Do I need another abortion?

[smee5290]

I had unprotected sex with my boyfriend february 28, and i dont remember when the last time i had my period was..... my best guess by what my periods usually are was probebly february 11th or a couple days before... a month later all my friends and mom got symtoms they were gonna get their periods along with myself and it never came... i got emotional, cramps, extreme bloating but no bleeding... a week ago or so i started tobleed and got all happy, put a tampon in and went out, later when i went to go use another one, just the tip was blood and the bleeding stopped.. what the hll is that all about? did i have a miscarriage? I thought miscarriages were alot of heavy groos bleeding..  but  sooo its April 1rst and I still havent got my period... im really worried because last summer i went threw my first abortion, and i still havent forgiven myself for that. i dont want to go threw another one...

I could have just skipped a period because ive lost alot of weight in the last 3 months and am still on a "diet" people would say.. someone be my angel and help me ease my mind :(

[kris123]

I PM about the website I told you about - I am only giving my adivse telling you to seek all information on abortion even if you have had one - know how they are done, look at pictures, what you baby looks like, how much it cost - also remember it is a busniess for the doctors them "caring" is not real.  that is what i think  i feel for you girl.

"if you are pregnant and you decide to abort, you should do so as early as possible to minimize the risk to your fertility." quote above poster

hummmm  maybe have one before the baby feels pain at 10weeks.  I would say give the baby a chance at life, but this county says you have a choice - so it is up to the women.  Let's face it one has to chose to put to death a baby or have it.  It is a very hard choice and I pray you make the right one.  God loves you no matter what - take care - check out the website the women are so supportive.  I can be judgmental at times because I would never have one or think of having one.  I have also not had one the women on the website have and they move me when I read their posts

[MystikDymund]

I definitly wouldn't recoment an abortion.  Too many of those will seriously damage your ability to conceive later on in life when you plan on it.  What you experienced with the light bleeding sounds like discharge.  I am currently experiencing the same thing, I just havn't taken a pregnancy test yet.  The first thing I recomend is a pregnancy test.  If you, in fact, are pregnant...maybe it's ment to be.  Everything happens for a reason and is always worked out one way or another.  Best of luck and keep me posted if you would like to...

[Stephanie112607]

i had the same problem i had a miscarrage and it only bleed for a couple days maybe 3 days. and my boobs got bigger, and i had so much pain like i was getting a period but i didnt. but i read once you have a miscarrage it can take months for your period to come back

[Amaterasu]

Only you can decide whether or not to get an abortion.  Whatever happened in the past happened and is done and you need to pick up and take the situation from where it is.  You have to decide what you can live with and weigh the risks.  From a medical perspective, each D&C (assuming that is the procedure you are using) increases your chances for something called Asherman's Syndrome.  Asherman's is caused by scar tissue in the uterus, requires surgery, and is a cause of infertility.  Because you are looking at 2 so close together, you are really puting your future fertility at risk, however that is something only you can weigh against how bad it would be for you to have a child now.  Whatever you decide, you need to find out if you are pregnant first and make the decision quickly because if you are pregnant and you decide to abort, you should do so as early as possible to minimize the risk to your fertility.  Whether or not you are pregnant, this should be a wake up call that you need a permanent method of birth control.  I used the Paragard IUD for 9 years and had no problems with it.  The nice part is you don't have to think about birth control and it works for up to 10 years without hormones.  Once you have the IUD removed, your fertility is immediately restored (provided it wasn't damaged by the D&Cs).

[daprincess21]

Im not 100% sure but what i think your asking is not weather to get an abortion, but if you feel this pregnancy would still be viable? i could be wrong, but just listening to your story. I do suggest taking a test or seeing a docter asap. That should help ease your mind a little. In the mean time my opinion would have to be if you do not want to get pg again, please use some protection and birth control. Hope all works out for you. =)

[BabyHardiman]

You are very irresponsible!  I hope the website the above poster has given you will help change your mind.  To keep killing innocent babies because you are irresponsible is JUST WRONG.  

No one can tell you if you are pregnant.  Take your butt down to the pharmacy and get a pregnancy test, and while you are at it stock up on condoms and spermicides.  Don't take another innocent life........

[kris123]

Test.  Listen you don't have to get another abortion.  I am not prochoice but would not tell a woman she couldn't have one.  There is a great website i am going to pm you about.  It is women who have had abortions and regreted them and tell their stories.  It is also a place for women who are thinking about having one.

[missingolivia]

buy a preg test, and i dont think u should have another abortion one because its not safe to have abortions because later on when u do want to get preg it could stop u from doing so, two if u did the deed knowing u already had one before then u should not do it again, did u know after 4 wks the fetus has a heart beat? and besides if u dont want to get preg you should always use a condom the pill is not 100% and i dont agree with abortions.