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My boyfriend and I had unprotected sex last night and i had a little pink spotting after about an hour and im hoping and praying that i'm not pregnant but if i am i will take care and raise my baby.....it just would mess our life plan up hes suppose to play football after school and i'm suppose to go to college.....
but today i also had a very bad headache and sharp back pain..
But im mostly scared because his parents are both cops and i dont want them to mad at both of us for a stupid decision that we made at the spur of the moment so if I am pegnant how should i break the news to them...
My sister has three kids and she is a single parent and has the most amazing children that anyone could ask for, she got pregnant when she was in school and i told her that i had unprotected sex with my boyfriend and she told me i needed to get on birth control and in 2 weeks take a pregnancy test.....

ANewLife4Me · Answer

Thanks for the update, I was wondering about you just a couple days ago.  Did you start your period yet?

Cinderella62 · Answer

he barely talks to me unless its anything about me being completely out of his life....

Cinderella62 · Answer

yeah kinda but i dont think his parents want us to be togeather.....
but it makes it hard because they are both cops and they know a lot more than you think they do.......

ANewLife4Me · Answer

How are you feeling today?  Are you and your boyfriend still not allowed to see each other?

Cinderella62 · Answer

and personally i still think im pregnant...

Cinderella62 · Answer

no noone knows besides My boyfriend and my sister......
and i am going to take a pregnancy test this coming up week and of corse my boyfriend will be there with me....

ANewLife4Me · Answer

l am sorry to hear what happened.  Forgive me if I missed it, but did his parents actually learn of your pregnancy scare?  All I can tell you for now, is to do the same - concentrate on yourself.  You are 15 years old and have the world ahead of you.  Two weeks isn't actually all that long.  See how your feelings are at the end of the two weeks, you never know, they could change :)

Cinderella62 · Answer

or have any contact with eachother at all

Cinderella62 · Answer

So things have turned my world around my boyfriend and I are not allowed to see eachother for 2 weeks to 2 months because his parents say that he needs to get his priorties straight and that school is first then sparts and that im last and i haven't stopped crying......his dad came out and talked with me and said its not going to be forever but he needs him to focus and he needs to stop paying so much attention to me and more on school and sports and i respect them so im doing what they ask but i can't eat anything and when i do sleep i dream about him, only him is there anyone out there who can give me advice i mean i know hes not going anywhere and neither am i,i mean were engaged but its hard to not be around him and for a long period of time......its killing me all i do is cry because i love him and want what is best for him and i told him he needs to focus on school and sports and just not worry about me and he told me that his life won't be complete without me and that his parents need to realize that..........

Cinderella62 · Answer

thank you for all the support.....

ANewLife4Me · Answer

Hello,
I agree with the above poster, you would not have pregnancy symptoms after just a couple of hours or overnight.
I am happy you confided in your sister and that you are going to the doctor.  Please use some form of protection from now on though.  Nowadays, you can't be too careful and you are so young.  Like you said, you don't want to wind up getting pregnant this young, but you also don't want to pick up an STD this young either, and the pill does not protect you against those.
Good luck to you, I wish you the best :)

alanas · Answer

You wouldn't have any evidence of it yet. If you had pink spotting it may be a bit of blood mixed with semen etc.... go and get some sti and pregnancy tests in a couple of weeks.