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Bleeding After Losing Virginity
So four days ago I lost my virginity to this guy I've been talking to (he was wearing a condom so no stress about that and honestly it lasted about 5 minutes because i told him it had to stop as i thought someone might walk in on us) it kinda hurt and felt like a lot of pressure but whatever
After we got out of bed we both looked at his sheets and there was this big blood stain... i went to the bathroom and i was bleeding kinda a lot (bright red in color.. not particularly like period blood - as it was bright red and not clumpy (as periods sometimes come out) it was more of just a flow... sorry to get really specific)
The next day that blood flow really slowed down but there was still a little coming out
Two days after losing my virginity, we hung out and he began to finger me and i bleed AGAIN.. this time not as much as the first time but still like immediately after- again bright red in color and flowing. When he started it kinda hurt but we stopped because we saw blood. This blood flow did not last as long at all. It was only "heavy-isn" for like 5 minutes then settled to just a few spots.
So its two days later and the blood is gone but like my underwear had some substance on it today. I am actually freaking out :( Is my vagina normal? People say i must've popped my hymen but everyone i talk to has not bleed this much! Am i going to bleed now after every time i get fingered or have sex??
Someone please help me !!!! SOS
After we got out of bed we both looked at his sheets and there was this big blood stain... i went to the bathroom and i was bleeding kinda a lot (bright red in color.. not particularly like period blood - as it was bright red and not clumpy (as periods sometimes come out) it was more of just a flow... sorry to get really specific)
The next day that blood flow really slowed down but there was still a little coming out
Two days after losing my virginity, we hung out and he began to finger me and i bleed AGAIN.. this time not as much as the first time but still like immediately after- again bright red in color and flowing. When he started it kinda hurt but we stopped because we saw blood. This blood flow did not last as long at all. It was only "heavy-isn" for like 5 minutes then settled to just a few spots.
So its two days later and the blood is gone but like my underwear had some substance on it today. I am actually freaking out :( Is my vagina normal? People say i must've popped my hymen but everyone i talk to has not bleed this much! Am i going to bleed now after every time i get fingered or have sex??
Someone please help me !!!! SOS
Specialmom, thank you so much for reassuring me. I really appreciate it. I needed that.
Am I going to bleed after every time? Or does the bleeding stop now?
Am I going to bleed after every time? Or does the bleeding stop now?
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Hi there, I'm just confirming that yes, this is normal. Breaking the hymen results in blood often. It can bleed as much as you say. Please always use a condom and don't give your body away to any guy without much thought about how valuable that is. good luck
So there's nothing wrong with me at all? Like this is completely normal?
Will it happen after every time or do you think the bleeding is finished now?
Thank you so much for helping me!
Will it happen after every time or do you think the bleeding is finished now?
Thank you so much for helping me!
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