Don't know what to do

[sallykent13]

So I am have fallen pregnant, I have no idea how far gone I am cause I was on the pill. I just took at test and it says 5+ weeks.. I'm confused about it all and my partner doesn't want a baby yet. But I don't want to get rid. What should I do...

[dariaivan]

Keep the baby!! It's the greatest gift!!!!

[sallykent13]

You are all amazing thank you so much

[Aimeeriley]

Do what's best for you!

[3237]

You need to do what's best for you and the baby.  Your partner will learn that life does not always turn out as planned and Their are a lot of twists and turns in life. Need to be able to adapt to changes and if he can't, maybe he's not the one for you.

[sallykent13]

Thank you so much for that. My family will be supportive I haven't had my first scan yet, so wanted to wait Till then before I tell them. He said he Doesn't want a baby yet, he wanted us to have a morgage etc, but obvs it's happened now. He said he won't leave me, but thinks it's a bad idea keeping it

[2gs_2bs_andcounting]

I believe, and it sounds like you do too, every baby is a blessing from God. There never really is a "perfect" time to have a baby, but every baby is perfect. It's scary in the beginning but holding your baby for the first time makes you fall in love deeper than you ever imagined. You'll be alright, don't stress it. Plus once you see your baby for the first time on an ultrasound will make you more confident that you can't kill it. It's so amazing to see this tiny miracle growing inside you.

[hkjen]

First you need get a scan so you can find out how far along you are and start scheduling any screening tests.  If you haven't already, start taking a prenatal vitamin to get enough folic acid.  

[3237]

Take time to think. Don't panic. Their are ways around this. You don't want to get rid of it, so your mind is made up on that issue. is your partner saying he won't support you. Have u got a job to support yourself. Have you got family support. Just slow down and think things through their is always a way. Do you want to raise this child or consider adoption. There are always options. You can do this.