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How can a doctor help breaking the hymen?

How can a doctor help breaking the hymen?

Hi,
I'm a 24 year old man and I've tried patiently for over a year to do that myself to my 20 year old girlfriend, but she seems to have much pain with it and quickly asks me to stop it cause she is tired and it is hurting too much. We are both tired of that and, although willing to do it, we cant seem to loose her virginity. I've looked into her vagina and I believe that she might have trouble with it because she has a VERY small hole in her hymen to start from...

Anyways,
I love her so much, and I've learned that it can be done with the help of a qualified doctor's intervention.( I supose that a gynaecologist would be responsible for that matter... )

My question is: How can a doctor help in breaking the hymen? what does he do? is it donne by a syrurgic intervention? what is it donne exactly? with what? will it hurt her :( ?

Thank you,
Anounimous_C07
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You probably want to be as sensitive as you can to your girlfriend but most boyfriends tear the hymen by making quick thrusts with an erect penis.

You could ask her to use tampons and that would probably tear the hymen without costing an appointment charge.

Many girls tear their hymen with the use of tampons.
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79258 tn?1190630410
I think it's a very simple and quick procedure, probably done right in the office.

However, it may also be vaginismus, an involuntary physical response to anxiety. That's where the muscles around the vagina contract/spasm, making penetration anywhere from very difficult and uncomfortable, to even impossible. Some say it feels like hitting a wall. Check out www.womentc.com for some descriptions and treatment options.
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173145 tn?1301700850
i have  heard of this and i am assuming that he would make an insicion in the hymen and then some how make sure that it doesnt go back together as it heals and if that is how they would do it then most likely it would be done under general anesthesia. I have hear that some plastic surgens may perform this surgery.
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