Can you be pregnant and still have a normal period??

[AJ_JC]

I was wondering if anyone had any advice for me. For the last three months in a row I have had light pinkish spotting a couple days before my period is supposed to start and it comes with nausea and just a blah feeling. I still end up getting my period on time and it's normal the only thing that is not normal is this spotting I have been having and especially the nausea! It's getting old. The spotting usually only lasts a day or two and then my period eventually starts and is about 4 days long. I am 28, not on BC pills.
Also today what really got me thinking, is that I woke up as dizzy as I have ever been (I never get dizzy and have never fainted.)  I am perfectly fine, not sick or anything...so it made me think of my friend who had been dizzy during her pregnancy...don't know if I am reading into this more than what is there.  Also I have been constipated (I know too much information :) but the only times in my life I have been like this is when I was pregnant or just after giving birth.  I have also noticed a little weight gain.
I just wanted some opinions as I can't afford a doctors bill right now, nor a pregnancy test for that matter.  So can you be pregnant and still get a period or am I just having wishful thinking...
Thank you,
AJ

[Kae06]

U can I was pregnant twice and both times my perode came 2 months straight what got ne worried was when they was late

[L333]

Oops, seems I've copied and pasted my response incorrectly. I apologize ladies. It's all here, just a bit re-reading of some lines:).

[L333]

The truth is, that a lot of women be them poor, balanced financially, or rich would want to experience the joy of having children. This is a proven fact that EVERY woman's body is different, so a pregnancy and/or period cycle will be different because we're all different. I'm quite sure this woman is aware of her financial situation, so I doubt she needs people giving negative feedback to her questions. Absolutely, one should answer questions honestly and truthfully if one chooses to ask, but that doesn't mean one has to be cruel. What if you are in that same situation as she? What if your financial situation miraculously changed in a way in which you could not control?? What if by chance YOU were to be this woman, in the same situation AND having no one and anything that could provide some friendly "girlfriend" advice but this particular website? As women, and people, andThe truth is, that a lot of women be them poor, balanced financially, or rich would want to experience the joy of having children. This is a proven fact that EVERY woman's body is different, so a pregnancy and/or period cycle will be different because we're all different. I'm quite sure this woman is aware of her financial situation, so I doubt she needs people giving negative feedback to her questions. Absolutely, one should answer questions honestly and truthfully if one chooses to ask, but that doesn't mean one has to be cruel. What if you are in that same situation as she? What if your financial situation miraculously changed in a way in which you could not control?? What if by chance YOU were to be this woman, in the same situation AND having no one and anything that could provide some friendly "girlfriend" advice from this particular website? As women, and people, and human beings, we should learn from the pain we all feel from life, from our family, from the world, from people and attempt to provide some words of love to a fellow being. Guys, really..... look at your posts..... look at what you've made an innocent woman feel. I take no sides, I'm just sadden at the negativity and the hate being showed. Every side has a a COMPLETELY valid and understandable point. Yes, if you cannot afford a child you should take pro cautions to avoid the responsibility, and if you'd like advice on a uncertain situation regarding anothers experiences as women and her experience in woman hood you should be able to get a HONEST, yet caring and loving answer. Let's be real everyone, we are all learning every movement of every day of our lives; From our children, our family, our friends, and people we are yet aquatinted to, so, WE DO NOT KNOW IT ALL. WE ARE NOT PERFECT. WE ALL MAKE MISTAKES. WE ARE NOT PERFECT PARENTS. So let's reserve the judgement, the "I know it all comments", and the cruelty for the children of this generation that we put so much time into teaching the right ways of life to becoming a better, loving person. As human beings, we should learn from the pain we all feel from life, from our family, from the world, from people, and attempt to provide some words of love to a fellow being. As a family friend always told when me and another friend were fighting and/or being mean to one another..."Be Nice Ladies". Much love to you all, be wishes and good luck. May you experience life in all the ways in which you deeply desire.

[love265]

is there any possible way you can get prego from anal sex!?? so me and my boyfriend had unprotected anal sex while i was on my period. i am scared that if any of his semen got around that area thatvi could get prego?? is thaf true and what are my chances.. i got my period the next month but it was a week early and seemdd normal (filled up my tampons, red color, heavyish on some days, lasted 5 days) also can you ovulate normaly while pregnant ? cause i have had stringy clear mucous.. im scared cause my breast have been hurting a little over the past two days but on h
s had more pain than the other..i was told that it could be from ovulating..my period  is suppose to come on the 7th of june but my period has always been irragular...can someone pleasee help me???  im not ready for a baby nor do i want one at this time..
*****PLEASE HELP!!!!!********

[bosslady1986]

Yes you can have a regular period and be pregnant I am and Istill have periods.........  

[me100percent]

there are ways to be accurate and straight to the point without being *******'s about it.She asked a question to people who she thought was in a community of women not judging women , for an honest answer not ignorant people like you who have no real concept of women helping women.Instead you choose to put her down, maybe someone did that to you or it's a way of exerting anger and hatred toward yourselves.The answer to the question, and take notes ladies... Is,     "Yes, it is very possible to have bleeding that mimmicks a period, while still pregnant.However, the best way to tell is to take a home pregnancy test, or see your doctor for answers.I also know that there are many community based programs out there that will offer testing for free, I'm not sure where your located, but in my opinion, this is your best option at this point."



DID YOU CATCH THAT LADIES?

[me100percent]

you are all a big bunch of *******! I'm sure when one of you end up in a situation like her's you won't post it, because your all for show. Very fake individuals.How can you advocate posting to a website when your really just waiting for any excuse to impose your misery on someone else.


*******!*******!*******!    

[JJety]

"nastier" is such a foul word. I prefer "honest", "to the point", "not peddling rainbows and kittens", etc.

[anxiousmomtobe?]

Is it because I am getting nastier due to the hormones.

[peekawho]

Ditto!

[JJety]

"If you want honey and roses ask your mum."

lol!  I like you more and more each day.  :-D

[anxiousmomtobe?]

You asked for opinions and now you scream, foul because you don't like what some people say.  If you want honey and roses ask your mum.  The women here are honest, often to a fault.  If you can't take that, don't post.

Please go back and read your original post.  It sets off all sorts of red flags for folks when someone hopes to be pregnant and then says in the same breath they can't afford a simple pregnancy test.  It makes you look ill-prepared to bring another child into your family.

I am all for mums staying at home, I think it is great.  I left a career and started my own company so I could work from home.  So I walk around the house with a cordless headset on **** normal mum things until a client calls.  It works very well for me.

If money is so terribly tight, maybe you could look into a part time job that you could work at when your husband is at home.  You may not be open to this, but it could help relieve your stress.

Also, do you not have medical insurance?  If not that is highly irresponsible.  What would you do if you, your son or your husband got sick?  I find it very scary that you cannot go to a doc.

I am sure you are lovely with your boy.  However, as his parent you are supposed to provide for his needs as well.  That doesn't mean you have to have lots of money, but he should have financial security.  If your husband has a good job, maybe you would both benefit from financial counselling.  My DH and I did that before we were married and it was such a help.  We started off with a budget and over the past five years our savings and income has grown.  We still live on the orginal budget, even though there is a little extra now.

I am sure you think I am judging you.  that is not my intent, I just think you are young in your thinking.

[mslkpage]

I really don't understand what you were expecting here. Go to planned parenthood and ask for an exam and a test. Symptoms mean nothing. To tell you otherwise would be inaccurate.

[AJ_JC]

WOW, are you a judgemental bunch!  Gee!  I will save enough $ out of my husband's next paycheck on Friday and will have to find out then.  Maybe you could learn something if you walked in someone elses shoes for a day!  How unloving a bunch you are...you know it's not easy being a stay at home mom with one paycheck, living paycheck to paycheck because you want to do what's best for your son.  There is more to this life than money and because someone doesn't have much doesn't make me any lesser of a person.  I am a terrific mom and everyone that meets my son are just refreshed to be able to see a loving, polite little child.  
Maybe you all should look in the mirror and reflect on the way you have treated me...I am DONE with this group!

[Christie04_returns]

No one is calling you a bad mother.  You said you couldn't afford a doctor or a pregnancy test, and wanted opinions.

So you got some.  My opinion? You will have to take a test.  Mslkpage was right, they cost $1 some places.  If you don't have that, I seriously hope you consider postponing a possible pregnancy, for your family's sake. No, money is not everything.  But not having a dollar or two is a huge sign of severe financial problems that will be intensified with the incredible expense of a child.

Take a test if you are unsure.  That's my advice.

[nowherechild]

Will opinions really help a lot in determining if you're pregnant?
If you really can't afford a pregnancy test or a doctor, I guess you should just keep an eye out for the emergence of a baby.  It's pretty hard to miss.

In all seriousness, yes you can bleed during pregnancy and think it's a period. You will have to either A)Take a test or B)Go to the doctor.

The test is probably gonna be the cheaper of the two options, and will give you an answer sooner than just watching for the baby to come out.

[JJety]

You're right, I'm sorry.  In my opinion, you're just having wishful thinking.  You'll need a doctor's examination to explain the symptoms.

[AJ_JC]

Gee Thanks, you've all been really helpful...  :S

[peekawho]

Not if you use Dollar Store Diapers.  

It's all the same there.  

[mslkpage]

28 years old and you can't afford a pregnancy test? Do you have a Dollar Tree? They cost a dollar at Dollar Tree. Pick up some aluminum cans and recycle them and earn $1.

Or go to a Planned Parenthood and ask for an exam and pregnancy test.

[JJety]

You want to be pg, but can't afford a pg test?  You do know a single pack of diapers costs more than a pg test, right?

[peekawho]

No,you can't have a "normal period" and still be pregnant.  A menstrual period, by the definition of the word, only occurs when you AREN'T pregnant.  But you can have bleeding that is often mistaken for a period.  Many women bleed during pregnancy.

Well, I guess if you can't afford to go to the doctor or shell out a couple of dollars for a test, you're out of luck so far as answers go.  You'll just have to wait until you can save up enough for a cheap pregnancy test.  Some places have them for a cuple of dollars.  That shouldn't take you too long.

[pertykitty]

judgemental? you say you cant afford a $7 test, and you know how expensive a baby can be, so why do you feel judged that we cant believe you would prevent a pg if you live on paycheck to paycheck? if you were pg how would you pay for another baby?? nobody said you were a bad mother. nobody said anything BUT maybe you should be more careful (its  VERY easy to avoid pregnancy) if you cant afford it right now. so we didnt give you the balloon and flower answer of oh yes you must be!! some of us live in the real world and understand the cost factor. if we cant afford it, we dont do it!

garden of roses or whatever, you must be new, the question i cant afford a test but might be pg is a dime a dozen around here. some of us dont sugar coat or give false hope it will be ok. i tell you id rather have someone tell me the truth, rather than make me think having not an extra ten bucks is ok to have a child! i most certainly would never have one and expect the gov. to pay for it.

[debbiedowner]

Who is judging her? All the others said was to either take a test or go to the doctor.  Do you have some other accurate way to tell her if she's pregnant?
Low income or not, there are inexpensive ways to answer this question.