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Can you get pregnant if you get fingered?

well me and my boyfriend were messing about, and i was giving him a hand job, he precumed once but i whiped it away and put it on the bed, he then fingered me.but im not sure if he had it on his hands, BUT HE DID NOT *** PROPERLY! and now ive told my friend it happened and shes said i could get pregnant, i had my period like a fue days after, and i was on heavy, is there anychace i could be pregnant?
im really worrying and i carnt stop thinking about it, PLEASE HELP.
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The chance of you getting or being pregnant from that is really low. I don't think you have anything to worry about.
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probably, most likely not, however, there are those odd, 1 in a million cases. If you had a havy period a few days after I would not be concerned. But if you are going to be sexually active, I would suggest possibly getting on Birth Control? If your period comes next month and you have no other symtpoms, I would say you are safe, but if there is any chance sperm got in the vagina, no matter how small an amount, no matter what, there is always a chance you could get pregnant
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i had this same situation today, me and my boyfriend were messing around i gave him a handjob and he spermed on my hand and he fingered me but im nt sure if had any sperm on his hand or not and afterward his "teased" me and got some sperm on my butt and my leg. i dnt kno if im pregnant,im reall young and im really scared so please help
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Hi, I'm Sara, a RN. I would tell you the exact same thing that I did in the post directly above yours. I'll copy and paste it here:
probably, most likely not, however, there are those odd, 1 in a million cases. If you had a havy period a few days after I would not be concerned. But if you are going to be sexually active, I would suggest possibly getting on Birth Control? If your period comes next month and you have no other symtpoms, I would say you are safe, but if there is any chance sperm got in the vagina, no matter how small an amount, no matter what, there is always a chance you could get pregnant
I'm taking an educated guess and thinking that since you're young, your anxiety is already increased as you are new to sex and they whole experience. As a nurse, I beleive in schools and in health classes, the information they give you is made to scare you a bit so you do take care ofg yourself and air on the caucious side. Truthfully most pregnencys happen through the usual vaginal to penis sexual intercours, and not from those rare instenses. The information/suggestion I gave you for a contraceptive to take is one I strongly encourage you to think about, because as you said, you are young, and you do want to take care of yourself right now. Always use protection as iff you catch something that's permenant, you can't go back and fix it :). I hope this helps and eases your fears as I don't think the chances of pregnancy are likely in this situation. If you have any other questions or worries always feel free to post here, and remember it's considered normal to have some anxiety about sex when it's your first experience with it. I'm sending you good thoughts and best wishes and hope everything works out, take care!

Sara RN
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oh my goodness thank you, this is such a relief really,i thank you so much and im glad u helped me. im due for my period in about approxamailty two weeks! and thank you again but i have one more question, should i take a pregnancy test and im 14 and i cant tell my mom or my family about this, we are southern traditional and im a "goody two-shoes" but ive just been very scared lately and my bf is always here to reasurre me but im glad i have a nurse telling me my chances thank you very very much! i appreciate it!!
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I'm glad my post could help :). Well, keep in mind that if you're overly stressed, that can have an effect on your periods and can even cause your cycles to be irregular. Having said that I would wait 2 weeks and see if your period comes at the usual time. If it's late, DON'T PANIC :). It could simply be that this month you're irregular and/or your hormones are a little out of whack. Based on all the information you gave me, even if you completely miss your period this month, I wouldn't do anything drastic yet. So when next month comes I would expect your period to have come by this time. If by the end of next month you miss your period again, then I would take action to investigate. If you feel scared or worried about hiding this from your family, do you have a doctor that you can go to that you trust? That way, not only can you get a pregnacy test in the office, answer within minutes, and if it's negative, explore further options for your missed period. Otherwise there are other ways for you to get a pregnancy test, certainly your family does not have to know. But, this is also getting way ahead of things, as you still have 2 weeks to see if your initial period comes. So my best suggestion is to hang on, try not to panic or get ahead of yourself, and take things one day at a time, as looking into the future won't help at all because you aren't there yet! So wait to see if your period comes at all this month, see if it comes next month, but if by the end of next month it doesn't come, THEN take a pregnancy test-if negative, go to your doctor. Know that I am sending you good wishes and calm thoughts and can only tell you that this too shall pass, and I wish I could take your worries away! Take care and definitely post again if you need to!

Sara RN
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so i can go to the doctor nd get a pregnancy test without my mom finding out?  if so it will be a relief nd im trying my hardest to nt stress about this so my period will come
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Yes, you should be able to see your doctor and have all information kept confidential-unless any information is found in which you are in harms way (since you are a minor). But a pregnancy test should be kept confidential. If you have a Planned Parenthood in your city, that's another safe place to go that's completely confidential. But again, I would really try not to stress yourself to death yet! :). If it would ease your mind to get a test, that's certainly ok, what's most important is taking care of yourself. Whatever you chose, I hope your worries are set to peace set, and of course, am sending my best thoughts and wishes! Take care :)

Sara RN
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Sorry to intrude but I gave my bf a hand job and he came. He then fingered me but only once because it hurt me. Is there a chance I could be pregnant? My period isn't due for around 3 weeks!
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Yeah that happend to me to kind of. He came and it came down my back to my butt and I don't know if it got in, then he fingered me and I'm really scared. Could I get pregnant?
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That same thing kind of happend to me. Me and my bf were messing around and he evacuated on my back and sOme went down to my butt and I don't know if any went in my vag but he fingered me afterward..should I be worried?
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Hi I had sexual intercourse with my boyfriend about 2 weeks ago, I have him a hand job , and I'm freaking out . I don't know if sperm got on or near my vagina , I had my pants and underwear off and I'm extremely worried . My period is irregular and I am on the pill. But the day I did this I missed my pill. He ejaculated on my hand , and we were laying side by side . And it wasn't pointing towards my vagina. And I wiped it off then a few hours later , touched myself. Could I be pregnant ? I'm really worried please help.
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So my boufriend fingered me a week ago and he said he was sure he didnt have *** on his finger and that his hands were dry and i was supposed to get my period on sunday & its already wednesday and im really worried that i might be pregnant, i usually get my period late but is it also late cause ive been worrying too much ? I really dont know what to do someone help please !!!
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what's is the difference between *** and sperm cells? my bf fingered me on april 24,2012  and I haven't got my period but I was late already. can I be pregnant?
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c u m*
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can you help me please!?
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So I have my bf a hand job. Their was a little ** on my finger. Then I wiped it off and we talked for like 20 min. Then a bit latter I fingered my vagina a little bit. Is there a chance in pregnant ?
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pib, no.  You can not get pregnant this way.  good luck
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Omg... I'm in the same place... he fingered me (first time ever..) and i tried to give him a HJ but i was grossed because he was kinda wet... and after a couple minutes i went home and showered.. I washed my hands in the shower and then myself.. is there a prob that i might be prego?? We had clothes on... but obviously his hand and mine where down there..
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My boyfriend and me did the same thing he was just touching around the area , then touched himself than touched me again ... He said that it just went in his hand and he went straight to the bathroom to wash it off , straight after that we stopped . My period came 4 days after that (it was late) I'm worried that I might be pregnant , I have heaps of the symptoms but I'm not sure if it's just my period or not , sore breast, fatigue , I don't feel hungry as much ... Am I pregnant ???? I'm so scared , I've cried so many times help me !!! Please
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what if there is no  symptoms.  n I had my  period twice last month.  n no intercourse  
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