FREAKED OUT AND CONFUSED. sexual question. please help

[emmtees]

Hi, I’m 19 and am somewhat sexually active. I haven’t had sex in over a month thought..
Last night I was at my boyfriend’s house with a few friends. A couple times during the night we would sneak away and mess around. He fingered me at different times throughout the night. I started noticing an uncomfortable feeling after the second time of doing so, and when I got home my clitoris was huge, it completely freaked me out. My clit is bigger than most, I know this, but it has never gotten so enlarged before. It doesn’t really hurt, it is just extremely uncomfortable. I cant even walk normally.. I thought I would go to bed and wake up with everything back to normal, but it has yet to go back to the normal size. I didn’t notice my boyfriend doing anything out of the ordinary either. I know I got excited, but it wasn’t anymore than usual, so I don’t understand why this time this happened. Please let me know of any information on what is happening and the reason for it… I am really concerned and all together freaked out.

[michelleeeeee]

this sounds weird. too big to walk? and no pain?
i think my clitoris is bigger than average usually, and it has swollen bigger on some occasions, but i have had reasons these are:-

when you get turned on blood rushes down there and everything swells (like a hard on for a boy) but goes down after. no pain

pregnancy hormones make everything down there swell. no pain

extreme thrush and scratching can make everything swell up, pain and itching

herpes (caught from husbands coldsore after oral sex - we didnt know it was a coldsore at the time - his 1st one on inside of nose not lip) everything went huge for a week but was mega painful and blisters.

[emmtees]

I've heard about the whole "hard on" thing for girls, and thats what i figured was happening when i got home last night, but the size it swelled to is really weird. I figured it would have gone down by now, and i think it did a little bit, but not nearly all the way. I can walk comfortably now, but i can still just feel that its swollen.  I don't know if it is just because i got turned on and then we stopped or could it possibly be an allergic reaction to something? I am just really confused. This is the first time anything like this happened in the last six months of being with my boyfriend. I know this isn't normal, but i was hoping that it wasn't anything to be alarmed by. I guess I'll have to wait a few days and then see what happens.