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immediate advice needed
It seems like the few people who know do not want me to have my baby . I am young but other than that i work hard and aupport myself. I was told becoming pregnant would not be easy for me due to medical issues so this is a blessing. But my fear is bringing a child into this world that is not full of love although I already love it. The father does not want me to keep it either im at such a crossroads please give your advice
People will judge you regardless of whatever you choose to do because they will always think they could have handled it better. Do what you need to do and don't apologize for making choices that are for your benefit. No one else in this world cares more about what happens to you than you do yourself. Weigh each option and its outcome and then make a choice. It's all you can do.
If you dont feel it would be loved you could always let it get adopted. There are lots of people out there that cant have babies and want them. I can have babies and still plan on adopting. Also if this pregnancy is a miracle abd you dont go through with it and then next time you try you have problems you will hate yourself. Esp if you already love it. I believe it is a life at conception so that is why i am advocating for the baby. Ultamatly though it is your choice and that choice is something you will have to live with forever so be careful in choosing. And know im not judging. I believe what i do. You dobt have to believe that too. Just dont do something you will regret. <3
If you want your baby, then you should have your baby. At the end of the day, you're carrying him/her, you're going to be financially responsible for him/her and everything else. The choice is ultimately yours but don't not have your child because of other people's opinions. I went through kind of the same thing and those same ppl don't help me with her, barely visit her, but they were so quick to offer they're opinions and tell me what I should do. Do what YOU think is best
You need to do what's right for you. Don't think your baby is coming into a world without love because I can guarantee that as soon as your family sees the baby they will lot him/her. It's the initial shock that gets people. As for the father, if you think you can do it alone than go for it. If he changes his.mind later on, great, give him that chance, but at this point it's all about what you feel is the best decision for you.
keep your baby! don't let no one to tell u anything negative... about ur baby.. if the father doesnt want the baby keep him out of ur life.. ur baby is a blessing from God.. yeah i might be hard.. but if GOD GAVE U THAT BLESSING OF BEING PREGNANT ITS BECAUSE HE IS GOING TO HELP U THROUGH IT..
Its your decision... Don't base your choice off of what everyone else thinks.
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