Hello medhelp community,
i am married for 5 years, i was in this relationship for 7 years, since we got married i developed a fissure in the forschette, that is the region between the vagina and perineum, i get like a paper-cut, like a pencil line drawn fissure if there was no foreplay and ususally in the same spot all over again and this continues for 5 years, if for example we had sex 8 times this month, 4 times i will have this fissure and a little pain, im not so concerned about the pain, it's so very little. But what worries me is this.... i got an ongoing issue here, the skin in this area is continuously being damaged and broken, cells are being continuously sent in this little region, that is what provokes many autoimmune diseases, i am so very afraid of developing lichen sclerosis, i have a father who has egzema, on the hands, and another autoimmune disorder, so i am afraid this constant ripping in the same spot for years can provoke some autoimmune reaction from my organism, i need feedback, i need some experiences from women who have got this fissure for years and nothing serious happend to them in the lond run, i know that this fissure is happening because of my husband's penis girth he has 5.9 inches circumference and i rip always after sex, i know that with smaller penis i wouldnt have got this problem, i had a boyfriend who was small and didnt have any problems whatsoever, please help me with some feedback about this issue but on the long run, i am afraid i can develop lichen sclerosis, how can i be sure i wont develop it in the long run?
Thank you all for your replies
ps: english is not my mother tongue, i am from Europe, so sorry for the spelling mistakes.