HELP I NEVER HAD AN ORGASM!

[sweetcandi3]

Well ladies, I am desperately hoping for some advice. I've never been able to have an orgasm. I am not scared of having one. I've tried by myself several times. I tried vibratos, watching porn, and openly talking with my husband about my problem, who does everything possible to try to get me to that point.  I dont know what happens. I get warm, i can feel pressure building, i even start to begin to feel a throbbing/contracting feeling, like im getting to that point. Then she starts to feel to sensitive and everything goes away. No fluid comes out, no explosion, but the throbbing sensation does feel good. What do I do? Am i really having one and just dont know it?

[smokey401]

i get wet and a rush of fluid when arrosed but not sure if this is orgasm, my clit also throbbs .. is this the big o...

[Aylicia]

relax, Most women are not fortunate to have both clitoral and vaginal orgasms.most woman can only orgasm clitoral my suggestion is to try stimulating that area of your body during vaginal sex.if your dead set on trying for a vaginal orgasm the g-spot is about three inches in and up so position your body with your legs way up or knees bent keep a cushion under you bottom so that your husband can easily reach it and to add to the friction stimulate your clit during that as well RELAX RELAX RELAX and goodluck!

[davializius]

I HAVE ORGASM SEVERAL TIMES, FIRST TIME ME AND MY HUSBAND TRY TO GET ME TO ORGASM WAS REALLY HARD N DIDNT WORK, BUT NOW IS LIKE THE EASIEST THING IN THE WORLD I CAN DEAL WIT!! I'D TAKE SUM LADIES ADVICE IF I WERE U! TRY NOT TO THINK ABOUT IT, HAVE SEX N FOCUS ONLY ON WATS HAPPENING TRY TO GET SUM GOOD FEELINGS BY RUBBING YOURSELF WHILE IN THE MIDDLE OF SEX, YOU KNOW BETTER WAT IM TALKING ABOUT SO YEAH WORK YOUR WAY THERE=) N YEAH ONCE YOUR FIRST ORGASM! YOU WILL EASILY TELL THAT UR GONNA BE ORGASM THE SECOND TIME.. SOME PEOPLE DONT EVEN KNOW WHEN ITS HAPPENING SO DATS PROBABLY UR CASE.. DAT DOESNT MEAN YOU CAN GET AWAY WIT IT.. IF I CAN DO IT! SO CAN U..LOL..

[Nicole624]

You are not the only one, in fact a lot of women dont orgasm during sex. My bf is the only guy who has ever given me an orgasm during sex. I have to be on top and he sits up a little bit. (TMI!) Just relax, and try not to think about it.

[posiposi]

you're over thinking it! most girls DON'T have orgasms every time they have intercourse. it's much harder for women, than men. but just relax, and let it happen!