Help me

[chubbyabia]

Pls am a 1st time mom Eva since I told my bf I was pregnant he has neglected me.Am a Nigerian I av no job n its not easy 2 get 1 here especially wen u avant served ur country, am a graduate but still no source of income I want 2 plead with evry1 here if u av anything dat wud b useful 4 me n my baby I wouldn't mind.he wants me 2 abort it but I Reali wanna kip it.tanx n God bless.

[specialmom]

Would you consider adoption?  

that is often a good option for someone who is not in a position to raise a child but doesn't want to have an abortion.  

It's a really hard situation.  I can not sugar coat this for you.  Is your family willing to help you and support you and the baby financially and emotionally?  

[GxoK]

Oh my.  I am so sorry.  I don't have anything (my family and I are struggling too...food, diapers, etc) But, I do know that there is a website called Freecycle.com and you can find lots of things people are giving away in your area.  You can also register at different websites like Huggies.com, Pampers.com, Enfamil.com, and Similac.com for coupons and be entered into things where you might win valuable baby items.  You can also go to a local church or to a community center and some of those places will give you free food or donate items to you (I've had to do it for the past two christmas holidays just so my children would have gifts...)  There are lots of places that will be more than willing to help you.  Also, if you go to a Planned Parenthood Center, they will give you free diapers, a carseat, bottles, and lots of other things.  
I hope that information helps.  I'm so sorry you're struggling.  I know how you feel.