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[Naomi20]

Me and my partner had been trying to a baby for over a year, around 3 month ago we got the amazing news that  i was finally pregnant we were so happy and so was our family it was the most amazing feeling in the world knowing I was going to be a mammy. Sadly I started to spot brown blood at the stage of 8 weeks, i had an ultrasound and the doctor told me the baby was there but there was no heartbeat and measuring at 6 weeks and i had to come back in a weeks time to see if the baby had grown it was the most heart breaking new to ever be told to me. We then went back to be told that everything was the same and the baby had died inside me at 6 weeks I then had to have a medical assisted miscarriage which was e worst experience of my life. I am unable to get over the fact that I was once pregnant and my precious little baby was taken away from me to soon. I am so desperate for a baby and to be a mammy but I'm so scared that in will lose it again I don't really have any family that I can talk to about it because they don't understand what I'm going through i just feel so depressed.

[Bhupinder Kaur, MD]

Hello,
Most of the miscarriages occur very early in the pregnancy and are usually due to the chromosomal abnormalities in the growing fetus. Due to these abnormalities, the fetus is not able to survive. Many of the women even don’t come to know that they were pregnant.

Don’t lose hope as there are chances that you will fall pregnant again.

I hope it helps. It is very difficult to precisely confirm a diagnosis without examination and investigations and the answer is based on the medical information provided. For exact diagnosis, you are requested to consult your doctor. I sincerely hope that helps. Take care and please do keep me posted on how you are doing.

[sweetpea03]

I am sorry to hear about your miscarriage. Are you pregnant again? I am confused as to what your question is. Miscarriages are a lot more common than many people think and most women will experience at least one miscarriage in their child bearing years, then go on to have a healthy child after. Try not to stress yourself out about it and focus on your future. Are you working/have a stable income? Are you going to university or another type of continued education? How long have you been with your boyfriend? You are 19 and have many years ahead of you to have a child, so there is no rush to be a parent. Make sure your life is settled first before bringing a baby into this world or you will set yourself up to struggle. Hope it all goes well for you.