating salads all day and raw vegetables, Doesn't sound healthy does it. But what do you do? Get fatter? I think not. Am exercising too. My friend told me that she ate rice cakes and drank water and she did that for 5 days and took 1 off not to splurge, but to eat normal and then started again. If anyone hears of anything that may help, please write ***@**** and let me know. I am so sad and upset and depressed that I can hardly stand myself.
Anybody out there that is considering this hysterectomy surgery, make sure that it is a life or death situation. Because the after affects are not worth it. With pills without doesn't matter, the panic attacks , the sweats, the hotflashes, the weight gain, the rage you feel inside, not worth it. Research and make sure you have thought about this before you go ahead and ruin the rest of your life. I am 42. I feel like I am 90 and ready to retire from any kind of relationship I have ever wanted because this is not me, who I used to be and it isn't about age, it is about this choice I made. (should I say mistake).
I'm in the same boat and feel so much better knowing I'm not alone. Had a hysterectomy in '07 and they left the ovaries. I'm gaining weight despite daily exercise and personal trainer. Dieting doesn't work at all. I'm consistantly throwing good money after bad by paying a trainer and she doesn't understand why I'm gaining weight. She says it's all diet. I disagree and glad to know I'm not going crazy. Going to Dr. next week to get some advice, info, and hopefully some blood tests. I've also had my thyroid removed so I'm on lifelone thyroid hormone too. I work too hard to see such little results! Anyone with thryroid removed too?
The simple truth is the female body is a complicated, interactive, computerized system that downloads a virus after a hysterectomy that causes the hard drive to malfunction as far as metabolism is concerned. Without that "L" chemical thingy that we lose when we have a hysterectomy...our goose is cooked!
We have a voice ladies, we need to use it to get help. We need someone in the medical/nutritional/weight management arena who is willing to take the time to help us balance our systems again...without those horrible toxic chemical hormone replacements! Did you know that one of the top hormone replacement therapy pills is PREgnant MARe urINe? That's what I was told at the health food store. I found out that we are gaining "estrogen fat!" Hmmmm...no kidding, Sherlock!
We need something natural that our bodies can understand. I have gained 40 lbs and have a horrible history of dual lineage and sibling diabetes and high blood pressure. Yes, I'm freaking out about my weight...I'm 52 years old!!!
I am writing once again after 2 weeks of walking 5-7 miles a day. I stopped gaining, but my legs ache, still big and still craving high fat and sugar foods. Still taking diet pills, still cranky, but haven't lost 1 single pound. Let me ask you if this is too much food, or do you think it would make you gain. I ate for 2 weeks now, I remind you. Breakfast1 egg and 1 slice cheese 3 cups of coffe with creamer, lunch: raw carrots with fat free dressing, dinner: microwaveable pot pie and 17 grapes. All day long I had 1-16 oz gatorade and at the end of the day I would drink 1 10 oz soda to keep from having withdrawals from caffeine. I was drinking 3-4 sodas a day DIET COKE only.. and I would drink coolaid in between. Some times water. And that is it for two weeks. Didn't even loose a quarter of a pound. There is a chiropractor here that says that he can help with diets and pain, there is a gym here that have nutrition and weight trainers (fat trainers), but my worry is do they understand the reasoning behind having hysterectomies and weight gain. weight watchers say they do, jenny craig says they do, diet doctors that give pills say they do, gynocologists say they do, but you know what, from what i have read and experienced, they do not. I kinda wish I could find a female doctor that has experienced this and would know why and what to do about it. These men doctors don't know what the heck they are talking about. It, to me, is like me reading a book about Japan and going and telling my friends that I went there. You know how people want laws passsed so they take it to a higher court and get up petetions and eventually they are heard and get to present their case? This is a situation when women need to ban together and figure out a way to take this case to a medical board and make them figure out something that can stop this and doctors from giving unnecessary hysterectomies. I wonder if a world magazine would be interested in these stories that I have read. Is there anybody on here that might know a way to get the ball rolling? I will write our local newspaper and see if they are interested and try to do some research on this, but I need your support and guidance as well. HELP!!!!!!!!! I think it is possible to get their attention, but it has to be a lot of people that ban together and do this, they aren't going to listen to a single person. Thanks for listening.
I, too, have struggled with weight gain since having my hysterectomy. I do not regret the surgery, though. It probably saved my life, and gave me back a level of comfort I had forgotten could exist. Unlike some here, there were no good alternatives for me. I actually changed doctors begging for a hysterectomy, and I am delighted to be free of large painful precancerous tumors crushing my other organs, weakness and loss of mental clarify from anemia, and constant worry over repeated abnormal biopsies.
I have stopped my weight gain by drastically changing my eating habits and lifting light weights while doing aerobic type exercises, but I still haven't lost the weight I had already put on.
Now that I have been exercising regularly for a couple of months and trying to eat light snacks 7 or 8 times a day, I am not craving sweets or carbs the way I was before. For me, it seems more important to build some muscle in the arms, shoulders, abdomen and legs, than to spend hours a day walking. The muscle cells seem to crave more protein and fewer sugars and carboydrates.
I have also quit going out to eat, except one day each week, and then I will not go to a restaurant that does not offer something light that I enjoy. I just won't go. I am keeping packages of vegetables that can be steamed in the microwave, cans of vegetable soup, and yogurt on hand to snack on when I get in from work, because I am always hungry then. I also started drinking a cup of tea in the middle of the afternoon along with a glass of water.
And I keep a daily calorie journal. For me, I have to write everything I eat down every single day. If I quit writing, I start eating poorly immediately.
I also had a hysterectomy when I was 29 (they left one ovary) I was not put on any hormones. I gained over 30 lbs. the doctors kept telling me that I had to be eating to gain weight, that you only gain 5 or 6lbs right after your surgery. I was so depressed and then 10 years later I had to have my thyroid radiated within 3 months I gained 69 lbs. The Endocrinologists were heartless, they told me there was no connection to hypothyroidism and my 69 lb weight gain. After hitting 197 lbs and being 5 ft 4 in. with asthma, sleep apnea, and boder line diabetis I quit my job and took out a loan for $14,000 and had lyposuction on most of my body. The breast being down to a small C cup instead of an E or DD has helped tremendously with my breathing and the fat being sucked from my neck now lets me look down and swollow without choking. My butt and thighs are still very big and my stomach is still large but I'm told this will shrink within 6 months. I want to tell all of you, you know your body and you know your not sitting around all day cramming food down your throats and denying your doing it. I too exercise and diet religiously to no results. Please hang in there and do your best on a day to day basis. I will let you know if the weight stays off. The doctor removed 20lbs but I've only lost 10lbs to date (9 weeks later). Hang in there everyone!
I posted earlier in August so I won't repeat my background. But I, like many of you struggle with feeling like I'm going insane when I exercise more than I ever did and continue to watch what I eat. Desperate is what I feel most times. I've since been to consult with a naturopath here in Phoenix. I really like her. She's advised me to go on a gluten free diet, buy organic fats (like butter, milk, cheese, meat) and to a variety of supplements, cleanse course, and pro-biotics to my daily intake. I still am at a high weight but at least I'm not still gaining. It's been only 1 month. She changed my thyroid to a compounding T3/T4 and I now take it in the morning. My Endocrinologist basically said that I'm peri-menopausal and unless "I grew another foot" I'd be struggling with weight the rest of my life"...I left his office crying and vowed not to return.
I continue to run/walk 4 miles a day and have discontinued working with my trainer for a while. My trainer didn't really know what to say to me and thought it all resulted from my diet. I felt and still feel that there is a trigger somewhere in my metobolic state or horomone level that will not budge. Once I find the right combination of diet, meds, supplements, horomones, and Thyroid meds, I'll start to see the scale drop. I feel like all the hard work and exercise is for nothing when I try on clothes. In my earlier years I would have lost 15 lbs by now.
Nice to have a forum like this...I don't feel so alone and crazy.
i hate to sound repetitive here.. but i am 29 yrs young and i had my horrid surgery on 01.18.08
it was the worst day of my life.. what was to be 1 1/2 hour procedure turned out to be 4 1/2 hours of hell... i say hell because when i woke up i was in so much pain..
i had endo.. and now i have gone from 125 to 170 in less than a yr and im only 5 foot 2.
i have no clue how to make it go away.. and i have no sex drive, and my boyfriend does not believe me when i say that because his aunts have had the surgery and they are very lovey with their husbands so that causes fights. i get so depressed looking in the mirror and NONE od my clothes fir.. i wear sweats all the time with baggie shirts. i wish i knew how to make it stop..
on a brighter note.. a friend of mine's mom went through this and she went from a size 18 to a size 10 by eating bananas during the day and special k for breakfast and then having a very light dinner and walking every morning and every night. i 've been told more than once that bananas have a natural weight loss in them for females.. dont forget grapefruit also.. it uses more caleries to digest than it actually has in it.. so its a great snack and its filling.. use real sugar on it tho.. no artifial sweetner, they are VERY bad for you.
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I was obese before I had a total hysterectomy a few months ago, 100 pounds over weight. I did no research on the surgery. Now I'm gaining more weight even though I am eating less. If this continues I'll die from obesity. Several of my co-workers told me I'd probably lose weight after the surgery. What were they thinking? I had to stop taking the hormone replacement due to severe migraines. Why didn't my doctor tell me about the weight gain? She should have considered any more weight could kill me. I'm also diabetic, another health problem. I'm so depressed to know that the surgery was optional. I never would have had it done knowing that this was the price I'd pay for it. Much regret.
Just joined and saw your post. I, too, had a total hysterectomy at 35. I am now 44. I weighed 135 pre-op and now am a whopping 179!! OMG, I cannot believe I actually said the weight out loud.....ooh!! Anyway, I, too, had fibroid tumors. I also had a ruptured cyst on one ovary and endometriosis on the other ovary and the doc recommended a total hysterectomy. I didn't know any better, completely trusted his opinion (after getting a second) and went for it!! That is my single regret of my life!!!!!!! Now there are procedures to remove the fibroid tumors w/o having to go through a hysterectomy!! Wish I could go back, but alas, we cannot. I was put on HRT immediately and seemed to gain some weight. I have been taking Estradiol for nine years and really want to get off.
I was also diagnosed with Hashimoto's Thyroiditis two years ago. So now take Synthroid on top of the Estradiol and wow, the scale keeps going up.
Hi i had a hystorectomy in Feb 2007, The surgeon ( who i now call the bucher!) told me that i had to have my cervix & ovarys removed at the same time because if we left them there was a high chance i would develope cancer in them. ( the reason i was having a hystorectomy was because i was bleeding heavely almost every month.) Well during the opperation the Bucher put a stitch through the left tube leading from my left kidney to my bladder. The tube swelled up causing me a lot of pain untill it caused a fistula (hole ) in my vagina.( can i say that word on here?) resulting in me becoming incontinent as urine was porring out of my V. Because of this i had to go back to hospital for further surgery to shorten & reattach the tube to a new part of my bladder. during this opperation i had stents put in both of my tubes leading from my bladder to my kidneys to make sure the tubes didnt colapse. I had to keep the stents in for 4 months before having another opperation to remove them. The pain i suffered was horrendus & i still am in alot of pain most days, i could just about cope with the pain but then i started to gain weight & lose my sex drive. It feels like he not only robbed me of my femininity hs has left me feeling fat & worthless as well. I am now on antidepresants & i see a councelor once a week & slowly i am starting to feel a little better. Because none of my friends & family have had a hystoectomyi have felt very alone & reading the comments on this forum has helped me realise i am not. :)
To all you ladies,
Hi I am Gidget, 41, and just joined this month. I know not all women go through this angst, but I too had a total hysterectomy...UGH!
Oh where to start...First off I feel for all of you and am grateful to have found this forum, while we feel bad it is good to know we are not alone! I know the wieght gain and all the other side affects are nearly impossible some days! I'll share with you what I have learned and then my story proceeding...I tend to right short novels, so please forgive.
My mom had her tubes tied and they were wrapped around her ovaries which made them begin to rot (she was 15 when she had me and 17 w/ my brother) then a hysterectomy at 18, leaving a partial ovary and subsequently had more ab surgeries and evntually had it removed as well. She and my aunt did not gain the wieght or have many side affects w/ their hysterectomy's, sexual or otherwise, so I don't know why we are so "dang special", but hopefully some of this helps...
Finding a good doc/specialist is probably key before and after, so I hope some of info helps! I also have Firbromyalgia and I can tell you what my doc(s) say and are doing now to help me AND some of THOSE Endo docs seem like quacks!.My endo doc said I had the fat gene and I needed to accept it and do botox for the excessive perspiring. Never had a weight problem until the female problems started.
There is now a product out called Optifast. It is monitored monthly by a doctor and supposedly you can lose about 10 pounds or more a month. However, it is about $300.00 a month, so if you have the moola perhaps it may help boost your energy and melt away the lbs. When I can afford it, I will definitely try it.
I have also found out that sometimes after being under anesthesia and trauma to the body our bods change, including thyroid. I have had soooo many Tyhroid tests (T2 & T4)in the past several years but just found out I have Reverse T3, which is in the liver (most dr.'s do not do that particular test). I am on med's for it now and am losing some of the weight, so that may also be something to look into. I was taking Enjuvia after the patch seemed to fail and currently went off all HRT's. It is cooler now, so the "flashes" aren't quite as bad but still doing at least 2 showers a day and sleeping with the fan full blast at night. I do have to take sleeping aids and until I did i was a complete crankster! My poor family!
I have 3 kids, sons 20 and 16 and 5 yr. old daughter. After my 2nd son (1992) and 2nd c-section, which they had a fouled up I have had a total of 8 more abdominal surgeries, with the last in 12/06. Some of my uterine lining was sewn on the outside of my uterus causing an endometreoma which grew into my right stomach muscle (uterus and muscle were stuck together). In the following 14 years were surgeries and depro-vera and lupron were injected monthly to try to shrink the masses and prevent pain, blood loss and surgeries. I went through "synthetic" menopuase at 28, 30 and 32 with a year break in between but it kept coming back. I didn't gain much weight but was younger and very active and watched my grams of fat or did Atkins diet during the injections
That menopause was nothing compared to my total hysterectomy in '06! They thought I had ovarian cance as my uterus, bladder, ovaries and cervix were plastered together and attached to the peritenium. They didn't know until they got in and sent it to pathology, but Thank God it was not cancer. Six months prior to the Hyst. I tried one last time of synthetic menopause (injections) and I began gaining weight, but minimal compared to the hysterectomy. I have put on an additional 55 lbs. since then and have just lost 15 in the past month. I went from 130 lbs. when my daughter was about 18 mos. to 212! She was a real surprise as they told me I would never get pregnant again.
At any rate, it almost seems as though the hysterectomy's are possibly interfereing with nature and maybe that's why some of us have a harder time. I put it off until they thought I had cancer, but now regret some of it. I feel mostly with the cervix gone, sex is not the awesome experience it used to be. I don't feel cute and perky anymore and don't like going out or entertaining because of the weight, the sweating and fatigue. I finally have a different health plan and a great GP, so it is a work in progress and hopefully soon I will know more and feel alot better!!!
I hope those of you looking into having one get second opinions and those of you going through this misery find some relief! Sorry for rambling on, but hopefully there may have been some info helpful and questions to ask your doctor.
Thanks for letting me know I am not crazy either. I had colon CA, age 30. Age 34 high levels of dysplagia (cancerous cells in uterus) therefore hysterectomy. I was 166 pre-op at 5'11'' now 185 and very disgusted. working out, exercising. My OBGYN tells me to exercise more- obviously he is a man and does not get it. Thanks for letting me know I am not alone in this horrible battle.
Everyone who has had a total hysterectomy, or has symptoms of fatigue, weight gain, hot flashes/night sweats, constipations, dry hair, skin and nails, joint and muscle aches, etc, (or any combination thereof) needs hormones. Not the synthetic ones that cause cancer and blood clots, but natural, bioidentical hormones. Most doctors pooh-pooh it, but there is a reason it is so popular. Don't let the drs tell you they are a waste of time or there is no evidence to show these work and DO NOT cause cancer, etc. There are many studies by main stream journals (such as New England Journal of Medicine, JAMA, Lancet, etc). There is no reason to suffer like this. Go see a doc who is actually able to "think outside the box", research the studies on his own, and get some relief. Believe me, your life may depend on it!
Wow! I'm sorry to hear of the trouble your family has had with doctors. That old saying of "They call it a practice for a reason" seems to be at work in your case. I hope you continue to improve and get help from people that know what they are doing and not just blindly trying to find their way...
sending you ((((hugs))))
Wow, after going back to the beginning of this post and reading all the stories I want to send (((((hugs))))) to all of you. Then I get nervous, because it seems to run in families and my mom had to have this done, which means I might also. Good thing, I'm married to a naturopath as I don't trust medical doctors anymore.
I know someone earlier posted about hcg. I think hcg could help a lot, too. It works on your hypothalamus gland. Your hypothalamus controls your thirst, hunger, sleep, temperature and fat storing or metabolizing.(Well, I'm not a doctor it is probably more complicated than that, but this is my understanding of it)
I'm not sure of all the possible problems with taking hcg after having cancer. You would have to consult a physician willing to prescribe the hcg for you and have him/her monitor you closely to make sure it didn't make things worse. However, people who have thyroid disfunction have been able to utilise hcg to help them lose weight. I think there could be hope with this hormone...
My husband told me that your endocrine system gets messed up when you have a hysterectomy and that is a big part of the weight gain. Hormones work on your endocrine system(adrenals, thryroid, ovaries, etc) but they also work on your hypothalamus(part of the lower brain). So the hcg could benefit your overall health if it gets your hypothalamus working more optimally.
Well, I know that I might have some of that not quite right, because I am not a doctor and the body is very confusing, so please forgive me. I have been researching the hypothalmus and finding out how it is interconnected but I'm not really scientifically minded and could have things confused. I DO KNOW this: hcg does work for weight loss. I have seen it in myself and other people. Please find a naturopath or alternative friendly md that is willing to work with you and hcg and ask him/her if it would be safe for you to do it. My husband doesn't want to say that everyone can do it, 'cause he doesn't want to give out blanket advice without knowing the individual, but he is confident that the hcg works for weight loss, too, or he wouldn't be prescribing it.
UGH, I just wrote a long note and hit post and it booted me, so maybe I can give you all the short version...((( 0 :
First I wanted to sat to got_nd, thank you for the (((HUGS)))! That was very sweet and cute so much so it brings smiles and gratitude! And thanks for the empathy, info and understanding from eveyone of this forum, it's awesome!
**Side note to all of you whose hunnies are comparing your libido to their friends/families women: Perhaps print outs of info or even this forum will give them a better understanding. I personally went from the blissful side of the scale to the not-at-all blissful extreme side and it stinks! I figured if I made it to 80, that part of me would NEVER change...**
The above mentioned Bioidentical may be worth looking into. You can research it more through the Net, but I did see a show on Oprah and the controversy surrounding any or none in the matter of HRT. Robin McGraw (Dr. Phils wife) and apparently Suzanne Sommers swear by it and they look fabulous. Of course, most of us do not have the moola for personal trainers, etc...but Robin said it helped with weight, energy, moodiness and is a very strong advocate because of her success with it.
Something to look into with your docs (if ya haven't already:
Through great doc's (GP and Fibromyalgia) and testing, they found I am severely D3 deficient (which greatly hinders your immune system) and have added that (working up to 4000 IU) along with multi-vitamin, folapro, B 12 injections AND Hydroxy B12 subligual and then upped my Cytomel (reverse T3 meds). So we shall see if all that helps. I've been told that surgeries can cause alot of different ailments...perhaps that's why some of us didn't fair as well as others? It can possibly cause Fibromyalgia, which causes many of the symptoms we are all talking about (unfortunately there is still a stigma and doubt on if it exists)...but that's what I Heard...
In the past I have had great success with both Atkins (not trying it now as once in a while I like to partake in a glass of vino) or doing 25 grams of fat a day. After my 2nd son, I lost 45 lbs. in 4 mos. with 25G a day and kept it off for over 3 yrs. I did both during synthetic menopause (depra lupron injections) and it worked. Albeit it didn't have this much to lose though...
I would treat myself 1 whole day a week to whatever I liked. It is not good for diabetics though as most low fat foods have alot of sugar. If anyone is interested, I will post what I ate, how easy it was and once the weight started to drop, it made it easier to do yoga or walk. Yoga is great and low impact. I have a VHS (yes a VHS from the 90's and it's from Cosmopolitan...very low impact and stretches and boy did it tone...perhaps on DVD somewhere now?)
I probabbly wrote more on my original, and apologize if I am too chatty, but mostly wanted to convey you all have good vibes, (((HUGS))) (courtesy of got _nd), prayers and thoughts coming your way. Keep smilin' and know that we beautiful and temporarily stout gals will find an answer eventually! (((( 0 :
I forgot to mention, I went on thyroid meds (R-T3) and lost 12 lbs. right away, but went off my HRT shortly after and still am off and put the weight back on and a bit more...
I need to look into the natural stuff as well, but there may be something to needing it, then maybe weaning down the road when the bod is back to normal????
I had a partial hysterectomy in sept 08. I had 2 c sections before that. one in 01 and one in 95. The doctor who did my hysterectomy had to cut me lower than the c section scars because of scar tissue. I now have 2 ugly scars down low, the latest of which seems to stay infected. I have gained about 10 pounds in the last 6 months. I cry all the time. I don't know what to do! I also walk 3 miles 3 times a week, barely eat, and drink slimfast for two of my meals a day. Have lost nothing! I am a mail carrier and am running, walking, and climbing stairs all day 6 days a week! I don't know the answer but hopefully we will find one soon!!
i am 40 years old and i too have had a partial hyserectomy and have gained weigth tried every diet none to man nothing works. i am constently thinking about my weight and how fat i am. i had my serg. in 2000 weighing 140 i am 5"7' now i weigh 176 i am able to loose 5 lbs but it comes right back in a weeks time. i just started the weight loss for idiots i dont want this diet to fail so i have very high hopes but i just dont know what to do if this diet fails, and like most of you i before never had a sweet tooth and now i do. thats also a big fight i exercise almost daily and run regularly. i will keep you postted as to how the diet works .
Please find some information on the hcg diet. If no where else, then look up my user id on google (gotnd) and find my hubbies web page.
The hcg diet can help where other diets fail because it works to change your hypothalmic function on a cellular level. A lot of diets fail due to hypothalmic issues and not on a person's will power. Also, most diets make you lose your structural fat and normal reserve fat but never get to losing your stored (what I call abnormal) fat.
Please, please, please do some research on this hcg protocol. It can help almost anyone with few side effects. It has not been approved by the fda for weight loss(fda approves hcg, just for a different purpose), but it does work. Even here on medhelp, i have read many reports of how well it has helped people to lose weight when everything else seemed to fail. I haven't had many medical problems to deal with, but this diet also worked for me.
Ok this is my 8th day on the fat loss for idiots diet and i have lost i am down to 171.5 and it was a lot easier than i thought. i do have to admit that the lack of carbs does leave me tired and that yesterday i was actually weighed 175. i will continue on my last 3 days and then start on another 10 days using the food generator. so maybe their is hope for weight loss after a hyserectomy it's just that i think my body has changed from the way it was 10 years ago and my lifestyle has also changed. i will keep you posted.
Most of it in the stomach, rib and butt. I look pathetic, and am so afraid of being fat agian. I cook good healthy meals, I live on a farm and am outside doing chores ect. I have found that I have an INSATIABLE sweeet tooth that I have NEVER had. so i dont keep sweets in the house.
I am so relieved to know that some of you have experienced the dame problems.. i was bcoming very depressed as well.
Tiffany
Does anyone have a solution???
Helpless in San Diego
At least after reading this I know that I am not alone with this isssue. Good Luck to All and God Bless.
I had a complete hysterectomy in November 2007. Well let me tell you I can relate to all of you. I am 5'5" and now 185 pounds maybe more. I was always skinny. I was between 115 and 120. I will be 42 this year and I cannot believe how much I am still suffering in so many ways after this horrible surgery. I now know that mine was unnecessary and I had other options. Not only I have I gain an enormous amount of weight but I lose all of my desire for sex and cannot have an O. I am not sure if I am allowed to say the O word here or not? I continue to suffer with hot flashes, night sweats, insomnia, horrible headaches, my bones ache so much, I could go on and and on. I am so depressed and now reading that there is nothing I can do to lose weight I am even more depressed. I have doctors who seem to not know what they are talking about or just don't care. I really hope that researchers take this problems seriously and other problems we suffer after having a Hysterectomy!! I empathize with all of you. I just cannot stop crying. I feel like I am a completely different person in another persons body!
I have started researching weight gain and hysterectomies just yesterday. I am a Christian, believer in JC. After all the mood swings, depression, anger, loss of sexua desire, no O's, arms that can wave goodbye and hello at the same time, kept journals (I started WW again for the 50th time and write everything that goes into my mouth, I read every label, no MSG, no aspertame, I also have the insatiable sweet tooth. I HAVE HAD IT.
I am putting all my faith in God for guidance. I WILL dig deep into all my research and I WILL find a way to stop this weight gain and I WILL unzip and walk out of this body I do not know and find myself again.
I will post all new findings as I search to try and help all of us.
Yes, I too attend a health club, eliptical and bike 30 mins, circuit training, my trainer says this, (no hitting please ladies-although I could have punched him)..."Weight gain is a mind issue. Weight gain occurs when you put food in your mouth eat it, it goes into your stomach and so and so, then you do not burn off more calories than you eat."
"A woman 40 and older should normally be eating 1,950 calories a day. To lose 2 lbs a week you need to subtract 500 calories a day-down to 1,450 calories a day. That is how it's calculated. You can live on 1,200 normally (any woman) eating healthy and lose or if you are at your desired weight you should use 1,200 to maintain.
OK, for me I have "suffered" long enough. Lost to many days, months and now years being miserable. Drs, truly don't know, nor do they truly care. When they prescribe a med, they make big $. I personally am on a compound bio-identical hormones. Triest 3.75, 0.5 Test. It is made by a compounder at Walgreens. There are only so many compounders around so do your homework. I to have "been back" to the drs with the,"I'm gaining weight issue." She just said, "You have to step up working out and pay close attention to your food intake."
I would like to recommend reading or going to Barnes/Knoble (a bookstore) a book called, "The Menopause Bible." No, it's not religious, it has some great advice on all subjects. I read alot of it yesterday and am going to Amazon.com to purchase a used one opposed to buying the $27.50 B/K price.
I WILL BE BACK, so watch for my research and results, I will share it all! We will never have to stand behind the camera lense again!
Blessings: Bonnie
I plan on buying "The Menopause Bible" for any advise I can get.
Thanks,
Trish
If I could do it all over again I would have chosen any other method known to man, other than a hysterectomy. My advice to anybody facing the possibility of even recieving a partial hyst. is DON"T DO IT! If possible look for any alternate route available.
God Bless and best of Luck!
I'm so confused and frustrated..I could spit. I hope it gets better over time, especially sine its only been a month, but I'm not holding out any hope. I'm happy to be alive, but damn this *****!!! I had lost 50lbs before undergoing surgery and I'm depressed about this weight gain (I've gained back 45 of the 50 I lost).
I have been looking into HGH therapy for all this. The hormones contained in HGH should/and have had results( all good) for weight gain problems and ache and pains associated with hysterectomies.
Help please...
For the person with Fibromyalgia, there is a good book out.
Go to: thrivingwithfibromyalgia.com
Take time to read my profile if you want. And, read the journal comments on Hormones and "Why I am Here."
I might be able to offer some resources and maybe some hope.
Take care,
Mary 53
Find a doc in your area who uses the hcg and see what happens.
I found a lot of the natural docs and chiros are getting into it, so what do you have to lose besides a few pounds and I will let you know what I found out.
Help.
Thanks
Tanya
Prior to the procedure I asked both doctors (the OB-GYN and my General Doctor) if the surgery would cause weight gain. I asked because I was already considered, by my doctor, to be moderately obese and I had just lost 20lbs, and didn't want to ever see it again. Both doctors said that I would not gain weight because I had a "partial hysterectomy." I still have both ovaries. However, I too am disappointed to report that they were both wrong. I am now at my highest weight ever in my life time 200lbs.
I paid a forturne to joined LA Weight Loss, I had had past success {30lb lost} with LA Weight Loss prior to the hysterectomy. I followed it to the letter for 12 weeks (which included a liquid fast, that I did twice) and lost NOTHING AT ALL. I was aggrevated, frustrated, humilated and I decided to give up on weight lost. Then, the doctor gave me Phentermine, which causes numbness and tingling in my left arm, and the weight is still stubborn. Thyroid checked out okay. And to top it off, when I asked him if he thought that the weight was hormonal related from the hysterectomy; he said NO it was not hormonal and stared pushing the "TEN YEARS YOUNGER" book, because he has had successful weight lost using the book. So I guess it is all in my head right, I know that I can go on a liquid fast twice in a 12 week period and not lose anything at all, but it is all in my head.
I found this forum, while searching for proof (to give to my doctor) that hysterectomies can cause weight gain. I would like to show him that their are many women in the world and all over the world battling with this problem. It seems to me that some doctors don't want to do the research anymore. They do not seem to be interested in finding solutions to medical problems, but pacifying them. There seems to be a lack of concern for us, once they've butchered us up. It seems like when the medical problems get too tough to diagnose, they want to just throw us away.
This is an appeal to an upcoming Medical Intern, please, please, please conduct a study to find out why so many of us women are gaining weight like a vengence, after hysterectomies. And what can be done to stop this enemy and reverse its ugly damage on our bodies. Like so many of these other ladies, I am still full of hope and I will be praying, believing and waiting on a cure/solution.
Anybody out there that is considering this hysterectomy surgery, make sure that it is a life or death situation. Because the after affects are not worth it. With pills without doesn't matter, the panic attacks , the sweats, the hotflashes, the weight gain, the rage you feel inside, not worth it. Research and make sure you have thought about this before you go ahead and ruin the rest of your life. I am 42. I feel like I am 90 and ready to retire from any kind of relationship I have ever wanted because this is not me, who I used to be and it isn't about age, it is about this choice I made. (should I say mistake).
We have a voice ladies, we need to use it to get help. We need someone in the medical/nutritional/weight management arena who is willing to take the time to help us balance our systems again...without those horrible toxic chemical hormone replacements! Did you know that one of the top hormone replacement therapy pills is PREgnant MARe urINe? That's what I was told at the health food store. I found out that we are gaining "estrogen fat!" Hmmmm...no kidding, Sherlock!
We need something natural that our bodies can understand. I have gained 40 lbs and have a horrible history of dual lineage and sibling diabetes and high blood pressure. Yes, I'm freaking out about my weight...I'm 52 years old!!!
I have stopped my weight gain by drastically changing my eating habits and lifting light weights while doing aerobic type exercises, but I still haven't lost the weight I had already put on.
Now that I have been exercising regularly for a couple of months and trying to eat light snacks 7 or 8 times a day, I am not craving sweets or carbs the way I was before. For me, it seems more important to build some muscle in the arms, shoulders, abdomen and legs, than to spend hours a day walking. The muscle cells seem to crave more protein and fewer sugars and carboydrates.
I have also quit going out to eat, except one day each week, and then I will not go to a restaurant that does not offer something light that I enjoy. I just won't go. I am keeping packages of vegetables that can be steamed in the microwave, cans of vegetable soup, and yogurt on hand to snack on when I get in from work, because I am always hungry then. I also started drinking a cup of tea in the middle of the afternoon along with a glass of water.
And I keep a daily calorie journal. For me, I have to write everything I eat down every single day. If I quit writing, I start eating poorly immediately.
I continue to run/walk 4 miles a day and have discontinued working with my trainer for a while. My trainer didn't really know what to say to me and thought it all resulted from my diet. I felt and still feel that there is a trigger somewhere in my metobolic state or horomone level that will not budge. Once I find the right combination of diet, meds, supplements, horomones, and Thyroid meds, I'll start to see the scale drop. I feel like all the hard work and exercise is for nothing when I try on clothes. In my earlier years I would have lost 15 lbs by now.
Nice to have a forum like this...I don't feel so alone and crazy.
it was the worst day of my life.. what was to be 1 1/2 hour procedure turned out to be 4 1/2 hours of hell... i say hell because when i woke up i was in so much pain..
i had endo.. and now i have gone from 125 to 170 in less than a yr and im only 5 foot 2.
i have no clue how to make it go away.. and i have no sex drive, and my boyfriend does not believe me when i say that because his aunts have had the surgery and they are very lovey with their husbands so that causes fights. i get so depressed looking in the mirror and NONE od my clothes fir.. i wear sweats all the time with baggie shirts. i wish i knew how to make it stop..
on a brighter note.. a friend of mine's mom went through this and she went from a size 18 to a size 10 by eating bananas during the day and special k for breakfast and then having a very light dinner and walking every morning and every night. i 've been told more than once that bananas have a natural weight loss in them for females.. dont forget grapefruit also.. it uses more caleries to digest than it actually has in it.. so its a great snack and its filling.. use real sugar on it tho.. no artifial sweetner, they are VERY bad for you.
Good luck everyone
I was also diagnosed with Hashimoto's Thyroiditis two years ago. So now take Synthroid on top of the Estradiol and wow, the scale keeps going up.
There has to be an answer!!!!
Hi I am Gidget, 41, and just joined this month. I know not all women go through this angst, but I too had a total hysterectomy...UGH!
Oh where to start...First off I feel for all of you and am grateful to have found this forum, while we feel bad it is good to know we are not alone! I know the wieght gain and all the other side affects are nearly impossible some days! I'll share with you what I have learned and then my story proceeding...I tend to right short novels, so please forgive.
My mom had her tubes tied and they were wrapped around her ovaries which made them begin to rot (she was 15 when she had me and 17 w/ my brother) then a hysterectomy at 18, leaving a partial ovary and subsequently had more ab surgeries and evntually had it removed as well. She and my aunt did not gain the wieght or have many side affects w/ their hysterectomy's, sexual or otherwise, so I don't know why we are so "dang special", but hopefully some of this helps...
Finding a good doc/specialist is probably key before and after, so I hope some of info helps! I also have Firbromyalgia and I can tell you what my doc(s) say and are doing now to help me AND some of THOSE Endo docs seem like quacks!.My endo doc said I had the fat gene and I needed to accept it and do botox for the excessive perspiring. Never had a weight problem until the female problems started.
There is now a product out called Optifast. It is monitored monthly by a doctor and supposedly you can lose about 10 pounds or more a month. However, it is about $300.00 a month, so if you have the moola perhaps it may help boost your energy and melt away the lbs. When I can afford it, I will definitely try it.
I have also found out that sometimes after being under anesthesia and trauma to the body our bods change, including thyroid. I have had soooo many Tyhroid tests (T2 & T4)in the past several years but just found out I have Reverse T3, which is in the liver (most dr.'s do not do that particular test). I am on med's for it now and am losing some of the weight, so that may also be something to look into. I was taking Enjuvia after the patch seemed to fail and currently went off all HRT's. It is cooler now, so the "flashes" aren't quite as bad but still doing at least 2 showers a day and sleeping with the fan full blast at night. I do have to take sleeping aids and until I did i was a complete crankster! My poor family!
I have 3 kids, sons 20 and 16 and 5 yr. old daughter. After my 2nd son (1992) and 2nd c-section, which they had a fouled up I have had a total of 8 more abdominal surgeries, with the last in 12/06. Some of my uterine lining was sewn on the outside of my uterus causing an endometreoma which grew into my right stomach muscle (uterus and muscle were stuck together). In the following 14 years were surgeries and depro-vera and lupron were injected monthly to try to shrink the masses and prevent pain, blood loss and surgeries. I went through "synthetic" menopuase at 28, 30 and 32 with a year break in between but it kept coming back. I didn't gain much weight but was younger and very active and watched my grams of fat or did Atkins diet during the injections
That menopause was nothing compared to my total hysterectomy in '06! They thought I had ovarian cance as my uterus, bladder, ovaries and cervix were plastered together and attached to the peritenium. They didn't know until they got in and sent it to pathology, but Thank God it was not cancer. Six months prior to the Hyst. I tried one last time of synthetic menopause (injections) and I began gaining weight, but minimal compared to the hysterectomy. I have put on an additional 55 lbs. since then and have just lost 15 in the past month. I went from 130 lbs. when my daughter was about 18 mos. to 212! She was a real surprise as they told me I would never get pregnant again.
At any rate, it almost seems as though the hysterectomy's are possibly interfereing with nature and maybe that's why some of us have a harder time. I put it off until they thought I had cancer, but now regret some of it. I feel mostly with the cervix gone, sex is not the awesome experience it used to be. I don't feel cute and perky anymore and don't like going out or entertaining because of the weight, the sweating and fatigue. I finally have a different health plan and a great GP, so it is a work in progress and hopefully soon I will know more and feel alot better!!!
I hope those of you looking into having one get second opinions and those of you going through this misery find some relief! Sorry for rambling on, but hopefully there may have been some info helpful and questions to ask your doctor.
Good vibes coming your way! Gidget
sending you ((((hugs))))
I know someone earlier posted about hcg. I think hcg could help a lot, too. It works on your hypothalamus gland. Your hypothalamus controls your thirst, hunger, sleep, temperature and fat storing or metabolizing.(Well, I'm not a doctor it is probably more complicated than that, but this is my understanding of it)
I'm not sure of all the possible problems with taking hcg after having cancer. You would have to consult a physician willing to prescribe the hcg for you and have him/her monitor you closely to make sure it didn't make things worse. However, people who have thyroid disfunction have been able to utilise hcg to help them lose weight. I think there could be hope with this hormone...
My husband told me that your endocrine system gets messed up when you have a hysterectomy and that is a big part of the weight gain. Hormones work on your endocrine system(adrenals, thryroid, ovaries, etc) but they also work on your hypothalamus(part of the lower brain). So the hcg could benefit your overall health if it gets your hypothalamus working more optimally.
Well, I know that I might have some of that not quite right, because I am not a doctor and the body is very confusing, so please forgive me. I have been researching the hypothalmus and finding out how it is interconnected but I'm not really scientifically minded and could have things confused. I DO KNOW this: hcg does work for weight loss. I have seen it in myself and other people. Please find a naturopath or alternative friendly md that is willing to work with you and hcg and ask him/her if it would be safe for you to do it. My husband doesn't want to say that everyone can do it, 'cause he doesn't want to give out blanket advice without knowing the individual, but he is confident that the hcg works for weight loss, too, or he wouldn't be prescribing it.
First I wanted to sat to got_nd, thank you for the (((HUGS)))! That was very sweet and cute so much so it brings smiles and gratitude! And thanks for the empathy, info and understanding from eveyone of this forum, it's awesome!
**Side note to all of you whose hunnies are comparing your libido to their friends/families women: Perhaps print outs of info or even this forum will give them a better understanding. I personally went from the blissful side of the scale to the not-at-all blissful extreme side and it stinks! I figured if I made it to 80, that part of me would NEVER change...**
The above mentioned Bioidentical may be worth looking into. You can research it more through the Net, but I did see a show on Oprah and the controversy surrounding any or none in the matter of HRT. Robin McGraw (Dr. Phils wife) and apparently Suzanne Sommers swear by it and they look fabulous. Of course, most of us do not have the moola for personal trainers, etc...but Robin said it helped with weight, energy, moodiness and is a very strong advocate because of her success with it.
Something to look into with your docs (if ya haven't already:
Through great doc's (GP and Fibromyalgia) and testing, they found I am severely D3 deficient (which greatly hinders your immune system) and have added that (working up to 4000 IU) along with multi-vitamin, folapro, B 12 injections AND Hydroxy B12 subligual and then upped my Cytomel (reverse T3 meds). So we shall see if all that helps. I've been told that surgeries can cause alot of different ailments...perhaps that's why some of us didn't fair as well as others? It can possibly cause Fibromyalgia, which causes many of the symptoms we are all talking about (unfortunately there is still a stigma and doubt on if it exists)...but that's what I Heard...
In the past I have had great success with both Atkins (not trying it now as once in a while I like to partake in a glass of vino) or doing 25 grams of fat a day. After my 2nd son, I lost 45 lbs. in 4 mos. with 25G a day and kept it off for over 3 yrs. I did both during synthetic menopause (depra lupron injections) and it worked. Albeit it didn't have this much to lose though...
I would treat myself 1 whole day a week to whatever I liked. It is not good for diabetics though as most low fat foods have alot of sugar. If anyone is interested, I will post what I ate, how easy it was and once the weight started to drop, it made it easier to do yoga or walk. Yoga is great and low impact. I have a VHS (yes a VHS from the 90's and it's from Cosmopolitan...very low impact and stretches and boy did it tone...perhaps on DVD somewhere now?)
I probabbly wrote more on my original, and apologize if I am too chatty, but mostly wanted to convey you all have good vibes, (((HUGS))) (courtesy of got _nd), prayers and thoughts coming your way. Keep smilin' and know that we beautiful and temporarily stout gals will find an answer eventually! (((( 0 :
I need to look into the natural stuff as well, but there may be something to needing it, then maybe weaning down the road when the bod is back to normal????
The hcg diet can help where other diets fail because it works to change your hypothalmic function on a cellular level. A lot of diets fail due to hypothalmic issues and not on a person's will power. Also, most diets make you lose your structural fat and normal reserve fat but never get to losing your stored (what I call abnormal) fat.
Please, please, please do some research on this hcg protocol. It can help almost anyone with few side effects. It has not been approved by the fda for weight loss(fda approves hcg, just for a different purpose), but it does work. Even here on medhelp, i have read many reports of how well it has helped people to lose weight when everything else seemed to fail. I haven't had many medical problems to deal with, but this diet also worked for me.