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Baby Oops.

I met a man who I was dating. We had sex while I was on birth control and a condom, but it broke. Now Im 31/2 months pregnant. I had alot of people give me alot of problems because i have 3 kids already and no fathers that stuck around. I thought about abortion, but I couldnt do it. I knew it was wrong. Im so scared. The father didnt want me to keep the baby and he is gone now. I still get alot of greif about keeping the baby, some people think I should give it up for adoption. Is there anyone out there who has to go through having there baby alone?
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You can do it, just be positive and think about the joy of bringing a new life into this world :)
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Yep. I found out I was pregnant after me and the father stopped seeing each other. He tried to get me to have an abortion but I was not supposed to be able to conceive so I refused. I was already over 3 months when I found out so I just couldn't do it. I didn't pressure him to be involved and I just quit speaking to him. He hasn't tried to contact me so his loss. This is my first child and I've accepted the fact that I will be a single mother. I'm almost 36 weeks and very excited to meet my little man. I could never imagine giving him up. It's your decision to do what you want and no one else's.
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