Can I be pregnant through anal sex w/o ejaculation

[Heavenkittykat13]

Hello i'm 18 years old...I'm quite educated about pregnancy and stuff..But today me and my bf had anal sex..I know that anal sex can get you pregnant but is it still possible if he didn't ***? I know sperm can get into your vagina when a man ejaculates during anal sex...What if he did not ejaculate...Also we used a lubricant and I also researched that lubes can prevent the motility of the sperm...So what do you think guys? Can I become pregnant? Please help! I'm stressing....I need help..Thanks..Your advice would be greatly appreciated...

[monkeyflower]

Here are some references if you're interested in reading further on the subject:

http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/entrez/query.fcgi?CMD=search&DB=pubmed

http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/entrez/query.fcgi?cmd=Retrieve&db=pubmed&dopt=Abstract&list_uids=12762415&query_hl=9&itool=pubmed_docsum

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pre-ejaculate

http://www.managingcontraception.com/questions_new/miscellaneous/q-a_ms_10-20-00.html

http://www.cdc.gov/reproductivehealth/Products&Pubs/Africa/Chap_19.pdf

http://www.sexualhealth.com/question.php?Action=read&question_id=2877&channel=1&topic=20

http://www.goaskalice.columbia.edu/3127.html

http://www.teenwire.com/ask/2004/as-20040624p813-sperm.php

[anamri]

Many, MANY men have sperm in their precum.  It has NOTHING to do if wether or not you have urinated before or not... precum is designed to nuetralize any traces of urine and also help lubricate the path for maximum motility of the sperm.  

Not ALL men have sperm in their precum, but it is very common to have sperm in precum... hence the "popular belief".

[monkeyflower]

Actually, despite popular belief there shouldn't be sperm in pre-ejaculate, unless he hasn't urinated since the last time he ejaculated. In any case, pregnancy from what you describe is impossible. But since you're this worried, I agree; getting back on birth control sounds like a very good idea. Why worry this much for no reason? :-)

[wisdomlover]

Here is something to keep in mind.Although sperm in the anal canal alone can not get you pregnant,here is something to keep in mind.If before doing anal sex,if he rubs his penis on or in your vagina as a little tease like most men like to do, then yes, you can get pregnant off pre-*** drips.He does not have to come in you full force to make a baby.
I have been married for 9 years and my husband did not come in me and I got pregnant from the pre-*** drips.
Also, if the guy comes in your anus, the sprem HAS to come back out and can live for 24 hours in a warm body,if some accidently leaks down to your vagina when he pulls his penis out or if you turn and move to get up the wrong way or you accidently pick up the wrong end of the towel/rag to wipe your self down after he's wiped himself down, you could get pregnant. Sure, some lubricants slow down sperm, it doesn't kill them though.Best thing to do is use a condom even for anal sex! I also read a survey about this and there ARE women who claim that the only sex they had was anal and they did get pregnant.I researched this topic for my husband/myself before. All it takes is one little sperm to splash your vagina by the ways I mentioned above.Hope this helps.

[Heavenkittykat13]

umm actually well he didn't *** in my anus i'm just worried about the precum and no he didn't rub his penis in my vulva or anything and no i didn't wipe myself with the same tissue that he wiped himself with...so is it likely or unlikely? coz i know it's possible though...i've been in a birth control  before but i stopped i probably get it back just to give me a peace of mind

[Red_Rose]

I think its safe to say to stop stressing, like the others said impossible, only if the sperm actually went on ur vagina and then it would have to make its way up too! Even if there was precum like u said u used a lube and it wouldnt be enough anyway. I know sperm can be good swimmers but not that good! ;-P

[mrsfraser]

how would u get pregant from anal sex? it isn't hooked to the reproduction system.No u can't get pregant for anal sex

[monkeyflower]

No way can you get pregnant from anal sex. The only way you could be is if he pulled out and ejaculated on your anus/vulva, which he didn't do.