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What should I do?

Just found out that I am pregnant, Expected due date 04/30.. Told my now ex and he wants me to have an abortion. I honestly do not want to do it.. But he basically says that I'll be on my own if I keep it. I'm so hurt and undecided all at the same time..
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He's nor obligated to parent the child if he doesn't want to keep it.
Be prepared to do everything in your own.
Though I would suggest filing for child support so that you at least get financial help.

This is always a hard subject, because its wrong to force someone to become a parent, just as much as its wrong to force someone to terminate a pregnancy.
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Thank you for that, your absolutely right. I can't make him and I won't. Guess I'll be doing it on my own sad to say..

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