Okay, so I'm 14 and I lost my virginity. (Yeah, I know, I'm young but don't comment if you have anything rude to say about it, because like they say, its not the age that matters) But, anyway, I had sex, and it lasted for about five minutes and I bled like, alot. I know that its normal for virgins to bleed, but I was wondering why some people bleed and others don't? Because, most of the people I talked to said they didn't bleed at all. Also, it hurt... Alot, like to the point of tears and I NEVER cry due to pain. But, yeah. Why do some people bleed alot and others don't at all and why does it hurt for some people and doesn't for others? Oh, and uhm... How can you tell if you're pregnant within eight days of having sex? Thanks. (: