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Greetings everyone,
I hope you are all well. Something that has been playing on my mind a lot lately is the thought of having a baby with my husband. I am 28 and my husband is 30. My husband is very ready to start a family and I have very mixed emotions on the topic. I get extremely broody and get really tempted to giving my hubby the go ahead not to pull out but as he knows that I have mixed feelings, he respects me and pulls out. Not sure if other women experience the same but I get so broody and feel get so aroused just thinking about babies. My ovaries actually feel like they are hurting little when it happens. Now I know there is almost never the right time or perfect time. I went off the pill a while ago and we used condoms and pull out method. We are both aware of the risks involved but we both ok if it happens then it happens and we both would like a family :). I just want to know, why do our hormones go into overdrive when we think about babies and seem to want our partners to ejaculate inside us? Is this normal for our bodies to crave this even when it may not always be the 'right' time? Any advise, experience, thoughts and comments would be much appreciated.
I hope you are all well. Something that has been playing on my mind a lot lately is the thought of having a baby with my husband. I am 28 and my husband is 30. My husband is very ready to start a family and I have very mixed emotions on the topic. I get extremely broody and get really tempted to giving my hubby the go ahead not to pull out but as he knows that I have mixed feelings, he respects me and pulls out. Not sure if other women experience the same but I get so broody and feel get so aroused just thinking about babies. My ovaries actually feel like they are hurting little when it happens. Now I know there is almost never the right time or perfect time. I went off the pill a while ago and we used condoms and pull out method. We are both aware of the risks involved but we both ok if it happens then it happens and we both would like a family :). I just want to know, why do our hormones go into overdrive when we think about babies and seem to want our partners to ejaculate inside us? Is this normal for our bodies to crave this even when it may not always be the 'right' time? Any advise, experience, thoughts and comments would be much appreciated.
hey there, thank you very much for getting back to me. Really appreciate it and is really great to hear it from another perspective. thank you :)
I am no expert in this area but I feel as if at a certain stage and/or age in a woman's life, a light switch comes and our brains say "its time". I think it is the concept that we have, that has been planted in our brains from infancy as the "natural order of life". That is -- career, house, husband, family. I think your feelings are amplified due to the fact that you are married and your husband is ready for a baby.I also think you feel a little free-er in your thoughts because you are living the ideal concept of life, based on what we have been taught our whole lives about how life SHOULD go. There is never truly a right time but I understand the other factors attached, the hugest being financial/economic. My advise is, work at stabilizing whatever negative factors are there, work on them but get yourself to a stable position not necessarily the point of completely attaining everything and then try for a baby :-)
Baby dust to you. Good Luck.
Baby dust to you. Good Luck.
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