I have had a harrowing week. After feeling a burning sensation and seeing a bit of discharge and redness between my labia and clitoris, I visited my gyno, who told me she was "suspicious" that I was having a herpes outbreak. After 3 incredibly anxious days of waiting, I heard back from her today that I tested negative both on the vaginal swab and on the blood test I insisted I have done to determine if HSV-2 antibodies were in my system. Because my doc couldn't come up with an answer for my symptoms (apparently it is not a yeast infection, though some, though not terribly significant overgrowth of bacteria was present) she sent me to a more experienced Dr. The Dr. took one look at my vagina and pronounced that it looked like a "classic case" of herpes to her. She suggested that I might have been exposed to herpes in the last 4-8 weeks and it is now showing up. I find this unlikely because I have not had sexual contact with anyone in more than a year and a half. She suggested I could have gotten it from a towel. To be honest, I did share a hotel room with an HSV-2 positive friend of mine, but as I recall we were very careful and she was not having an outbreak at the time. I don't recall using any of her towels and we definitely used different soap. I'm wondering what the likelihood of nonsexual transmission could be. These doctors are scaring me, and I'd like to know if it is for good reason or not.
Also, I have a history of strep B infections and other yeast/bacterial infections, though this time around those things do not appear to be an issue. I'd really like some feedback from someone who has been through something similar.