Thanks so much Annie for your advice,i will defintely look for a good ob-gyn to have the tests done.To slc 44,am greatful for your concern and advice too..Thanks so much i really appreciate your pieces of advice.
I am sorry to hear that you are going through so much right now. I wish I had answers for you, but I do not. All I do know is that anything is possible if we put ourselves in the best position to have it happen. It would seem to me that finding a good partner, one who truly cares and loves you would be such an important part of this problem. Then the two of you could go through this together and that would surely loosen your load. Don't put yourself in the position of being abandoned again. Find someone who loves and respects you for you and then things will certainly improve. Hugs to you, slc
Go see a specialist. Regular gynecologists are really not equipped to know what to do about unusual uteruses, and they often don't do a lot of research before they just tell you one thing or another. What you need is an MRI of the entire structure of your uteruses and pelvis, and then a good doctor to read the MRI and another good doctor to advise you. My perinatologist was the one who assisted me, but also a reproductive endocrinologist could help you. Both are ob-gyns with further training.
The thing about accidentally getting pregnant again when you are already pregnant sounds silly to me, since a pregnancy will shut off your ovulation. So unless the doctor was thinking about you getting pregnant in the very same cycle (before the hormones of pregnancy had shut off the ovulation), I can't imagine what he was talking about. And getting pregnant all in the same cycle sounds no different than twins.
In any case, go see a better doctor, and get lined up for an MRI. Until you know for sure what is really going on, you will not be able to judge whether a surgery to remove the septum is possible or if your uteruses are so separate that it can't help. Septum removal surgery is not an unusual surgery, so keep trying until you find a doctor who is either experienced in this kind of thing or at least is not scared of it (as my first doctor was).
Good luck!