Bleeding after first time sex- how long is normal?

Hello. This is really embarrassing, but oh well.

I'm a 26/f. (late bloomer, yes.) I've been dating my BF for a while , Sunday nihgt we finally decided to have sex for the first time. We got a little tipsy and then went for it- off and on for about 2 hours, in different positions. It didn't hurt too much at the time, but afterwards we noticed blood on the mattress. I bled light/moderate overnight and the next morning, and since then i've been spotty (it's been 3.5 days). I've also been a little tender. I was just wondering if this was normal. I've had bad reaction to birth control pills, so we just used condoms.

Thanks in advance for any help!

[Harley-girl]

It is normal, it was a long time ago that I lost my virginity but if I recall correctly I know I bleed afterwards and then spotted for a few days.

[AllConfused]

Yeah its normal. Well it was for me. After my wedding last year, I had sex for the first time and I bleed for awhile and spotted for a couple of days after. We were pretty scared too but it ended after the 2nd time we had sex. Hope all works out for you.

[kristin14]

Thanks. I think deep down I know that there's nothing wrong, but still. I thought that maybe because I'm a bit older than the average girl losing her virginity that the discomfort and blood might escape me!

[gemx]

yep its normal but i dunno y ur bleeding 4so long?? it happened 2me 2 but it was away in the mornin

[mumwith#4]

Yes - it was a long time ago for me also but everyone usually remembers their first -it's hard to forget because of such instances as what you are experiencing now. Congrats on waiting until you are ready (never mind the age - you waited until you were ready and that's what's important!). As for the bleeding - it's absolutely normal on and off for a few days and because you went for quite a while (that is it wasn't just over in a few minutes!) it possibly caused some friction and agitation on your vagina which could also be why you are in some discomfort. This is also normal in women who haven't had sex for a long time or have it infrequently. Whatever the main thing is that it's all normal and let me just say "welcome to the club"! You and your boyfriend will settle into a great rhythm and you'll come to understand a new part of yourself and him also! Oh I remember what I was going to say...you might like to keep a little bit of lubricant around when using condoms because sometimes you might find you need it as the lube on the condoms can come off and this causes further friction if you are not lubricated enough. Good luck and have fun!

[kristin14]

Thank you everyone for the support! Looking back, I think lack of lubrication was probably part of the problem! I also maybe should have tried it for a little bit and not 2 hours.

I'm feeling much better these past few days, though I am still a tiny bit tender.

Again, thanks for the support!

[crystal 87]

i am confused myself cuz i lost my virginity last year but hadnt done anything again until sunday. Yesterday and today i saw some spotting but i need to know if its ok, what it means and if its safe to have sex now

[Iversonfan]

I'm 24 years old and Last night I lost my virginity to my boyfriend it was a bit painful and I bled we both thought that I had come on my period but this morning I was a bit sore and was spotting is this normal???

[ish22]

i had v safe sex on 21st  with my boyfriend and the intercourse lasted only for 15min.after tht i started to bleed lightly and i had a lot of stomach ache n body ache as in my periods and by evening i was bleeding heavily like my period ahich was to come on 24th
is it the bleeding or my period because the pace of flow is like my period and the pain lasted just till 2nd day as usually in my periods .
is it normal ?
is it the bleeding and not my period or i hav got my period ?
i m v.tensd ?
wd anything happen ?

[spunkypook]

i Recently Lost My Virginity To An Older Man
It Didnt Last That Long And i Didnt Bleed After
But i Have A Stomach Ache In A Coloum In The Centre Of My Stomach
Is This Normal ??
Also This Is Embaresing But my Vagina Feels More Open
Is This Normal ??
Help ..

[snesharma]

but i hope thts normal n doesnt mean pregnancy.....ryt???

[AprilK14283]

Thanks for posting that btw because I'm 16 and had first time sex with my boyfriend last night and I bled like I thought I would but I was still spotting today and didn't know what was a normal time for it to stop.

It's really comforting to know that I'm not a freak and that the bleeding is normal.
Thank you loads.
x

[littleemz19891]

im 18 and lost my virginity,we didnt use any protection,ive spotted for a few days now on and off but it isnt red its brown and ive got stomach pains and conseptation and feeling dizzy all the time,dont hardly eat anything,feeling tired all the time,could i be pregnant?please help me

[pearl10]

Im 19 and my boyfriend and I had protected sex on Sunday. I bled right after a little bit. Then the next day (Monday) I spotted. Tuesday (Today), it was a little heavier than spotting, a bit like my period with the stomach cramps and back pain. I am suppose to start my period on Wednesday because of my birth control. Am okay? Is the spotting and bleeding normal after sex and right before I am suppose to start my period? Is there any possible way I could be pregnant!? Please help. Thanks gals!

[Cici303]

its normal and its nothing to be embarssed about girl..... its fine it happends to everyone.... the first few times will hurt and after a while it doesnt anymore so good luck and have fun lol

[gooday]

Okay girl the exact same thing is happening to me! and I have been freaking out but from what I've researched it's supposed to be normal. But does anyone know how long it's supposed to last? and when can you have sex again?

[fashion77]

the same thing happened to me. I had sex with my boyfriend for the third time last night and this morning i woke up with some spot bleeding. My period doesnt come for another three weeks. I did spot bleed the first time i had sex, but nothing again untill this morning. Should i be worried at all?

[Jasmine205]

Maybe because it was your boths first time together etc he went a bit to rough or deep in you and that why your bleeding last for awhile.. Have him going slower next time, make it last longer too..

[silvia89]

im 19 and i had sex for the time 2 days ago..until today i just spotted but today i had blood like it was my period..my period for this month ended 5 days ago..im so worried.should i see a doctor?

[Jasmine205]

If you are heavy flow bleeding and it worries you, yes..go to the doctor. Don't make yourself feel scared about whats happening, it's better to find out right away.

[lola1092]

this **** is fuked up

[RoRo13]

i am sixteen and i lost my virginity two days ago. Yesterday morning i woke up and was still bleeding a little, and i was extremely scared because i didn't know if it was normal or not. That night we tried again but as soon as my boyfriend tried to enter me it hurt and i asked him to pull out, and found it was bleeding again. Does this mean that i have to wait to heal a little longer before we try again or is it possible that something is wrong?

[StephFaith]

I'm 17 and me and my boyfriend had sex last night for the first time. But we did it twice (he's such a lucky man lol) We waited about 3 horus to do it again. The first was really uncomfortable and i didn't know i was bleeding until a point where he pushed to hard and i asked him to pull out. That's when i saw blood on the condom. I knew i would bleed the first time so i wasn't worried at all. But 3 hours later we tried again and this time he went really fast...faster then i expected him too. I didn't ask him to stop although it hurt a few times where he just pushed too far...(sorry if this is too much info.) but it felt too good and i didn't want him to stop. Afterwards when he came and pulled out there was blood all over the condom....more then before. I was really worried and went into the bathroom right away. It didn't look like i bled as much that time but i could have been wrong. Then this morning when i woke up and went to the bathroom i noticed i was still bleeding....just barely though....it's pracitcally pink. But i want to know if this is normal or if i should get checked out.
Any ideas?

[carlyd13]

hey i lost my virginity yesterday and i bled too, it was pretty shocking but its perfectly normal to bleed because after all the hymen is just another part of the body with blood vessels. after a few days it should go away i mean i've still got a few spots of blood appearing but its thinning now.

i'm 17 btw. and at first the pain was quite bad well i had to ask him to stop then i realised it was because we should have had more lubrication hahahah he even ran half a mile to boots to get more things :P but after that and we were more prepared it was less painful, and it was less uncomfortable. i'll probably have a 2nd tomorrow when i am staying over his so i will write about it i hope the pain will not be as bad as before if there is any at all :) hope this helped a little if at all .

[MissLoraine]

saturday night i lost my virginity to my boyfriend and i dint really bleed but i noticed a had very light spot bleeding for the next few days. today (wednesday) was the first day it stopped. i'm guessing this is normal since you all expierenced it too. but last night (tuesday night) my boyfriend fingered me and now it hurts. im not sure why or what it means. any help would be nice. thanks!

[destinys]

YEA THATS NORMAL. THE SAME THING HAPPEND TO ME. =D

[Cheerbabii66]

This was my third time having sex and two days later it's been painful going pee. I became a little concerended but didn't wrorry about it. Now (2 days later) my bf asked me to go swimming at his house and I got in my bikini and all and went to the bathroom before I left to his house and I wiped and there was blood. It's a little early for my period so could this be from sex? And should I go swimming or would it last awhile..?

[jordyn12]

so im 15 years old and lost my virginity saturday night..its now monday night..well the previous week i started my period on tuesday and it was bairley there on friday..so i took my tampon out, then later friday night noticed i needed one a little so i put it back in. it was nothing and so i took it out and i was fine all day saturday (the day i did it). so after words i went to the bathroom and it was spotty? i put in a tampon beacuse i thought i was just still on my period. the next day i took it out because it was nothing but i was still spotty and i put one in, it was nothing..then i kept it out.. monday it was red blood and i think its my period?..what does this mean? someone please help!

[MadDawg899]

hey guys,
so sunday the 31st my bf and i had sex for the first time, and i bled quite a lot.. there was still a little bit yesterday, the 1st, and even today, but starting in the evening yesterday its like a thick brown discharge kinda similar to my period, but im not due to start that til the end of the month... im just wondering if this is normal..?

[sxc_jen19]

i lost my virginity toay, i am 16.
it really hurt when we put it in and that was it i **** deal wiht the pain tso we stoped,
then there was blood everywere and it was like really really heavy
im pretty scared its stil bleeding heavily 4 hours later and hasnt slowed down at all.
im probably just scaring my self but i jus need to know it wil be ok
it doesnt seem like its going to stop tho.

[Nervous2009128]

I lost my virginity on Tuesday night. It only lasted about10 minutes because we noticed the bleeding and got worried. It wasnt after but during? We used protection but to me it looked like quite alot!! But saying that i dont know how much should have been there. Sorry if what im saying is abit gross. Im just scared 8-) I knew it would happen because it was my first time so i kind of expected it. But not as much as i thought. I only bled the next morning but that wasnt alot and it had stopped by that night.

[bori]

hi wells im 16 years old i had sex for the first time umm the 6 of this mounth i was pretty scared to do it kinda realy hurt wen i did it lol but i pretty much new it was gonna hurt but after we finish you can see that the condom had blood so i went and check myself and saw dat i was bleeding so i went and put a pad but im still bleeding like spoting a lil and its the 8 and im kinda scared cuz like i didnt telll him to stop or anything so im kinda worried is it natural to still be spotin ??

[amy960]

the same thing happened to me.. was it so normal?

[af19]

I had sexx wid my bf last night .. it was my 2nd tymee .. And v did it 3 tymzz !
.. After getting done wid it,, v noticed I was bleeding a bit! And the next day [i.e] today , m still spotting !
Is it normall ?? Cuzz the first tyme I had sex , i did bleed .... but then , does it bleed and spot everytyme v have sex ??

Pleas help me out !!

[jane16127]

I'm 15 and lost my virginity earlier this week. It did hurt but it wasn't as bad as i thought and i did bleed during and after it. And then i spotted for like 3 days and now its gone.
My boyfriend thought I was on my period or something but I'm not haha. I'm going to his house today and I think he plans to have sex with me again. Idk if you bleed the second time but I hope not because it's kind of embarrassing. lol

But yea, bleeding is totally normal and a lot of people do still bleed days later. There's nothing really to be worried aboutt. :P

[unlucky961]

Hi, I just want everyone to know when i lost my virginity at the age of 17, I did not bleed and then later i found that I was pregnant. The first thing I thought was, I havent had sex properly, then how am I pregnant. S o plz b careful and make sure you use contreception regardless to how much u love him.....

[ameeehh]

i had sex for the first time on sunday with my boyfriend im 16 and i didnt bleed after it but on the tuesday of that week i seen i had a little bit of blood and some discharge when i went to the toilet and today its just an even smaller amount but im worried that i didnt bleed for like a day after it it didnt hurt much infact i barely felt it except when he pushed deep inside me then it hurt but i dunno if im normal hes fingered me before too rough and i bled then aswell so i dont know whats wrong can anyone help me ? :( x

[IrishGirl330]

i had sex for the first time sunday i bled a decent amount. everyone says it normal and stuff, but after the second time of having sex its happen again but not as bad. i just want to know how long will this go on for and is that natural? :(

[jimi555]

I had sex with my g-friend right after her period had stopped. she bleeded and I thought she lost her virginity but she said it was darker so it was from her period. the next morning we had sex again and this time the blood was light and clear red. She confirmed that this time it was from her virginity.

What do you think? does period's blood stay always brown? How should we know if the blood was from period or virginity?

thanks

[PA26]

I lost my virginity 2 montths ago and have been having regular sex with my boyfriend since then. the first time I had sex I bleed a little but for some reason I bleed again today and there was more this time. I am 26 years old and would
like to know is this normal.

[confused1995]

im 14 and had sex with my bf on christmas eve, i was bleeding that night and i have been bledding on and offf since then, its a pinky clear colour im not sure if its normal or not, please help, neither of us know what to do :( :S

[3325]

hey i think its normal to bleed after losing virginity.the whole body of the women changes its absolutely normal and due to these changes in your body and after the hymen was broken which is an elongated web of blood vessels so its normal to bleed the vagina by bleeding is comforting itself and adapting with the changes so dont worry girls its normal ,tho i didnt have sex yet lol am having sex 4 da frst time on saturday and im really scared my sis told me its painful like hell........HELP!!!

[3325]

listen i know its kinda embarassing to say it!!but im havin sex for the 1st time this sat. yeah and am soo scared that its gonna be painful and my friend told me if i was turned on wet (sorry for the details) i wouldnt feel so much pain but the thing is im not turned on easily  my bf is good at foreplay its like i get turned on but not for the max i dnt know is smthn wrong with me????i cant get turned on easily everytime and i get really upset from it plsss tell me why am i like that?? and how can i get y bf to turn me on for the max btw: its not frm him cz hes a really good sex partner so it must be smthn wrong with me right???

[3325]

people will smbdy help me plzzz i need a replyy plzz

[StarTeddy]

I just had sex for the first time recently too, and this is what I advise you to do:

If you don't get turned on to the max, that is okay.  There's nothing wrong with that.  But, to make it less painful, you should use some lube. (You can get some at Walgreens.)  Also, he should use his fingers to get you ready before he enters you.  This will make it less painful, since the vagina will stretch a little and you'll be more lubricated.  He can push up on the hymen and stretch/break it, and won't break when he enters. (This happened to me, but by accident.)  Most importantly, relax.  If you freak out, your muscles will tense and he'll have to push harder, which will hurt.

You don't have to do it in one go--if it hurts too much, take a break and try again.  I "lost my virginity" after a series of attempts, and I wouldn't attribute it to a single time.  In the end, I didn't bleed and it didn't hurt.  But my hymen was already broken.

One last word...remember to have extra condoms.  It's embarrassing for the only condom to break before he's even in.

[3325]

hey thnx for the advice but first what is a lube?sorry but im totally new at this and i know nothin abt sex, and i tried to put my fingers but my friend told me never to do that cz its a lot more painful than a pines(sorry for the word)and it can hurt a lot and we tried it once but i was so afraid that it didnt even enter because i was pushing it out and i couldnt relax my miuscles.see its not the hymen that im worried abt cz my sis told me that its just like a pinch it wont hurt much but am afraid when he first enters and the small opening of my vagina starts to widen and also im afraid that when he enters deeply my friend told me itsss a loott of pain when it gets in deeply so plzz what do u advise me to do???plzzz i need help i would appreciate ur advice a lot thnx

[scared496]

Hey im 14 years old and i lost my virginity today(yes im young) but im bleeding and its very heavy im really scared  : | plzz is this normal, i feel really dizzy to and im due for my period on the 22nd
please helpp

[blossum203]

can u tell me how bad it would hurt lyke wat it would feel lyke! i know to much info but i need to know my boyfriend wants to have sex tomorrow and i'm kinda scared

[Annne1232]

i had sex for the 2nd time, with no protection. the first time i had it it bled a little bit. and went away. but today it was very heavy. we waited for a few hours and when it was stopped wetried to have sex again, when he put it in for the firstt ime it felt weird so i told him to pull out and it was bleeding, very heavy. it has been to hour since, and it is still very heavy.. normal?

[adfghjkl]

i lost it today and it hurt so bad it only lasted 10 seconds tops and then i was bleeding for ages but then it stopped but it started again later on so now im well worried :S

[lewsy878]

The same thing happened to me... I finished my period last week and he came outside of me, but im worried too :S
Id like to see the reply.

[luvsex]

its called a cherry... every girl has one however some may pop it accidently B4 having sex for the first time... i popped mine horsebackriding... some can lost it by sticking a tampon or 'something else' lol going up too far

[scaredandlost]

I'm 15 and I had sex last night for the first time. I woke up this morning to use the bathroom, and I wiped and saw blood. Although, it has stopped now. But I haven't eaten much of anything all day and I have very very minor stomach craps. I'm so scared that I could be pregnant, and I don't know what to do.. Please help me..

[scaredandlost]

Plus.. We didn't use protection. And I don't know if he came inside of me or not.. I'm so scared

[HazelGril2010]

Ok im about to put my whole business on this page but im really in help for some advice. Hopefully one of ya girls can have the answer for me. Im 1 and had sex with my BF on Friday for the 1st time in my life and it was painful and i blooded, then we decided to have sex again the next day on Saturday and it was unprotected. On Sunday night i began to spot, later on on Monday i basically got what i think is my period.  I got scared to think of the chances of me being pregnant so on Tuesday i went to the pharmacy and got Plan B One Step, while i was on what i think is my period. Now my QUESTION is.. is it normal to get your period 3 days after having sex????

[bjc719]

I had sex with my boyfriend for the first time last night. & i know it's natural to bleed and all but i just started bleeding. I know it's not my period, because that starts in about 2 weeks. Does this mean i'm pregnant? Someone please help. :(

[Zahra1990]

I was really drunk the other night(think i was drugged) and somehow ended up hooking up with some random guy, he took me to his flat and i really dont remeber if we had sex but quite sure we didnt but then a day after it i bled a bit when i went to the loo..comments?

[SteffyGypsy]

You wont know if your pregnant until a few days after sex. You need to give more then 24hours for the embryo to attach itself to the wall of the uterus and for the hormones that tells you your pregnant to be released. In a few days..and as soon as the bleeding stops do a pregnancy test, or wait for the 2 wks to come around to see if you actually get your periods

[morgypoo]

hey. i had sex saturday and like im due my period soon.
like i dont keep track of my period but i know that it was coming up
and today i got it. and i have all the period symptoms.  
we used a condom. he didnt finish.

im not pregent am i?  
it only lasted 10 mins and he didnt even ***. so idk.

[toune]

No if you are on your period now you are not pregnant. The sperm needs something to fertilize and on your period, its out of luck :p

PS.If you are still worried though, try a birth control test. It's too late for "Plan B" now.

[Sammie122]

I am 14 and lost mine last night and I ble a little and idk why please tell me why I am not on the pill but he did wear a condom I am still nervouse

[goose98]

sunday at 5am, the guy that i'm dating and i had sex. it was my first time. i have to admit he was rough and it lasted about 2 hours and we did various positions, but i enjoyed it. i bled a little bit but it wasn't that bad. today is monday and i bled through my jeans. is this normal? i'm very concerned. any advice????/

[candygirl242]

I am only 12 years old and I really want to have sex but I am scared that my bf will be too rough and that I will get pregnant! should I have sex or wait? because yesterday what I did was sat on the plunger stick and go up and down and that felt so good and I kept fingering myself now all I need is a penis I need a answer quick though because I will call my bf sooner or later and say let's go have sex and I am very horny so please tell me what I should do

[candygirl242]

I am only 12 years old and I really want to have sex but I am scared that my bf will be too rough and that I will get pregnant! should I have sex or wait? because yesterday what I did was sat on the plunger stick and go up and down and that felt so good and I kept fingering myself now all I need is a penis I need a answer quick though because I will call my bf sooner or later and say let's go have sex and I am very horny so please tell me what I should do

[brittney185]

Ok, so i just lost my virginity, and i bled soo much during sex. Afterwards it got worse. I spotted for a day and then the third day, I noticed that when I went to the bathroom, the toilet was filled with blood. It seems like its not going away. It doesn't hurt but I'm not sure what to do. I know that you can get tears the first time, but is this normal? I'm freaking out.

[shelly12370]

ok so i lost my virginity on saturday , the first time we did it it hurt alot , and i bledd alottt
the same day we did it like 4 more  times and every time i was bleeding less. , we used a condom all four times.
its tuesday now and im spotting very very very little and lits like really really light pink.
im just wondaring is that ok ?
how much longer is it going to be like that?
is it normal? should i be worried?
and when is the next time i can do it?
PLEASEE GIRLSS ANSWERR ME I REALLY NEED HELP CAUSE IM WORRIED :(

[hi4]

okay so i had sex monday the 17th for the first time and i bleed after words and then i was spotting blood for the next 2 days but not that much just rare and then it stopped.he used a condom. is that normal?? am i prego??

[wanabb]

Okay so my husband and I have been "active" for 7 years and if we go more than a few days in between I bleed a little too.  Also If it's to rough.  THIS IS PERFECTLY NORMAL it's very delicate down there and tends to bleed.  as long as it stops in a few days no need to worry.  And yes you will be sore you tore through tissue to lose your virginity that hurts.  As soon as you feel pain free go for it again but be a little gentle for a few times.  As for pregnancy questions no one can tell you that your pregnant or not wait until your period is suppose to come and don't worry unless it doesn't.  

[dimples1390]

ok well me and my boyfriend have been going out for a long time and we have been talking about having sex but the problem is i dont know what to do if i start to bleed or what to use if i bleed.........do i use a tampon,pad,ect...???????????its supposed to be both of our first time.......we are both virgins but i dont know what to do about the bleeding thats it...........plz someone help me??????????

[amethyst_chick]

Hi, Im 16 and recently lost my virginity about three months ago. Having sex was so painful that my boyfriend wasnt able to fully enter. However, the little that he was able to go in caused bleeding. Its not massive bledding, its more like medium spotting. The second time we were sexually active, which was about a month later, we had intercouse about three times within the same day. This time I was able to handle the pain and my boyfriend entered more. The three times we had sex, i continued to spot, right when we were done (All three times!). I first thought that my bleeding was caused due to the fact that sex is knew to me and its normal to bleed afterwards (because of the popped cherry). I just recently had sex yesturday, this time however, i couldnt handle the pain and I had my boyfriend pull out when he was struggling to enter. Again i bled right after, its a bright red color, and its not alot. The spotting doesnt last more than an hour. Worried I consulted my friends about this dilemma and most of them have never bled after intercourse. Others just bleed a little and only once. I'm worried on what can be wrong with me. I heard bleeding after intercourse isn't normal after the first time and is a possible symptom of cervical cancer. P.S Im not on birth control, his package is pretty thick, and when we have sex Im not that wet. (Just throwing it out there just in case they are possibilities of my spotting). Im a confused teen, please help.!

[kudii]

hey! somebodyy Pleasee Answer this!!// Ok
So I had sex for the 2nd Time on Sunday! and umm
the first time i didnt bleed
and now it is Thursday! and I am barely starting to bleed.. and i feel when im going to bleed, like if i were going to the
bathroom... Is thatt normal? ]
Somebody please answer!!!

[ttasha]

hi am 26 and had sex for the first time am really scare because am spotting since Sunday until today and its like brownish is this normal. thanks

[raj243]

i didnt really have sex with my gf but i just fingered her vagina...she was feeling awesome rather....but later she had strains in legs  and stomach ache with lots of tiredness and finally bleeding....is that normal....how long would this bleding carry on still ? any idea ! please help !

[seaonnia20]

I am 20 years old and have just recently lost my virginity last month..sorry this is kinda in detail... well the first time we did it my bf fingered me but it didnt really hurt that much but then he put his penis in me but he couldnt go in more then a few inches because my muscles where to tight well it hurt to much so he stopped i didnt bleed and i was supposed to start my period within a few days of this night and i did so i wasnt worried. but then last night we had intercourse again and this time i bleed it was a little rough but he went all the way in this time it hurt but i could handle the pain. he noticed the blood and so he stopped. Last nights event didnt even last 45 mins well im just wondering if im going to have my period still even with bleeding now? Oh and i was also kind of wondering if its normal to not get satisfied both times i understand that the first time he didnt go all the way in and all but even last night i didnt get an orgasm, and we did it in a different position then the first time, is it because we are not doing it long enough or is there something wrong with me? PLEASE someone HELP im really new to all this sex stuff...

[Nene2594]

I'm 16 years old and lost my virginity about two weeks ago(June 23rd). My boyfriend is not a virgin and is experienced and some areas so my first time position was bent over. That day I had experienced vaginal, anal and oral sex(what a first time). The anal didn't hurt but the vaginal did and i bled after he took his penis out of me(mind you I'm bent over). So i took a shower and bled a little more throughout the day and in the morning. My boyfriend fingers me sometimes and it's pleasurable with one finger but yesterday he used 2 and it hurt SO bad. After that I bled, but In between the time I lost my virginity until now, we have tried to have sex twice but we couldn't do it because I was so scared of the pain and I was tight.It's emotional for me so sometimes I cry but he comforts me a lot. I just need to know what I need to do to make vaginal sex more pleasurable. Do we need more lubricant or do I need to be aroused first? I would appreciate any help or advice given =).

[please100]

My boyfriend and i had sex a couple of days ago.. It was my first time. While we were doing it, i felt blood coming out. We stopped right away. He said he didn't ejaculate. 2 days after, i vomited a little. Did i vomit because im pregnant or just stressed out? Can you guys please help us :(

[please100]

Can anyone answer my question

[seaonnia20]

if your really concerned about being pregnant go to a doctor because it could have been because of stress my best friend vomits when shes really stressed out and its nothing she does like she doesnt make herself do it, it just happens so i would say go to the doc..

[please100]

thank you... but how will i know if im not pregnant? i don't want to be pregnant :-(

[jstar29]

I'm 19 and had sex for the first time yesterday, I bled a bit and still am a day later. Thanks for your replies I was wondering if that was normal.
Also I wanna say to the girls who haven't yet, I was worried that maybe I should have done it by now, but I am so glad I waited because my boyfriend is so sweet and understanding because I was nervous, he always made sure that I was alright, he never pressured me into anything. So apart from it hurting, I had a very positive experience. I mean you should not do it if you're not ready, you should wait to do it with someone you truly care about and that you're very comfortable with.
Also, so much emphasis is put on the word 'virgin' and don't let it bring you down if you haven't had sex yet. Do it when you know you feel right, not pressures from friends or boyfriends. If they are going to pressure you, then they are not real friends and if you're boyfriend is pressuring you, he may not be the guy.

[loveS123]

I had pap smear done 5 years ago due to my irregular periods, after the exam done i started bleeding for couple mins. my question is to u all i'm going to have sex with my bf this saturday the first time , is it possible that i can bleed again?
my bf knows abt the medical exam

[IceAngel20]

hey .. i had sex for the first time on the 18th july...... it was fun nevermind the pain.. my period was due the 20th but it didint come.... i bled that hole nite til the next morning n i didnt bleed bck until midweek(wednesday n thursday morning) only... my fren who noes alot bout this stuff said its normal an that i'l get my period within the next 2 mnths or so... i was soooo scared wen i didnt get my period, first thing i taught of was "OMG could i be pregnant" n i so nt ready to have a baby!!...note: i was also told tat once u start having sex u gtta continue n keep doing it constantly so it wil become less painful n more enjoyable if u wait too long then it wil bcome painful cuz the vaginal hole wil close up... we plan on doing it again but im stil scared...

[divinerae]

Thank you everyone for the information. I am 16 and yesterday was my first time, it hurt like hell and it was so long. I felt so bad because afterwards i told him it still hurt and he had this sad look on his face, but he was very calming and comforting before, during, and after the process. I just really hope it doesn't hurt next time :/ phew. Ok so my question has to do with the spotting and tenderness afterwards ( Im still tender and spotting). My period is about to start and i want to know if that will be affected by it?

[redrose601]

Hello
I had my first time before some days,,and it didnt hurt so much and i didnt bleed to much
the second time, it hurt a lot, more than the first time, and i bleeded a lot for the moment,,,and we didnt have sex,,
is it normal?? please help me
thank you

[cheetha1947]

Dears i have very big pennis and am fed up of that,plz advise me what to do,realy am not joking itz true,very hard like some stick,when ever i sit on the sofa for a while 10 min or more it stands very badly,then i feel shy to stand infront of people when it does this,am paki am 32 and not married and very relegious never do rough sex or handpractice till todate but now  its too hard and difficult to control my self..
***@****

[IAmWorried5555]

Okay, i'm 15. I lost my virginity last night, a Saturday. He didn't use a condom. But, i'm on the pill. He did the pull out method, & i know that really doesn't work.. But, i'm worried i might be pregnant. My stomach has been hurting today. & i shouldn't start my period till next month. I'm freaking out!!
Someone Please Help!!!

[5678509]

i have had sex before but yeterday afternoon i had sex  about two hours later i discovered i had bleeding. it was very dark brown and was heavy like a period when i woke up today it still has continued to bleed like that. we used protection and i am on the pill. is this normal?

[ashluh]

uhm Me and my husband had sex last night and it turned into well anal and now i am bleeding almost like my period but without the clots and this isnt the first time we have done that nor did it hurt as bad as some of the other times could the bleeding be from that or somthing else?

[cookie1793]

i was raped n i thought waiting 5 months i should have heald up and me and my friend ended up having sex and the first n second night no bleeding but on the third night i did i was shocked and scared and he wont even talk to me because he though i got my period and i didnt i jus want things to go back normal i dnt care if we ever have sex again but i dnt want him to be mad at me he told me we was never doing it again

[sdr_kid06]

I'm 15 & I had sex for the 1st time with my 16 yr old bf this November 2nd, and well we had unprotected sex. It was all good, he fingered me and I gave him a HJ, he cummed but i wasnt able to reach my point cuz he stopped b4 i did, which kinda annoyed me. After that, i got on top, he inserted and it was hella good. I thought it would hurt, but i only felt pleasure. He said i was a lil bit too rough and he told me to slow down. I finally reached my point and he wasnt done yet but he told me to get off him so that he wouldnt *** in me, and so i had to finish him off with a HJ and we were both done. I bled on Oct 28 when he just fingered me and it finished bleeding soon after that night. This time when we had sex, i didnt bleed at all but the next morning i noticed blood. I've been bleeding since Nov 3, it's been 4 days now and i only bleed a lil bit but my blood is dark red. whats up with that? if so, can anyone reply back to me plz. thank you.

[kat421]

heyy i'm 15/f and my boyfriend is 17/m
uhmm i lost my virginity yesterday with my boyfriend after a 1year & a 1/2. i didn't bleed so much but Ive been having some spotting and well im bleeding right now, is this morning??

[anonymous_130]

I'm 15 and I lost my virginity on new years eve/ new years and now it's been two days. I still find discharge which is most likely the tissue from the hymen. How long is spotting suppose to last? we used protection and my period is suppose to come around the 20th. I haven't felt any pains but the spotting won't stop.

[lorenn1600]

I've had sex for awhile bleed for a day when I first did it. But its been a few years since my first. I have a new bf now and we have had sex before and its been bout 5 days or so then we had sex i found a little blood on him and whenever I went to pee and wiped my self I had a little blood is that normal? it scared me,my heart dropped I need know what this could be.

[lorenn1600]

I've had sex for awhile bleed for a day when I first did it. But its been a few years since my first. I have a new bf now and we have had sex before and its been bout 5 days or so then we had sex i found a little blood on him and whenever I went to pee and wiped my self I had a little blood is that normal? it scared me,my heart dropped I need know what this could be.

[Toriixxx]

What happens if u have sex the day before you get ur period and then the next morning ur period doesn't come down hard like it normaly does

[mara04]

My bf and I had unprotected sex last Jan.17 and I bled after 2days. But I'm worried cuz I'm bleeding up to now. It's 3weeks already! Im worried. IS this normal or what??

[baileyba]

I am a thirteen year old girl and I had sex about two days ago. We used protecting but the same night he fingered me and the next day he fingered me. Now my vagina hurts what should I do?

[nana97]

If you just had sex on saturday and on sunday you have vaginal pain and it still continues what does it mean because i dont want to tell my parents it just hurts when i pee

[candice94]

hey.im sixteen.and i have been having irregular sex w my bf since last year.and on 30/3 we had sex.w a condom.he went in relatively deep.and when he pulled out we realised thr was blood on th condom.it wasnt bright red.it was brownish red.and thn i bleed a little th nxt day(spotting?).i have been bleeding since tt day till nw.it seems like its too much t b regarded as spotting bt its too little t b period.th blood is relatively dark n its brown.is this normal?btw.we actually had unprotected sex on 26/3 bt he pulled out before he come.n my period ended on 23/3.so is thr any chance tt i could b pregnant?pls help me!!thnks.

[OOOreo95]

hi, im 15 and just lost my virginity today. And when he pulled out we noticed some blood on the condom, but i knew i was gonna bleed a bit, but i was still a bit nervous...its still lightly spotting but it hurts when i go to the bathroom. its very tender to be honest.is this normal as well? :/

[md212231]

hi im 18 years old and 3 days ago i had sex for the first time with my boyfriend. at first we just wanted to see if his penis would fit inside me so he tried it without a condom and left it in for not even a min long then after he put a condom on and we had sex. can i be pregnant even though he didn't *** inside me? im really scared and don't know what to do..

[lil_bird]

If he didn't ejaculate, you can't get pregnant.  The sperm in the semen are what travel through your fallopian tubes to find an egg near the ovary (one that has been released and about ready to travel down to uterus due to ovulation).  Therefore, no sperm = no egg fertilized = no way of getting pregnant.

By the way, I'm 22 and have just lost my virginity to my boyfriend of 3.5 years.  I bled quite a lot as if I were on my period.  I guess it varies for different women.  I know that for me it was very painful (made me want to cry) and I normally have a large pain tolerance (I do martial arts and am used to getting hit and bleeding, etc (not in my private areas though of course; didn't want anyone to take that the wrong way)).  

Anyway, remember to practice safe sex because every time you don't, you are taking a chance of getting pregnant or even getting an STD.  Be smart and be safe out there!

[helpmeplzimscared]

Ok so im 15 and me and my boyfriend had been going out for a while and we had sex for the first time it was my first time i started to bleed during sex we stoped and i cleaned myself off the we started again and i kept bleeding and the next day i was a lil sore and i was spoting then it was spotting for 2 days and today i started lightly bleeding but it stoped idk wats going on i need some help!!!!

[Ifoms]

I'm 20 and i just had sex for the firsy time.I'm really scared because the condom broke n my boyfriend came inside me.Pls is there something i can take.Thank you.

[zahra243]

Hey kristin ,  

ok ,listen it is normal for you to have such and such symptoms after an intercourse (first timmer mostly) , therefore I'd suggest you consult with a doctor first before you come a to any  conculsion this is becus you can't presume what's wrong hence try and research this -cus it could be anything causing the bleeding !

Urm as for it being your first time , I also bleeded(like normal period) for a day and also was in pain (after a few seconds of the intercourse) I would suggest that you see a doctor asap ! I hope this helped some how :) :)  - I aint much experienced but I doubt that I should be 'that' experienced to give you an advice on this topic .. since common sense is enuff LOL , anyways good luck with your sexual life.....!

[cristal9]

I was a virgin until a few days ago. Four days ago me and my boyfriend decided to have sex but the pain was too much and we just focused on breaking my hymen. It worked, but we didn't finish having sex. The next day we had full sex. For the most part it was all painful until the end, where it started getting more pleasureable. But he had already came. I even bled a little afterwards. We had sex again the next day, but this time the whole thing was pleasurable. I forgot to mention, hes not a virgin so he's experienced in this. I bled a little bit after this as well. I was fine the rest of that day, until the next day. I didnt have sex but the whole day I had a 'dehydration feeling'. Where I wanted to pee but I couldnt anymore. And after i was done peeing, I'd have a sharp pain and then Id bleed a little bit. I have one more week until I start my period, but i really doubt that it's starting now. This has been going on for the past couple of hours and is still happening now. He used a condom, so weve ruled out pregnancy.
Someone please help me, is this normal? And if not how can I fix this? Should I go see a doctor?..

[Angle12]

Heyy Im 14 , And iHadd Unprotected Sexx A Few Weeks Agoo & It Was My First Time Having Sex & iDid Nott Bleed At All At Dat Momment Da Only Time iBled Was Da Nxt Day & I Had Blood For Like 4 Or 5 Days ? Wut Does Dis Mean ? Dus Dis Mean iCan Be Pregno ???

[Nikki2611]

I'm 14 && I'm bleeding a lot is that normal?

[sh0mars21]

I just lost my virginity...two days ago. A few minutes later I used the bathroom and noticed some blood spotting....is this normal? My breast are tender on and off and im still spotting...is this normal to happen...I'm also suppose to get my period...Does having sex for the first time throw off your period?

[prettygirl78]

Iv had sex 3 times and out of them 3 iv bled 2 times . i havent had sex in 4 months and then i had sex with this guy and his penis was really bigg and i bled alot. we had sex a few days later and i bledd alot more. is that normal ?

[asim848]

i had sex with my girl friend and we had an anal intercourse and the vagina of her started bleeding and when will it stop

[CourtCourtt33]

So like im 15, i know im young & junk.
But i had sex for the first time, the 15th & i didnt bleed ANY after having sex. & the only time it was painful, was when he first entered me. We did it for about an hour. He asked me while in me, if it hurt. I said "no." So he started doing it circling motion or whatever. But anyways i didnt bleed any during or after. But the day after i noticed light pink colored blood, everytime i urinate. & now 2 days after. Im bleeding heavier. Like bright red blood. & like brownish discharge. & im like kinda scared. I mean i know im supposed too bleed, because it was my first time, but i thought you was only supposed too bleed during & a little after. Not 2 days after.
He's 19. & is sexually active. We used a condom, but im not on the pill. Im suppose too have my period in about 2 weeks or so. I hope it all follows through.
Is there anything i can do to stop the bright red bleeding when i urinate? & also after i get done urinating, i have sharp pain through my vagina. Ehh, i hope this is normal :/

[CourtCourtt33]

Oh & not too mention that about an hour later, he decided too do Anal. & it hurt like hell!!!!!! Worse then losing my virginity. & im use too Anal. We've done it before. & like im sick too my stomach. :(

--this is to go with my post from a lil bit ago.
P.S. if anyone knows what i can do or anything, lemme know ASAP. Plz. Thanks.

[CourtCourtt33]

Im sorry, im jus stressed!! I said the 15th, but it was the 25th. Ugh i feel stupid. Sorry for tposting the third time. :/

[pinkmodelchick]

I just last my virginity. And its four days later and ieverytime I qo to the bathroom and wipe my self I see. Light bleeding I want to know is that normal

[pinkmodelchick]

I just lost my virginity. And its four days later and ieverytime I qo to the bathroom and wipe my self I see. Light bleeding I want to know is that normal

[Linsey123]

I lost my virginity last night , I bleed ALOT . I had sex at like 3:00 in the morning and it is now 11:00 pm the next night and i'm still bleed and it alittle tender down there . When we first started to have sex he didn't have a condom on and he couldn't get it on and it hurt , but the he put the condom on and it went in and didn't hurt , is that weird ? He want's to have sex again and I want to too but I bleed so much it was embarrassing . How long should I wait to have sex again ?  

[peanutmn]

Okay so Im 15, and the first time I had sex I was on my period (we were all drunk) and so a few days later my period ended. Then, I had sex about a week later, with a different guy. We were again drunk, and so we fooled around for a while before and then started having sex and it lasted for about an hour. Im not on birth control, and I told him to use a condom.  We didnt notice any blood when we were finished.  But, the next day, I noticed some bleeding. and today is the 4th day, and its still a very heavy flow. Did my cherry just pop or should I be worried and get checked out ?

[Alexis001]

i had sex for the first time with my bf yesterday. I didnt intend for it to happen i always ask him to be careful. Anyways it did happen, it slipped inside me since we were both wet and i didn't feel any pain i didn't even feel it coming until he saw blood between my legs, and i'm not sure if it's considered alot of blood or slight blood all i know is that it stopped then happened again slightly this morning. It was red yesterday, it's black this morning. He wasn't wearing a condom. I started taking birth control pills since yesterday but I'm rly afraid i might be pregnant. Having lost my virginity is bad enough and I'm still in the illusion i might still be a virgin because he didn't put it all in; i'm sure i would've felt it if it happened. Anyways, i checked pregnancy symptoms and my body represents some of them like bleeding (just like this morning) and continous peeing starving lower backaches swollen breasts and I'm supposed to have my period 3 days from now so I'm not sure if my body's reactions are because I'm getting sick or bcz i'm pregnant. i'm really scared all these researches online got me going insane i didn't think it was possible to get pregnant if cumming doesnt happen during penetration you can actually get pregnant by previous ejaculation which is my bf's case. I need reassurance. I don't know what to do.

[butterfly908]

you should just take a pregnancy test. i have been trying to get my boyfriend to have sex with me and we almost did today but he said that he doesnt want to take my virginity away... what is that supposed to mean? could he have already have had sex?  

[butterfly908]

how do i get my boyfriend to have sex with me? i have been with him for 2 years on august 30.

[Alexis001]

well he really loves you and he doesn't want to take away your virginity.. Trust me it's the most precious thing a girl could have so don't just lose it.. You might regret it later.. I do! Plus, you should be aware that you are your bf can break up anytime in the future, so wouldn't you feel bad afterwards knowing that he took away ur virginity?

[MusicToMyEarHoles]

Im 14 and my boyfriend and I had sex yesterday. It wasn't planned so we didn't have a condom. He put it in but it hurt so I told him to take it out after about 10 seconds. He knows he didn't come. He fingered me and there was blood on his hands. I hadn't got my period yet. I came home and told mum and she got excited and gave me a pad to wear and everything. The next day, the bleeding had stopped and I noticed a little scratch on my vagina near the opening.
I have had the usual 'first period' symptoms like a pimple breakout and I've been sad over stupid things the past couple of days.
I was wondering: Am I on my first period or is it just because of the sex?
What do I tell my mum?!
Please, please help me.

[naughty885]

Im 15/f and i had sex for the first time on Thursday night I was bleeding when we stopped and its now Saturday and i'm still spotting i'm really worried we used a condom but is it normal t bleed for this long..? I'm not bleeding heavily but i was for the first night and it then stopped what should i do...? Please help :)

[jeeva190]

linsey123 is very good ******.... she shared her viginity with 3 of her classmates in twelth std itself. even i too ****** her.. very nice.. now she married a dummy piece man. congrats....

[Vittel]

My situation is so similar. I'm 20 and I lost my V on Saturday night. At first we were also tipsy, because it felt, well, like it couldn't go in lol. But after a while we just went for it and it took us like an hour and a half. I saw bloood only when I went to the bathroom next morning. Since then I am spotty. It's Tuesday now and I spent the nigth at my boyfriend's yesterday. We didn't have sex because I felt a little tense down there (though today I don't feel anymore). But when we woke up we saw a lot of spots of bloods on the bed. Now I am not bleeding, but "spotting", very little. When will it stop? When did it stop for you? When can I have sex again? I am worried it will hurt or I will feel at least some discomfort. Because, I will tell you openly, when I was taking a shower, I felt some pain when I tried, you know, I am wondering if I should see a doctor. I am in a foreign country now so that's why I am not hurrying.

[ktwoo]

my friend said same to the open vigina (vagina) she lost her virginity last night hahahahaha

[prettybadd]

I recently lost mah viginity on da 10th n I was bleeding afterwards in spottin untill dismorning its such a relief tah c everyone say dat its normal because I was terrified n I'm happy its over.!!

[askh]

Hi everyone, i had my first when i was 26. i was aware of the whats and hows. i was well lubricated and he used a condom and there was no bleeding.

[askh]

you can never be sure

[askh]

i think women should explore themselves well before having sex

[Tetley07]

When i first had sex i had alot of blood, was everywhere and i got rly scared.. There was much i had to use a few tampons throughout the day. And for the next few days it was spotting. After my 3rd or 4th time there was no blood and was i was fine. So its perfectly normal

[madhead1]

I'm a 19 year old virgin I want to know wat it feel like to have sex but all my girlfreinds say that they r not ready and some break up with me because I'm a virgin I need a girl to take my virginity!!!

[nzs3]

Hey guys I had sex for the first time last week and another one 2 days ago. I bleed so much for the first time which lasted for 10 mins or so. Then spotting for a week (On an Off) usually in the morning. After the 2nd time I had sex I bleed a little and spotting on/off again. What does that suppose to mean?

Please help me as I m really worried :(

[joshnepal]

last night 03/11/2011, i had sex with my gf without using condom. it was her first sex so she lost virginity during sex and some blood came out.Her period was coming but not sure when is that exactly. At morning 3 am , she had high amount of blood coming out.she told that its her menstruation ,but i am not sure because it may be due to her first sex also. so my question is how can i be sure that she had menstruation?? is there any chance of being pregnant ??

[Newbie_3259]

Okay i jus recently lost my virginity & it hurted real bad, but after trying it a little bit more it wasn't that much, but when he inserts it all the way each time it hurts. Well after we finished i bleed. So now I'm not bleeding, when we girls have vaginal discharge its either white or clear, but now I'm getting it clear & pinkish, like blood. It kinda scares me. So i don't know if its normal.

[bhavi4922]

so dr. i'm 20 years old and my g.f is 16years old...so i will fist time sex my life and my g.f...so what for advice u?plz tell me...and i done sex so what problem my g.f after weekeds?plz dr. tell me

[faisalzaman792]

if any girl want the sex with me pls contect me soon

[wizardlover498]

I'm 13 years old and i decided to sneek out of my house while my dad was sleeping at 2 in the morning. i had sex with this guy and it hurt at first but then it got better. i was kinda sore when i left and he txt me and told me that there was blood on the condom. i was mortified. i came home and put a tampon iin thinking it must have been my period. im glad that i looked this up so i know that im okay.

[Curious17Lass]

Hi im 17 and i havent lost my virginity yet but i think it might happen soon with my Bf; but i would like to know if us girls bleed during or after sex?? and how much and for how long >>> COMMENTS pleaseee !!!

[Curious17Lass]

Hi im 17 and i havent lost my virginity yet but i think it might happen soon with my Bf; but i would like to know if us girls bleed during or after sex?? and how much and for how long >>> COMMENTS pleaseee !!!

[wacko1356]

it didn bleeded me much the first time i had sex....but my periods for the same month occured later i had a sexual intercourse again after a 15 days it didn pain me much but after a day or two my stomach started paining  and i feel like vomitting...am i pregnanat ??can any one please get me a answer for dis ?? am tensed ?

[skysam904]

i just simply enjoyed my gf for first time in last night. both of us loses virginity may be. There is bleeding into the vagina of my gf after that night when we made sex with each-other.iam little bit confuse and sacred about it.My gf is 8 months older than me. please suggest me what should we do?
is there will be again, pain & bleeding for second time ?
Both of us are 21 years old :(

[JacksonKay]

Im 19 years old and just lost my virginity on Friday and we used protection.. I only spotted alittle bit that night but now it's sunday and im spotting more.I just dont know if spotting more is normal?? helpp!

[drsuzy77]

its all normal. most girls bleed but some don't because of using tampons and playing sports. your vagina is more open because it got stretched out during sex.

[kotahbug95]

if thats normal then why did I only bleed for about 5 minutes and i ended up bleeding more when I had sex with my current boyfriend... is it possible that the first guy didnt pop it all the way?

[harz]

hi every1 i had sex in 2007 but not fully once he put it i screamed out of pain n he took it out. v had nearly 5 to 6 times in d same way but it never bleed for me.. is it because v dint have it hard?? i dont know whether i lost my virginity or no?? never did i see blood bleedin in my case. n nw its long time since i had sex so if i ve again will it bleed?? pls any1 help me i m totally tensed.

[pokerdots123]

hey just wondering, how much did you bleed? was it a little or a lot? and im a virgin, and im seeing this guy and we've already started talking about sex and im just really scared about how much i might bleed, im 17 btw

[pokerdots123]

clearblue :)

[harz]

hi this is Harz. i have a question which i postd top. can u read it n tel me ans if u know. m a little tensed. pls help if u dnt mind

[zhengcheng96]

I told you that free sex without marriage is "PROHIBITTED", it'll makes a great destruction to us as a mankind, will wreck our social life & relationship  & other problem. so get atonement all of you guys coz that'll soften our sins

[zhengcheng96]

I told you that free sex without marriage is "PROHIBITTED", it'll makes a great destruction to us as a mankind, will wreck our social life & relationship  & other problem. so get atonement all of you guys coz that'll soften our sins

[N0703]

i need help! im 18 had sex recently for the first time on the 27th Feb,2012, 5 days after i saw my period it came normal like every month same amount of bleeding and same amount of days, after my period finished i went for a pregnancy test just to be sure, he didn't break inside of me, we didnt use a condom, but i'm curious if i am idk y so i did 2 test both said i was safe that i'm not pregnant but nw it's been a mnth im xpectin my period ntime n i'm seeing blood but in very small amounts, y is that? is it cause my body is changing up cause i'm now active?

[RedRosess]

I'm 26. I had sex for the first time last week. We did use condum. I did not pay much attention to bleeding during our intercourse lol. Next morning I saw some blood spots. It was not a lot of bleeding. I was spotty for 2 days and was back to normal on the third day. It's been a week now and I got my periods today.

[jaypol]

Hi... I had sex with my GF last night and that is my first sex... I'm wondering why coz she did'nt bleed and I observed during our entercourse, seems like she did'nt feel any pain. Is she still a virgin? Coz I remember, she told me, when she was in college her bf just kiss only her in touch her private parts but no entercourse.

Is she's telling the truth?

[sam441]

tow days ago i lost my virginity am 26 years old and never had sex before also this wasnt sex he just push himself insid me ones and i start bleeding too much thats not normal i bleed alot and am still bleeding but its less the problem that i dont know if i lost it or not and if i did how am going to fix that cause i should be virgin if i want to get marred pleas help me and tell me what to do thank you

[SilentSorrow]

i'm 19 and me and my boyfriend after 3years that we were ready to make love, but as soon as he tried to go inside me, it hurt bad and i told him to stop, as soon as i felt pain, he came out and we stopped, we went back to the living room and watched tv. when i got up, i felt weird, went to the restroom and i was bleeding, at first it was the kind of blood you get before you start your period and then it turned dark red, it went on heavy for that day, and the next day the same way, i was scared that somethin had happened to me, but my period came 2days ago so im confused about what happened and im scared to do it again, do you think i will bleed if we try again?

[SilentSorrow]

foreplay. a lot of foreplay. you want to make sure that you are really wet and ready for him to penetrate you, if not it hurts, and you wont enjoy it as much, i bled for 2 days and then iwas back to normal, and my period came back normal 2weeks later, just make sure that you wear a condom (lubricated intensly) so that you'll feel better and you wont bleed so much (in some cases, girls dont even bleed) hope all goes well :)

[charl0tt3x]

i really need advice about what to expect my first time what will happen and what i should do afterwards

[charl0tt3x]

btw im 16 and my bf is 20 he is not a virgin i am.
thanks

[1029ncmapd]

I lost my virginity last Friday and then Sunday after Sunday I spot bled for about 3 days, idont anymore but it kinda hurts when I pee.
Am I pregnant?
Please help

[Cookie34433]

That is helpful. I am turning 30 tomorrow and I just had sex for the first time last night. It hurt a lot but he was as gentle as he could be. For me there was a lot of blood but maybe I am seeing more then is really there??? It seems like the beginning of my period but I am not due for that for two more weeks.

[Susanna1995]

When i lost my vriginty Which was yesterday it was so painful i did not enjoy it at all.im very sore and still bleeding a little the sad thing is that i only lasted like less then a minute i couldnt stand the pain  

[ame88]

I lost my virginity last Sunday (10 June)...it was painful and I bled, but even after 2-3 hours of having completed the act I kept bleeding and I thought I am having my menstruals.
For the next few days I had little and stained (not red blood flow) spotting. Now I am experiencing cramps (and getting paranoid).
Is there a chance that I might have gotten pregnant?
Please guide.

[okay2]

Im 15 and me and This boy i met that day had sex in the  pool and its been a week almost two and i just started bleeding yesterday and its heavy. I dont wanna tell my parents and i dont wanna go to the doctors what should i do

[imran2468]

mujhe kya pata

[luvpurple5678]

I just lost my virginity to my boyfriend 3 days ago. He is experienced from the past with his last girlfriend. When we started having sex it hurt really bad and he told me to try to relax. I tried to relax and it took a little bit. But when i relaxed it stopped hurting as much. It lasted 20-30mins. When he finished and took out his penis i didnt hurt at all but i bleed like i had my period. later that night it was the tiniest bit tender and i wasnt bleeding as bad. On Saturday it didnt hurt at all but im still bleeding. I think its spotting its mixed with discharge. Is it going to eventually stop? Should i be concerned? Why did i barley hurt at all after? When should i be fine to have sex again?

[malaula196]

So I had sex for the first time on tuesday night (30-31st oct). It was with my boyfriend. Although he went slow (or at least tried to) and softly, it still hurt. It must have lasted about 30-40 minutes or so (I had been drinking...so my judgement of time was off and I also was not thinking about that).
He used a condom. In fact he changed condoms every time he pulled out because I am not on birth control and was thus paranoid.
We did it again the next morning when we woke up. We were both sober and it was still just as uncomfortable.

It's been 4 days or so and I am spotting/bleeding.
I considered buying plan b and i asked him to go and check the condoms, which were all 'good' according to him.
I'm paranoid about being pregnant. I'm only 20 and that would just crush me (and I'm sure he feels the same way).
It all kinda happened so quickly and, although we did it twice and I wanted to at the time, I'm starting to think that I might also have post-sex depression of some sort.

so: 1) could I still be pregnant?? should i go take a pregnancy test??
2) am I spotting because it was still too rough??
3) how can i get over these blues? like I almost don't want to see him kinda of blues...

please help me!!

[browneyes351]

So I had sex for the first time on Friday night and since he didn't know it was my first time, he wasn't exactly going slow...
It hurt quite a lot, and we had to stop after a while because I was bleeding quite heavily.
Not only was this mortifying, but yeah I just wanted check that this wasn't abnormal -  I'm still sore now and I can't figure out if it's because my hymen was possibly broken - although I'm twenty and figured that it would have broken long ago - or just because of the friction...
Any advice would be welcome!

[tiddly]

I have just started bleeding a had sex for the first  3 days ago it that normal :(

[Diamond6]

I'm 17 I lost my virginity two days ago and I'm still bleeding I don't bleed much when I stand up but when I pee I bleed a lot!! I'm really scared and don't know if that's normal or not!!
Any help??

[frerard123]

during sex i bled quite heavily and then today too, also i was wondering does the pill still work if you don't take your 7 day break (we used protection but in curiosity)

[hnw121507]

I will still bleed after having vigorous sex from time to time and I have a kid but if you are really worried you can always ask your doctor....good luck

[Justmenmydog]

I'm 22 and just lost my virginity. Before that I used to masturbate. We had sex twice the first day and I didn't bleed at all but I was slightly sore. After that we had sex off and on with at least a day in between and each time I would be tight and sore after but no blood. That went on for two weeks and then he went in vacation. He was gone for a week and while he was gone I developed a yeast infection. When he came back and we had sex again, I'd been treating it for 4 days. My problem is this; Sex HURT this time and I bled a moderate amount. I've been really sore to the touch for over 24 hours and I'm still bleeding a tiny bit. Also, the smell is stronger than normal. (I am still treating for the yeast infection, I haven't missed a treatment and it's a 7 day treatment). Just now I took a bath with Epsom salts, baking soda, Rosemary E Oil and Tea Tree E oil and while I was using my fingers to flush out my vagina there were some small particles (dried blood? Membrane?) coming out. Very small and almost clear. I'm not sure what it means. Should I be worried? Did it really take my bf 3 weeks to "pop my cherry"? How long will it take for me to stop feeling tight and sore every time we do it?

[Jessbase]

Hey , I'm 18 and I recently lost my virginity to my boyfriend and well at first he was fingering me and I was sorta bleeding not to much and then we got it in and I obviously bled more. The next morning it was gone. 2 days later he was fingering me and I started to bleed once again so we stopped. A day later I was showering and I was washing down there ad touched a bit inside to clean and started bleeding again .....? Should I be scared or

[scarletta94]

I had sex for the first time 3 days ago, i've been bleeding since but its kinda stoping now. I have really bad stomach ache and im not hungry at all, i feel nausea. PLEASE HELP

[scarletta94]

heeey i hope you're ok by now... please help me... I had sex for the first time 3 days ago, i've been bleeding since but its kinda stoping now. I have really bad stomach ache and im not hungry at all, i feel nausea. Did you ended up being pregnant?

[teen_n_trouble]

Hi I know this is wierd but i am an 13 year old girl and I get teased at school for being a virgin. So about 10-20 mins. ago I turned on some porn and played with myself. After I got out a vibrator and played..... Well u know. So I tried to put it in me but it started to hurt. So then I stoped and I saw that I was bleeding down there. So wat do I do...... Should I just fake like I'm on my period. Please help

[luvya386]

A couple days ago I lost my virginity we were careful and used a condom. I bled a lot though and I've been mildly freaking out. The last few days I've been spotty but the blood hasn't been red, it was sort of brown and I've been sore. Can anyone tell me when the bleeding and the tenderness will stop?

[mena1234]

I am 20 turning 21 and I lost my virginity today with my boyfriend of over 1 year. Protected of course. It was hard getting his d*ck in cuz he kept getting erect then not then erect again and again. lol. and I think I'm tight so it was kinda hard getting it in (I never inserted more than two fingers and that kinda already hurt), but when i did, i felt pain and discomfort. It became better when I relaxed more but it still hurt a bit. He wiped the condom with a tissue and got shocked at the site of blood. It bled a moderate amount and we just continued doing other things to finish up because it was feeling quite sore.

I have masturbated before and though I already broke my hymen.
Our mistake wasn't having enough foreplay and we were super in the mood so I guess there was a lack of erection and lubrication.

Is there a chance i'll bleed again?

[mena1234]

*sorry we weren't super in the mood

[Stringbean44]

I just lost my virginity on Friday and it was horrible but I'm 19 should I go in to the doctor and get looked at and on birth control?

[soso212]

I'm having sex for the first time what should I do I don't know anything , can we the first ttime have 2 houres sex ? And can we do it the next day plz help